Is the concept of being single and not looking person really that rare?

[ryda518]

I'm just looking for sex

but you know these chicks, especially family members

it's like if your single something is wrong with you

i'm 23, fukk a relationship

talk to me when i'm 27

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

you show me a good girl
1. STD free
2. Financially independent with her own place, car, and a stable well paying job
3. Has no kids and wants no kids, if she ended up pregnant would abort
4. has her life completely together and needs no assistance from anybody else.
5. isn't looking for handouts from a man and won't accept them.
6. doesn't have the traditional American female entitlement issues
7. has a positive attitude
8. is a homebody and has no interest in the club scene
9. has a very small circle of friends all of which are the same quality of woman as her
10. is attractive and keeps herself together
11. isn't interested in in getting married or pressuring a man to tie himself down with her
12. doesn't have and male "friends"
13. has a good relationship with both her parents who are both still together and were always in her life

you show me this woman and all the shyt i say about single not looking gets tossed out the window. i'd latch on to that.

the question is what are my odds of finding a woman that meets all these qualities and won't change? slim to none. to go out into the dating scene with that as your objective basically means you have to dumpster dive to find that.

basically every man wants a woman with those traits (maybe minus the child and marriage parts) but how many men find that and how many men as they go on end up crossing stuff off that list and accepting less because realistically they know finding that is a long shot?

Someone said you have gigs and gigs of porn....that's your main problem...stop watching porn and masturbating and stop hindering your natural sexual urges

I used to watch porn and that shyt fukked with my confidence and it was a safety net whenever I got rejected by women

I changed a lot in the last few years...now I can have women chasing me

Develop yourself first...become more attractive to the opposite sex and most importantly stop watching porn

If you are afraid of being rejected by women you meet...then the reality of the situation is...YOU HAVEN'T BEEN REJECTED ENOUGH....when you reach that not giving a fukk point...you can approach women easier and there's almost a belief that you can get any woman you want...women notice this confidence and it attracts them




THERE IS NO PERFECT WOMAN...but you are going to meet some good ones along the way...stop making stupid fukking excuses and be a man

And stop acting self-righteous....you are looking for the perfect woman...but you are not the perfect man yourself. You have gigs of porn on your computer and you more than likely have reclusive/hermit tendencies...no woman is going to want you like this...only you can change yourself.

 

[Rawtid]

People always want what they aren't themselves. When you become the person you desire, you will attract the person you desire.

Based on your own accounts you have bum friends/family, your attitude is horrible, you're still getting out of debt, etc. So it's crazy of you to even feel you deserve that person when you've still got some work to get there yourself.

 

[The ADD]

People always want what they aren't themselves. When you become the person you desire, you will attract the person you desire.

Based on your own accounts you have bum friends/family, your attitude is horrible, you're still getting out of debt, etc. So it's crazy of you to even feel you deserve that person when you've still got some work to get there yourself.

Went there^

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Maybe OP means he is celibate

But i dont understand celibate people who are chronic masturbaters..

True celibacy means..no sex,no fapping..nothing sexual whatsoever..

 

[concise]

People always want what they aren't themselves. When you become the person you desire, you will attract the person you desire.

Based on your own accounts you have bum friends/family, your attitude is horrible, you're still getting out of debt, etc. So it's crazy of you to even feel you deserve that person when you've still got some work to get there yourself.

But then, wouldn't you not want them anymore?

 

[Wild self]

a women that meets every qualification on that list doesn't equal good and vice versa

How can you want perfection when you in yourself are not perfect?

at number 8 and 9. Go outside nikka

women like that exist. Don't let these rappers and them birdbrain hoes on them social network sites fool you.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Honestly I can relate to being single and not looking.......but mostly because I'm trying to get my life and career together.

I'm a DJ and I have jawns I smash but honestly I threw just about all of them into the bushes recently. At some point I realized that smashing chicks I don't like enough to be in a relationship with continuously is terrible look at my age. Joints are looking to settle down. No point in running the risk of her getting attached, breaking a chicks heart, possibly getting her pregnant, etc. I also believe that relationships are meant to progress, or they die. There's only so long you can keep a jumpoff before you get tired of fukking her or she wants more (and you don't) causing you to have to throw her in the bushes.

It actually takes a lot of effort from men to date women. We actually have to court them, plan dates, spend money, spend time. It's can be a bit much, especially if you're focused on getting your life together value your time alone. Maybe it's because I was only child (so I'm wired a little differently than others) but honestly, for the most part I can entertain myself between working (music), watching sports, gambling, reading, movies and a million other things I like to do. I've really spent every Sunday this football season doing nothing but watching football and gambling from Morning until the time I went to sleep unless I had to DJ at night.......probably something I can't even imagine happening if I had a girlfriend. It seems to me that most women don't have as many hobbies and a large portion of their lives is really dedicated to men.

I always lust for p*ssy so it's bit hard to just not smash joints but one thing I will say is this, the more you fukk/masturbate the hornier you will be....If you don't fukk/masturbate for a while you get urges but it's a lot easier to go without.

 

[Xtraz2]

OP needs to man up

your testosterone is low, start working out

as far as that dumb ass list you made ..... :obamalaugh:

 

[concise]

all that porn needs to go in the bushes.

