Is She A Pickme or Right? “Whenever Women Talk About What A “Good Man” Is, it’s Always About Money”

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It's so weird watching Coli men simultaneously demand/expect passive femininity from women while not offering the financial stability to take care of them. Yea, women want stable finances from a man. Money. Money makes everything look better. You know what "thoughtfulness" and planning without money looks like? A picnic date at the park. Some women love that, don't get me wrong. But a lot want more, bigger things. And instead of crying about it, or finding women on the internet who agree with you...maybe you should up your finances. Just saying.

Women are out here waiting for you but you don't even qualify for the game...
That video ain’t have shyt to do with financial stability. Especially if that nikka doing all of that and wasn’t even officially with her yet. But what do I know. I’m just married with kids. Lol
 

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an even exchange is money for money
or looks for looks

generally speaking, money and looks are not equivalent, although “value” is dependent and defined by those involved in the transaction.

I’m of the train of thought that looks, and by extension sex, are not equivalent to money. A woman should want to be with you because she’s attracted to you, she should want to fukk you because she takes pleasure out of it, if we’re speaking strictly about physical attraction and sexual gratification, that is.

I’m happy to contribute financially, but not because you look good or I want to fukk you. You have to bring something to the proverbial table other than looking good.

:yeshrug:

Brother, as soon as you wrote that first line. You should have seen there was something wrong with your argument.

When you go to burger King.... And you give them money... They don't hand an equivalent amount of money back to you.
They hand you a burger that you wanted.
A burger that you felt was worth the price they were asking for.

However I love where you are coming from with your train of thought point.
Everybody should read that and then read this ...
Because how you feel is how most men feel.
That's a perfect world fantasy put in our heads since we were little boys.

It's equivalent to women thinking men like them because they are great people....not their p*ssy.

for an example. Take A man with lots of money, great looks, power..etc. All the best traits that women would want in a man.
He has his pick of any woman.
What will he pick?
9x out of 10.... He will pick the most attractive woman he can find.

And if you take any women with top tier beauty... 9x out of 10 she's gonna pick a man with Top tier financial status...

You know why... because these things have equal value to the opposite sex,...
That's just nature, brother
 
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Brother, as soon as you wrote that first line. You should have seen there was something wrong with your argument.

When you go to burger King.... And you give them money... They don't hand and equivalent amount of money back to you.
They hand you a burger that you wanted.
A burger that you felt was worth the price they were asking for.

However I love where you are coming from with your train of thought point.
Everybody should read that and then read this ...
Because how you feel is how most men feel.
That's a perfect world fantasy put in our heads since we were little boys.

It's equivalent to women thinking men like them for just being them....not their p*ssy.

Let's find a man for an example. A man with lots of money, great looks, power..etc. All the best traits that women would want in a man.
He has his pick of any woman.
What well he pick?
9x out of 10.... He will pick the most attractive woman he can find.

And if you take any women with top tier looks 9x out of 10 she's gonna pick a man with Top tier financial status...

You know why... because these things have equal value to the opposite sex,...
That's just nature, brother

Those same 10/10 women, who pays 100% of her own bills, will bust it open and fukk like a porn star for the right dude.

Bills be damned, if a woman forces you to pay 100% of the bills in a household that you share, she aint physically attracted to you. In fact, she more likely sneak behind your back and cheat on another man.
 

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Those same 10/10 women, who pays 100% of her own bills, will bust it open and fukk like a porn star for the right dude.

Bills be damned, if a woman forces you to pay 100% of the bills in a household that you share, she aint physically attracted to you. In fact, she more likely sneak behind your back and cheat on another man.

The same 10 our of 10 women who buss it open for the right dude...would let a rich nikka shyt in her mouth...

Even if she's physically attracted to you...she'll sneak behind your back and fukk ugly ass Lil Wayne and fat ass Rick Ross...

If she doesn't force you to pay shyt... When u get into an argument, she gonna call you broke and talk about how she pays all the bills... And then go fukk the ugly nikka who be buying her lunch at work
We can do this all day Brother :yeshrug:
 

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The same 10 our of 10 women who buss it open for the right dude...would let a rich nikka shyt in her mouth...

Whether she's physically attracted to you...she'll sneak behind your back and fukk ugly ass Lil Wayne and fat ass Rick Ross...

We can do this all day Brother :yeshrug:

I'm saying, there are dudes who are fukking dime pieces FOR FREE :unimpressed:

$$$ is not required. Those broads fukk rich male celebs, and those dudes not spend a damn dollar. Its only a foreign concept for tricks that are out-of-shape.
 

