Yea he’s paying. The dowry gotta get paid.
How much? 20 bands or 5 bands?
Yea he’s paying. The dowry gotta get paid.
5How much? 20 bands or 5 bands?
What country they from?So one of my homies is getting married and they only been together for a year. He’s an African breh and nikka gotta spend bread on a dowry. Her family originally wanted 20,000 but his family wasn’t having it and dropped it down to 5 racks. The chick he’s marrying is over 30 and was living with a nikka before him.

@Phitz for clarifyingNot even 5KSo one of my homies is getting married and they only been together for a year. He’s an African breh and nikka gotta spend bread on a dowry. Her family originally wanted 20,000 but his family wasn’t having it and dropped it down to 5 racks. The chick he’s marrying is over 30 and was living with a nikka before him.
That's IndiaWhat country they from?
I thought it was the bride's family that traditionally paid the dowry?![]()
That's India
Thanks. i knew i heard that somewhere. Thought i was going crazy. 
Nope, with ADOS women, it's marriage counseling and jump the broom like ya'll do, no bride price. Marriage counseling probably cost enough for half of those marriages.So I can actually charge Africans to marry one of my daughters and they’ll pay?![]()
Damn this got me feeling better
Puts shyt in perspective
Your mans goin out sad

nikka they doing some marriage counselling and he at 70 bands on his wedding so far.Nope, with ADOS women, it's marriage counseling and jump the broom like ya'll do, no bride price. Marriage counseling probably cost enough for half of those marriages.
he needs to bring ALL that up in counseling, he's being generousnikka they doing some marriage counselling and he at 70 bands on his wedding so far.
that's Indianikka they supposed to pay him TF
dowry
noun
- an amount of property or money brought by a bride to her husband on their marriage.
"Elizabeth's dowry was to be £45,000 in diamonds"
I think Ghana or congo. Not sure about her exhe needs to bring ALL that up in counseling, he's being generous
where she from, and where was the guy she was living with from?
Nah he is. His wife wanted there place to be close to her family but he found a spot a half hour away from them.Wouldn't call it a finesse per se, but I don't understand why his fiancée's family is so adamant that he pay???
If I were you, I would tell your home that once he marries, that he keep his in laws out his business!!!