 

[Rawtid]

But then, wouldn't you not want them anymore?

No because you two should continue growing together.

 

[concise]

No because you two should continue growing together.

But I want who I'm not. Why would I bother hanging around?

 

[winb83]

Someone said you have gigs and gigs of porn....that's your main problem...stop watching porn and masturbating and stop hindering your natural sexual urges

I used to watch porn and that shyt fukked with my confidence and it was a safety net whenever I got rejected by women

I changed a lot in the last few years...now I can have women chasing me

Develop yourself first...become more attractive to the opposite sex and most importantly stop watching porn

If you are afraid of being rejected by women you meet...then the reality of the situation is...YOU HAVEN'T BEEN REJECTED ENOUGH....when you reach that not giving a fukk point...you can approach women easier and there's almost a belief that you can get any woman you want...women notice this confidence and it attracts them




THERE IS NO PERFECT WOMAN...but you are going to meet some good ones along the way...stop making stupid fukking excuses and be a man

And stop acting self-righteous....you are looking for the perfect woman...but you are not the perfect man yourself. You have gigs of porn on your computer and you more than likely have reclusive/hermit tendencies...no woman is going to want you like this...only you can change yourself.

i don't want the perfect woman. she doesn't have to be a flawless beauty. that list can be summed up as a solid well rounded person that is independent, honest, and decent. if you look at that list and feel like that's the perfect woman and too much to ask for then that just goes to show you the state of modern women these days has fallen that far and you've accepted it. the perfect woman is a dime billionaire that has no flaws and can do everything. i didn't ask for that i just asked for a decent person.

as for the sex comments if i never have sex again in my life i'm good. honestly i remember vividly the last time i had sex it just felt like a chore to me. basically sex turned into fukking for a while till i get sick of doing it faking an orgasm and ending it. i had one chick catch me faking an orgasm like "there's no nut in this condom nikka what the fukk?" and she blew her top.

 

[winb83]

the modern dating scene is like crawling through a thorny rose bush to get to the center for the prize and when you get there after getting sliced up you find a lump of coal and wonder why did i go through all the trouble for this?

i gotta go out and approach another woman get her phone number or give her mines and have all these conversations on the phone and meet up and chill just to find out she's another entitled bytch with a fukked up life looking for some man with resources to step in and save her from herself and her own bad judgment? most women out here have been corrupted by their own vagina and the power it has over men.

these women are praised, worshiped, and put on pedestals and treated like goddesses for the simple fact that they have a vagina. there's only so long you can be treated this way before you grow accustom to it. before you start to thing this is the way it should be and you expect it not because you've earned it but grown accustom to it.

next thing you know you wake up pushing 30 and your value is plummeting because the younger hotter chicks have more appeal than you and your looks are fading. you spent your whole life passing up normal square men and chasing after bad boys for the thrill they gave you. now you're stuck with a couple kids from a bunch of ain't shyt ass nikkas that aren't around. you're working a shytty CNA type job wiping people's asses for $12 an hour barely breaking even in life and without the government assistance you'd be underwater. now on the back end you're looking for a sucker to help you fix your fukked up life. this isn't even getting to the credit card debt you've amassed. your fukked up credit. your student loan debt from college that you never finished. you hoped to not have to finish school. hoped to meet a baller to pluck you from your life and raise you up on his shoulders and that fell through. now the only weapon you've got left is your vagina and you're desperately trying to leverage that into whatever half decent man you can find to help you stop the free fall you're in.

pardon me if i don't find the prospect of having to wade through all the women out there like that for a quality woman all that appealing.

 

[The ADD]

the modern dating scene is like crawling through a thorny rose bush to get to the center for the prize and when you get there after getting sliced up you find a lump of coal and wonder why did i go through all the trouble for this?

i gotta go out and approach another woman get her phone number or give her mines and have all these conversations on the phone and meet up and chill just to find out she's another entitled bytch with a fukked up life looking for some man with resources to step in and save her from herself and her own bad judgment? most women out here have been corrupted by their own vagina and the power it has over men.

these women are praised, worshiped, and put on pedestals and treated like goddesses for the simple fact that they have a vagina. there's only so long you can be treated this way before you grow accustom to it. before you start to thing this is the way it should be and you expect it not because you've earned it but grown accustom to it.

next thing you know you wake up pushing 30 and your value is plummeting because the younger hotter chicks have more appeal than you and your looks are fading. you spent your whole life passing up normal square men and chasing after bad boys for the thrill they gave you. now you're stuck with a couple kids from a bunch of ain't shyt ass nikkas that aren't around. you're working a shytty CNA type job wiping people's asses for $12 an hour barely breaking even in life and without the government assistance you'd be underwater. now on the back end you're looking for a sucker to help you fix your fukked up life. this isn't even getting to the credit card debt you've amassed. your fukked up credit. your student loan debt from college that you never finished. you hoped to not have to finish school. hoped to meet a baller to pluck you from your life and raise you up on his shoulders and that fell through. now the only weapon you've got left is your vagina and you're desperately trying to leverage that into whatever half decent man you can find to help you stop the free fall you're in.

pardon me if i don't find the prospect of having to wade through all the women out there like that for a quality woman all that appealing.

Wow dude