Is my Mom violating?

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DarkSkinSamurai said:
Why the fukk ya bros over 30 still living with they momma:hhh:
How ya bros both got women in they life being over 30 living with they momma:gucci:
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Because she allows them to use high rent/house prices as an excuse:yeshrug:

Eldest brother was out here living with a single mother who he has now impregnated

How you make it to 35 as a Black man with no kids and minimal rent and yet still end up with debts,no place of your own, no investments and knock up a single mother:hhh:

Thats my nikka because hes been a great brother but I hate to see him waste his potential and opportunity :francis:
 
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This is unfortunate..but let's be honest..

A lot of Black parents don't really give a fukk about their kids once they hit 18...especially if that kid is a male...

A lot of Black parent think...you 18...get the fukk out nikka...figure it out..

I am fortunate that my parents never thought like that...

And all the successful Black dudes I know...that go a house and shyt in their 20s with no debt...their parents didn't think just because they are 18...that they should just figure shyt out.....

OP...

I don't know what you gotta do but you it seems like your momma is done with you...

A lot of couples fukk up and have an accident baby...

You are 18 and your brothers in their 30s...you might not have been planned...and your pops said peace out...and don't seem fukk with you or the rest of your family...

I am just making assumptions...giving the available information

But you might have to find your way on your own...

I have a friend like that who parents forced him to get a new car, forced him to pay rent while he got a job and going to college...and trying to avoid going into debt

My sister briefly dated a dude that was 18 had like 4 siblings and he had to work and pay for his cellphone bill and buy his brothers shyt...and was even forced to not to go leave for college because his mom wouldn't sign his financial aid documents or some shyt...

Some parents just don't get it and are a hindrance to their children...

You live in Europe...if you got good marks you should try going to an English speaking college in Germany for free..

Convince your mom to let you stay there until you graduate and just dip and never look back...
 
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CharlieManson said:
This is unfortunate..but let's be honest..

A lot of Black parents don't really give a fukk about their kids once they hit 18...especially if that kid is a male...

A lot of Black parent think...you 18...get the fukk out nikka...figure it out..

I am fortunate that my parents never thought like that...

And all the successful Black dudes I know...that go a house and shyt in their 20s with no debt...their parents didn't think just because they are 18...that they should just figure shyt out.....

OP...

I don't know what you gotta do but you it seems like your momma is done with you...

A lot of couples fukk up and have an accident baby...

You are 18 and your brothers in their 30s...you might not have been planned...and your pops said peace out...and don't seem fukk with you or the rest of your family...

I am just making assumptions...giving the available information

But you might have to find your way on your own...

I have a friend like that who parents forced him to get a new car, forced him to pay rent while he got a job and going to college...and trying to avoid going into debt

My sister briefly dated a dude that was 18 had like 4 siblings and he had to work and pay for his cellphone bill and buy his brothers shyt...and was even forced to not to go leave for college because his mom wouldn't sign his financial aid documents or some shyt...

Some parents just don't get it and are a hindrance to their children...

You live in Europe...if you got good marks you should try going to an English speaking college in Germany for free..

Convince your mom to let you stay there until you graduate and just dip and never look back...
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This is why I fukk with you as a poster. You always keep it real and honest.

I’m starting to come to terms that my parents have exhausted themselves or just don’t love me like that.

shyt aint nice watching your parents love you less as the years pass and watching them devote themselves to becoming grandparents.

I just wish they had more material shyt to give me as a headstart or just not had me if they werent cut out for the next 18 years.
 
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Escobar 600 said:
This is why I fukk with you as a poster. You always keep it real and honest.

I’m starting to come to terms that my parents have exhausted themselves or just don’t love me like that.

shyt aint nice watching your parents love you less as the years pass and watching them devote themselves to becoming grandparents.

I just wish they had more material shyt to give me as a headstart or just not had me if they werent cut out for the next 18 years.
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I mean...your parents love you...but

I think parenting is weirdly hostile thing...because it's creating another person, in your image and holding them hostage as you take care of them...since they are helpless and ignorant of their world that they are in...

Some people are just better at taking care of their hostages as than others...

Like you don't even have full access of your mental capabilities until you are 25...that's why in the USA and I am sure elsewhere, you can't even run for any political office until you are 25...so you are pretty dumb for a quarter of your life...

You shouldn't be forced into a situation where you are homeless as you go to finish high school at 18...while you got a grown ass man just able to chill out just cause...

Maybe it's like...your parents just see you as an afterthought...they rather be grandparents...and have their life back..

A lot of Black parents think...if their kid got food, a roof over their head and clean clothes..then they did good enough...and you as a child should be thankful. I think a lot of Black parents underestimate what it takes to make a fully independent adult. It takes more than 18 years. It takes around 22 to 25 years.

If you have parents like mine...who are really progressive as far as Black parenting goes and probably even close to White parent status...then you are better off...

I know I can depend on my parents...my parents would never just let me be assed out if I am doing the right thing but I just got fukked up out here...

In most other cultures...children live with their parents until they find a mate...

Like my family friend was able to fukk up college, stay home, go back to college, marry a doctor or a pharmacist or some shyt...get a house next door to his parents...have a kid and move to a new city and start this "adult" life at 28...and he's Black American...like he's not Jamaican or whatever...regular nikka....

You should be able to do that...

18 and get out is stupid as fukk...

Nobody else does that...

Hit me up if you need anything...

I am an American breh...but I don't like seeing young Black men struggle...
 
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Escobar 600 said:
Long story short, I live in a two bedroom apartment with my mom, two older brothers (33 and 35) and one of their girlfriends.
I live in London which is expensive asf and kinda like NYC in terms of property prices.

In one of the rooms is my brother and his gf, in the living room my other brother and me and my mom share her room. I’ve never had my own bed and I’m 18 :mjcry:

My brother and his gf are moving out and I was hoping to have their room, however my mom is planning let my 35 year old brother go in there as hes expecting a son in a few months :comeon:


After he moves, shes planning to rent it:dwillhuh:


This nikka been mooching for his whole life, has no savings at all, let alone for a house and child even though he earns more than my mom :gucci:

shyt is depressing me brehs and I need advice :francis:
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So where do you sleep? In the same bed with your mom?
 
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