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bytches like nikkaz with money...
Men like bytches that look good.

It's an even exchange, no robberies

:snooze:

Not really true. You have to look at things on a deeper level. Looks and money can only get you so far. I see it as more of an arrangement, but not a fair exchange.
Looks can fade, but the those bills do not. And yes, men like women that look good, but having access to such men does not guarantee stability.
 

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In 2021 if a woman is choosing you based on your bank account shes finna be a liability rather than an asset.

Women campaigned hard for the right to work and earn money and be financially independent. Whether or not he's making more money than she is shouldn't be a factor in whether she chooses him.

Other men can do what they want, but for me personally I'm not trying to take care of an adult child. I'm grown and can cook and take care of myself, I don't need a woman to do that for me. I need her to add money to the household and enhance what I already got going on:manny:
 
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The problem when cats do this over the top shyt for women is that many times these women haven't earned any of that yet. This fool did all that and was getting taps on the cheek.

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Not really true. You have to look at things on a deeper level. Looks and money can only get you so far. I see it as more of an arrangement, but not a fair exchange.
Looks can fade, but the those bills do not. And yes, men like women that look good, but having access to such men does not guarantee stability.

It is no deeper than what I said.
We like to make it seem deeper, but it's not.

Your girlfriend would not want if you were homeless. No matter how nice u are.

You wouldn't want her if she had no nose...
No matter how she treats u
 

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I'm saying, there are dudes who are fukking dime pieces FOR FREE :unimpressed:

$$$ is not required. Those broads fukk rich male celebs, and those dudes not spend a damn dollar. Its only a foreign concept for tricks that are out-of-shape.

You just said "Rich male celebs".... Again... They are fukking with dudes because of the financial security or perceived financial security of that person.

You were arguing that chix should want u for you being you...
They might but they gonna want you if u was a rich nikka more
 

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You just said "Rich male celebs".... Again... They are fukking with dudes because of the financial security or perceived financial security of that person.

You were arguing that chix should want u for you being you...
They might but they gonna want you if u was a rich nikka more

Physical attraction doesn't exist? :stopitslime:

Even hoes would hesitate to mess with a rich fat dode, and almost always, the relationship never lasts.
 

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It is no deeper than what I said.
We like to make it seem deeper, but it's not.

Your girlfriend would not want if you were homeless. No matter how nice u are.

You wouldn't want her if she had no nose...
No matter how she treats u


But you are using extreme examples. You said it was a fair exchange, but looks and money mean nothing if there is little to no compatibility. Sure, I could become a millionaire and be dating models, but it just boils down to entertaining a superficial arrangement or a desire to have a partner that looks like a trophy. But me dating models is not going to increase my stock value.
 

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Even though it doesn’t compare to what he did it looks like shorty makes him feel appreciated and she treats him too :yeshrug: looks like they both have some bread and like spending on each other

 

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Brother, as soon as you wrote that first line. You should have seen there was something wrong with your argument.

When you go to burger King.... And you give them money... They don't hand and equivalent amount of money back to you.
They hand you a burger that you wanted.
A burger that you felt was worth the price they were asking for.

However I love where you are coming from with your train of thought point.
Everybody should read that and then read this ...
Because how you feel is how most men feel.
That's a perfect world fantasy put in our heads since we were little boys.

It's equivalent to women thinking men like them because they are great people....not their p*ssy.

for an example. Take A man with lots of money, great looks, power..etc. All the best traits that women would want in a man.
He has his pick of any woman.
What well he pick?
9x out of 10.... He will pick the most attractive woman he can find.

And if you take any women with top tier beauty... 9x out of 10 she's gonna pick a man with Top tier financial status...

You know why... because these things have equal value to the opposite sex,...
That's just nature, brother

That is why we are speaking in the context of a romantic or sexual relationship. Thus your Burger King money for money analogy is not applicable.

money for money is equivalent in the context of a relationship. You take care of X (food) while I have Z (the mortgage/bills) is a common arrangement. Variations such as the man takes care of the bills while the woman takes care of the house/kids or vice versa are also common. The point being looks and money are not equivalent. And even then I elaborated that value is dependent on the people involved in the transaction. Did you not read?

:dwillhuh:

and your examples are rooted in personal bias. A significant amount of men will choose a woman than can contribute something towards whatever it is they’re building or want to build, be it a family or whatever else, and that doesn’t necessarily translate into choosing the best looking woman. Of course they will still choose someone they’re attracted to to some extent.

Women have and are conditioned to seek security that doesn’t equate to money and looks being an even exchange. That’s babble.
 
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