Sounds like youve mastered lust. Have you ever had your testosterone level checked? Thats not a slight im just curious to know if there is a correlation. Honestly lust has been the hardest thing for me to master.
Is the concept of being single and not looking person really that rare?
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Born2BKing
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Damn, I don't get as horny as I used to and can go without sex for periods but OP sounds like you on some next level ish. After 1 month of abstaining, I start to think about sex naturally. Hell you can be at work at see that big booty coworker come around and it'll be a wrap for abstaining. I'm making a phonecall to have some company soon as I get off.
nineteeneightysix
Banned
I don't think I will ever get married...Unless I meet an extremely rich woman...
But to not look for sex, I don't believe that...You got issues my friends...
1) Do you masturbate...? If you do, why not get yourself a sex partner...? Having sex with a woman or women is 1000x better than masturbation, unless you have some kind of fetish that stops you from enjoying straight intercourse with women...
2) If you don't masturbate, then you could have some sexual arousal/desire problems...You potentially could be suffering from low libido/testosterone, and this condition is making you feel like you don't really need to have sex...
And you may feel like you "naturally" don't care about sex that much, but it's just your hormone imbalance making you feel that way...
Get yourself checked out...
3) You may have some psychological issues with intimacy...Are you attracted to women and/or men (which orientation you are)...?
How are your social skills...? Do you find it easy to make and maintain friends...?
4) You could just be asexual...You truly have no interest in sex...If you are not psychologically distressed by your lack of sexual desire/arousal, then you are okay...Your brain has probably found a way to cope with your social issues and you have adjusted to your condition...
I suspect you have social issues with intimacy that are messing with your sex drive/arousal...
But it's my biased opinion, because I believe a healthy sex drive is part of being a whole human being...
how can you be gay if you aren't fukking anybody at all and don't find your same sex desirable? honestly a human being can exist without having sex. you could never have sex again in your life and still lead a very fulfilling life.lol @ not looking for pussy
at all nigga?
you content with not getting pussy?
like "nah girl im not really looking for you to drop it on me any time soon im just chilln"
maybe you gay breh?
from a evolutionary standpoint sex is the meaning of your existence but from an intellectual standpoint its completely unnecessary. this is an activity that if you keep having it odds are high you'll either contract a disease or have a child both of which can drastically lower your quality of life. despite your best efforts keep having sex with new people and one of the two is likely unpreventable over the long haul.
beyond that masturbation exist which makes sex completely unnecessary. one has sex for both the pleasure and the experience. once you stop giving a shyt about the experience you can extract the pleasure whenever you want on command. i'm willing to bet that there are more people in this world that masturbate than are sexually active because while sex beats masturbation on the experience masturbation beats it back on the convenience.
you show me a good girl
1. STD free
2. Financially independent with her own place, car, and a stable well paying job
3. Has no kids and wants no kids, if she ended up pregnant would abort
4. has her life completely together and needs no assistance from anybody else.
5. isn't looking for handouts from a man and won't accept them.
6. doesn't have the traditional American female entitlement issues
7. has a positive attitude
8. is a homebody and has no interest in the club scene
9. has a very small circle of friends all of which are the same quality of woman as her
10. is attractive and keeps herself together
11. isn't interested in in getting married or pressuring a man to tie himself down with her
12. doesn't have and male "friends"
13. has a good relationship with both her parents who are both still together and were always in her life
you show me this woman and all the shyt i say about single not looking gets tossed out the window. i'd latch on to that.
the question is what are my odds of finding a woman that meets all these qualities and won't change? slim to none. to go out into the dating scene with that as your objective basically means you have to dumpster dive to find that.
basically every man wants a woman with those traits (maybe minus the child and marriage parts) but how many men find that and how many men as they go on end up crossing stuff off that list and accepting less because realistically they know finding that is a long shot?
1. STD free
2. Financially independent with her own place, car, and a stable well paying job
3. Has no kids and wants no kids, if she ended up pregnant would abort
4. has her life completely together and needs no assistance from anybody else.
