Is the concept of being single and not looking person really that rare?

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You either masturbate too much and have given up on looking for an actual girlfriend or you have a psychological issue such as being asexual


Your body is supposed to be hormonal, so something is definitely wrong

Pretty much.

Sounds like an asexual aromantic, if you aren't just plain chemically imbalanced, or jaded/traumatized.

And yes, that is rare. Congratulations on being different.
 

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If a dude ain't tryna get bytches, the only pass I'm givin them is he's tryna stack bread. If u are under the age of 30 and u ain't tryna score, then somethin is wrong with u. Either u are a lame, a simp, a square or gay. Again, there isn't anything wrong with just doin u, stack yo paper, u don't ned a bytch. But if u are just goin thru life without gettin bytches then u lost
 
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Because when i tell people i'm a single guy and i'm not looking for sex, not looking for a relationship, girl friend, or a wife it blows their minds.

people fight and argue with me over it. its like they go back to that p*ssy is the answer to all life's ills deal and go "we need to get you some p*ssy"
then when they bring me these women or give them my number or whatever and i either tell them no thanks or avoid the woman they damn near have an meltdown over it.

the concept of being single and not looking can't possibly be that rare. some people fall off the horse and they don't get back on it. the end.

I do understand your way of thinking because I am the same way minus the non-sex part.

But c'mon dog...bust in that girls mouth and keep it movin and hit them with that "i'ma be honest with you, im not looking for anything serious" speech.

And then let the girl try to change you and fail. WORKS EVERYTIME.
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Because when i tell people i'm a single guy and i'm not looking for sex, not looking for a relationship, girl friend, or a wife it blows their minds.

people fight and argue with me over it. its like they go back to that p*ssy is the answer to all life's ills deal and go "we need to get you some p*ssy"
then when they bring me these women or give them my number or whatever and i either tell them no thanks or avoid the woman they damn near have an meltdown over it.

the concept of being single and not looking can't possibly be that rare. some people fall off the horse and they don't get back on it. the end.

Nothing too weird about that. I'm single & not actively looking for anyone to date. I went on a dating streak with a bunch of chicks after I broke up with my long-term GF...and every chick ends up getting attached and wanting to take it further.

I'm just not in the mood to do all that. I literally think about it and get tired. :yawn:

Then, I watched my boy have a baby a few months ago with a chick he was "just fukking" and I've never seen someone so miserable and beaten-down in my life. Dude had just gotten off probation and literally had a ticket to leave the city (We stay in Detroit), then he found out she was pregnant. Watched dude's hopes & dreams go up in smoke. :smh: ...because he felt lonely at some point and got caught slipping.

Maybe that's how OP feels... :ld:

...and sometimes, p*ssy isn't worth all the tediousness of "dating" (doing everything "for two" instead of solo) or the long, drawn out process of getting to know someone new before you inevitably fukk..and then you're stuck having to either deal with that person's emotions or having to look forward to that talk where you're like "This is what it is. I'm not trying to do all that relationship shyt for real," only to start all over again when you could just be chilling out and stacking the whole time.

Seems normal. p*ssy ain't going anywhere anytime soon. That's the beauty of being a man. :salute:
 

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I think it's probably more rare for men than women, but there's nothing wrong with it. I'm not looking either right now. When men approach me and I tell em I'm single they think it automatically means I'm available :whoa: I'm far from it.

Some people can't understand not being dependent on another person for happiness or satisfaction :manny:

but you getting ya back blown out by some dude:lolbron:
 

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I was kinda with the OP until he said AVOID p*ssy. I know in my early 20s when I was in college and working all the time ..I was trying to get my shyt straight, so I focused on bettering myself..wasn't checking for broads like that. BUT I'd be lying if I said I was avoiding p*ssy. No offense, but yeah, you may be gay, sorry.
 

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OP should have never made this thread. Lots of dudes here coming out the cut admitting they can't function without getting p*ssy. :smh:
 

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Nothing too weird about that. I'm single & not actively looking for anyone to date. I went on a dating streak with a bunch of chicks after I broke up with my long-term GF...and every chick ends up getting attached and wanting to take it further.

I'm just not in the mood to do all that. I literally think about it and get tired. :yawn:

Then, I watched my boy have a baby a few months ago with a chick he was "just fukking" and I've never seen someone so miserable and beaten-down in my life. Dude had just gotten off probation and literally had a ticket to leave the city (We stay in Detroit), then he found out she was pregnant. Watched dude's hopes & dreams go up in smoke. :smh: ...because he felt lonely at some point and got caught slipping.

Maybe that's how OP feels... :ld:

...and sometimes, p*ssy isn't worth all the tediousness of "dating" (doing everything "for two" instead of solo) or the long, drawn out process of getting to know someone new before you inevitably fukk..and then you're stuck having to either deal with that person's emotions or having to look forward to that talk where you're like "This is what it is. I'm not trying to do all that relationship shyt for real," only to start all over again when you could just be chilling out and stacking the whole time.

Seems normal. p*ssy ain't going anywhere anytime soon. That's the beauty of being a man. :salute:

I was kinda with the OP until he said AVOID p*ssy. I know in my early 20s when I was in college and working all the time ..I was trying to get my shyt straight, so I focused on bettering myself..wasn't checking for broads like that. BUT I'd be lying if I said I was avoiding p*ssy. No offense, but yeah, you may be gay, sorry.

Personally at a similar point right now. Tryna get my chit together so until I feel it is actually together I'm not really playing the field that hard. If I come across something, it is what it is, but I'm not stressing it. When I feel as if I've bettered myself I'll put in more effort in the dating/fukking scene, go thru all the motions, XYZ.

In short, I see where the OP is coming from pretty much. I think he'll be back on his feet for a lack of better words.
 

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As soon as I saw the thread title, I immediately knew the kind of responses the OP was gonna get. Some of you clowns need to grow up. :smh:
 

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I'm single and not looking too, but if sex is on the table I'll take it. I'll make it really clear to the girl that I'm not looking for anything long term though.
 

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Nothing too weird about that. I'm single & not actively looking for anyone to date. I went on a dating streak with a bunch of chicks after I broke up with my long-term GF...and every chick ends up getting attached and wanting to take it further.

I'm just not in the mood to do all that. I literally think about it and get tired. :yawn:

Then, I watched my boy have a baby a few months ago with a chick he was "just fukking" and I've never seen someone so miserable and beaten-down in my life. Dude had just gotten off probation and literally had a ticket to leave the city (We stay in Detroit), then he found out she was pregnant. Watched dude's hopes & dreams go up in smoke. :smh: ...because he felt lonely at some point and got caught slipping.

Maybe that's how OP feels... :ld:

...and sometimes, p*ssy isn't worth all the tediousness of "dating" (doing everything "for two" instead of solo) or the long, drawn out process of getting to know someone new before you inevitably fukk..and then you're stuck having to either deal with that person's emotions or having to look forward to that talk where you're like "This is what it is. I'm not trying to do all that relationship shyt for real," only to start all over again when you could just be chilling out and stacking the whole time.

Seems normal. p*ssy ain't going anywhere anytime soon. That's the beauty of being a man. :salute:

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