Is The Coli the only safe space for Black Men online?

[ViShawn]

Especially Straight Black Men. We don't have to worry about being "toxic". We can call out c00ns, cacs, toxic moisture. We can even call out mammies and bedwenches with no pushback.

Not many places where you can call the Will Smith incident how it is without being attacked as a Black man or someone telling us that we as Black men aren't doing enough.

Is there anywhere else or should I just put in another donation for this place to keep the lights running?

 

[Jekyll]

safe space

 

[Canada Goose]

No. Black Men get shytted on here all the time, especially if you don't fit a certain mold of a Black Man.


Out of shape Black Men get shytted on

Incels/struggling with women Black Men get shytted on


Broke Black Men get shytted on

Black Men still living in the hood get shyttied on



Etc, etc, etc.


Safe space my feathery ass

 

[null]

safe space

ok Mr. Hide.

 

[ALMIGHTY GOD]

lol no. as others have said, if you dont fit a certain mold you get attacked.

 

[RichYung]

There is no safe space for black men.

 

[Henri Christophe]

There is no safe space for black men.

my home office is my safe space.

besides that, everywhere else is a war zone

 

[Fukwatutalkinwatisaylaw]

Wtf is a safe space?...a place where u go unchecked or without critique ..nah this ain't it ..but it's like minded people on here it's all kind of wierd nikkas on here but that's how the world is ..but if u a bytch ass nikka tha Coli will let you know and 7yrs lata I'm still here because of it

 

[RaspberryFitted]

No. Black Men get shytted on here all the time, especially if you don't fit a certain mold of a Black Man.


Out of shape Black Men get shytted on

Incels/struggling with women Black Men get shytted on

Broke Black Men get shytted on

Black Men still living in the hood get shyttied on



Etc, etc, etc.


Safe space my feathery ass

I disagree. I understand these groups deserve to voice their issues about their struggles in life, but if you continuously make/engage in the same threads over and over with no change… I agree that the world loves to tell us to pull ourselves by our bootstraps with everything… but some dudes don’t even want to put the boot on.

Also, are the users on here genuinely engaging in safe spaces already made or want to complain? For example, there’s an entire thread pinned where dudes feel comfortable about lamenting their woes with women. That’s a safe space: no judgement, purely uplifting/dropping gems/guiding…

Making a thread on a random tweet about a bird talking about her expectations in dating doesn’t promote a safe space — it promotes a gossip circuit (that I participate in it at times)

 

[High Art]

It is good. I'd like a more wild west anything goes feel but this is nice.

 

[Hey_zeus]

I'm chilling

 

[Absolut da poet ®]

There is no safe space for black men.

Sure there is..... the grave.

That's the only space we're allowed to move freely into.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

It's the safest place I feel that's all I can speak on.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Bunch of defeatist victim mentality dudes on this site.


Don't quote me

 

[TEH]

No

cause it’s hard to get in to actually post.

and if we make it any bigger we have to verify race.