5. isn't looking for handouts from a man and won't accept them.
6. doesn't have the traditional American female entitlement issues
7. has a positive attitude
8. is a homebody and has no interest in the club scene
9. has a very small circle of friends all of which are the same quality of woman as her
10. is attractive and keeps herself together
11. isn't interested in in getting married or pressuring a man to tie himself down with her
12. doesn't have and male "friends"
13. has a good relationship with both her parents who are both still together and were always in her life
you show me this woman and all the shyt i say about single not looking gets tossed out the window. i'd latch on to that.
the question is what are my odds of finding a woman that meets all these qualities and won't change? slim to none. to go out into the dating scene with that as your objective basically means you have to dumpster dive to find that.
basically every man wants a woman with those traits (maybe minus the child and marriage parts) but how many men find that and how many men as they go on end up crossing stuff off that list and accepting less because realistically they know finding that is a long shot?
Brandsdale
Big Yella
lol @ not looking for pussy
at all nigga?
you content with not getting pussy?
like "nah girl im not really looking for you to drop it on me any time soon im just chilln"
maybe you gay breh?
Your problem is, most of the women who exhibit these traits also want kids. All of your criteria are usualy things a person does to ensure happy successful lives for their children. With that said, I'm sure there is someone out there, but you have to be open to meeting them, and more optimistic about relationships alltogether
a women that meets every qualification on that list doesn't equal good and vice versaHow can you want perfection when you in yourself are not perfect?
at number 8 and 9. Go outside nikka
I can relate to the op in the sense that I'm not actively seeking a relationship right now or even sex right now, meaning that if I actually put in the effort I could get it but I just don't want to deal with the hassle of it and the consequences it could possibly bring
But if the situation was right and a woman that I found attractive was basically throwing it at me then I would definitely take it
But if the situation was right and a woman that I found attractive was basically throwing it at me then I would definitely take it
if they were homos they would be out looking for male ass.
I ve known plenty of females that exhibit thos traits over my lifetime,as rare as it may seem to you.....question is how attractive are you and what about yourself qualifies u to be able to keep a woman of this quality once u get her? People who think women like this are a damn unicorn don't talk to a lot of women,dudes who think all women are the same don't talk to enuff women....ur odds of finding a women like this when u are pretending to not be looking is 0% mathmatically....how good ur odds are is really up to u bruh....I've had plenty of females like this and fuked all those relationships up bcuz I didn't think it wuz rare to find a woman like this at all,the older u get the more time dwindles,u decrease the odds of finding a woman who doesn't have kids,the more flabby u get the more flabby and less attractive she gets,decrease chances finding a woman who hasn't been messed from dealing with dirtbags........u decreasing your own odds by the day man by bein on this bullshyt u on.....I will tell u that u could find a woman with all these traits and as soon as u fuk her or she falls in love sum of these traits might go away....she might be clingy,she might pressure u etc....but how u supposed to know if u ain't lookin and ain't fukin nobody
....u could also very well find a woman who doesn't meet all these traits but once u fuk her good and she catches feelings she may very well take on sum of these traits at your request....like leavin the club alone,staying at home and being a homebody,leavin her friends alone.....but that all depends on how good and real of a man you are yourself in dealing with her....but how we supposed to know if u ain't looking and ain't fukin nobody.....all u got now is bad excuses and jacin off has gotten u to the point ur bodys tellin u right now....but its obvious u want sumthin different but just gave up thinkin its hard to find,u don't wanna regret that later cuz u bullshyttin yourself now.....get ya self together and get to lookin and fukin nikka,take ur losses like we all had to take,and get lucky like sum of us did
.....my girl fits every requirement and u makin me feel dumb for cheating behind her back
but she didn't always fit all those requirments,and I know I still don't fit all hers but I've made changes....regardless I'm happy with her,and u don't have to be scandalous like me and cheat that's just what I happen to do from time to time.
it is hard for squares that are intimidated by the puss and play world of warcraft all day
