Is the concept of being single and not looking person really that rare?

[Rawtid]

LOL but he wants his mate to have a positive attitude.

Eeyore ass nikka.

 

[winb83]

LOL but he wants his mate to have a positive attitude.

Eeyore ass nikka.

I have my own car, my own place, a decent job I've had for years, no kids, am fully independent, minor credit card debt, no student loan debt, about a 700 FICO score and rising, no late payments on my credit report, nothing in collections, I've never cheated on any woman I ever dated, no STDs, no abortions in my life, I don't deal with any suspect "friends" of the opposite sex or have any ex-girlfriends hanging around, everything I own is in my own name, I have a healthy relationship with both my parents who are still married, I have a 4 year college degree, a clean drivers record and at almost 30 I've gotten one ticket in my live, never been arrested or been to jail, in my entire life the only drugs I've done are two puffs of a blunt years ago and I don't drink or go to clubs.

It's too much to ask to have a woman that can match that right? Me asking for a woman that meets me on that is looking for a perfect woman or asking for too much right? I am far from the perfect man but if she can't match that she's a waste of time. To me my stats aren't impressive at all they're normal but start looking at the average woman out here and their stats and the type of nikkas they deal with and see how they measure up.

 

[Super TD Jakes]

I have my own car, my own place, a decent job I've had for years, no kids, am fully independent, minor credit card debt, no student loan debt, about a 700 FICO score and rising, no late payments on my credit report, nothing in collections, I've never cheated on any woman I ever dated, no STDs, no abortions in my life, I don't deal with any suspect "friends" of the opposite sex or have any ex-girlfriends hanging around, everything I own is in my own name, I have a healthy relationship with both my parents who are still married, I have a 4 year college degree, a clean drivers record and at almost 30 I've gotten one ticket in my live, never been arrested or been to jail, in my entire life the only drugs I've done are two puffs of a blunt years ago and I don't drink or go to clubs.

It's too much to ask to have a woman that can match that right? Me asking for a woman that meets me on that is looking for a perfect woman or asking for too much right? I am far from the perfect man but if she can't match that she's a waste of time. To me my stats aren't impressive at all they're normal but start looking at the average woman out here and their stats and the type of nikkas they deal with and see how they measure up.

Get a white girl...she's sure to match that especially the 700 fico score...

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I'm all for people living their life however they want, but if a dude I met in real life told me wasn't looking to get laid I'd assume he was gay

 

[The ADD]

I have my own car, my own place, a decent job I've had for years, no kids, am fully independent, minor credit card debt, no student loan debt, about a 700 FICO score and rising, no late payments on my credit report, nothing in collections, I've never cheated on any woman I ever dated, no STDs, no abortions in my life, I don't deal with any suspect "friends" of the opposite sex or have any ex-girlfriends hanging around, everything I own is in my own name, I have a healthy relationship with both my parents who are still married, I have a 4 year college degree, a clean drivers record and at almost 30 I've gotten one ticket in my live, never been arrested or been to jail, in my entire life the only drugs I've done are two puffs of a blunt years ago and I don't drink or go to clubs.

It's too much to ask to have a woman that can match that right? Me asking for a woman that meets me on that is looking for a perfect woman or asking for too much right? I am far from the perfect man but if she can't match that she's a waste of time. To me my stats aren't impressive at all they're normal but start looking at the average woman out here and their stats and the type of nikkas they deal with and see how they measure up.

Are the items in bold there to show how clean our background is or deal breakers if the chick can't match?

 

[Day_Walker]

U not about to see me encouraging homosexuality or weird shyt just bcuz "its more puzzy for me"...what kinda thinking is that....threadstarter asked if its weird and I'm tellin em the truth it does sound strange as fuk.....if u see a fine female and are attracted to her,or have females tryna give u they number and fuk with you....if they not ugly u tellin me that shyt ain't weird

It might be sumthin wrong with winb and he need to see a doctor but y'all so quick to "good for u that's not weird at all" he might not get the help he needs IF he does need help....not sayin he does btw cuz I don't know.....but maybe he should look into and see if its symptons of sumthin....sumbody who has a reason for stayin away from women whether it be religion,hussle,already got a girl is one thing but winb has givin no reason at all and y'all pretendin its normal and patting him on the back for havin self control...that ain't self control.

U have people who are homebodys and people who are shut ins for example,one is regular and one can be a mental disorder

This right here.
He sounds like he's got no sex drive at all NO HOMO and it is normal for everyone to have at least some sex drive so it's usually a sign of other underlying issues. Usually depression or something similar.
I know when I was going through a lot of shyt at 1 point and probably suffering from depression I felt the exact same way.
@Tom is comparing it to monks etc but they are extremely disciplined to be that way. I'm sure they felt like p*ssy at times but had to control themselves. The op doesn't seem to have any desire for p*ssy at all which is understandable in certain situations for short periods of time but long term that ain't normal.

 

[rapbeats]

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Wait, What? So the better alternative to letting him do what he wants ,according to you is rush to judgement and tell him how you think he should live his life? Where did OP say he was gay? All he asked was whether other posters have encountered people with similar lifestyle choices to him, not help for his "issue". Quite simply, fukk what i think on whether its weird or not ,this does not affect me. I HAVE NO SAY IN WHAT WINB DOES WITH HIS LIFE!!!!! I HAVE ALL THE SAY WITH WHAT I DO WITH MY LIFE. Very easy concept, but somehow people get righteous and start believing that their opinion is truth because it serves them well.

truth is. it doesnt even serve them well. does it really serve any man well to chase tail? NO. emphasis on chase.

to the OP, you aint weird. it is what it is. you are doing you. they look at you like you're crazy. just like women look at other ladies that arent talking about dudes all day long and trying to get married and have babies. if that chick tells anyone that she isnt trying to get married, and she isnt trying to have kids. but yet and still she aint trying to live with no dude or have dudes for the physical only. she's just chillin. best believe a bunch of women will call her crazy and will swear she's either gay or swear she's repressing her true feelings because she cant seem to find the right guy. not knowing the chick is dead serious about her position. she's just doing her, nothing more, nothing less. and thats okay.

 

[rapbeats]

This right here.
He sounds like he's got no sex drive at all NO HOMO and it is normal for everyone to have at least some sex drive so it's usually a sign of other underlying issues. Usually depression or something similar.
I know when I was going through a lot of shyt at 1 point and probably suffering from depression I felt the exact same way.
@Tom is comparing it to monks etc but they are extremely disciplined to be that way. I'm sure they felt like p*ssy at times but had to control themselves. The op doesn't seem to have any desire for p*ssy at all which is understandable in certain situations for short periods of time but long term that ain't normal.

thats not what the OP said. and the fact yall are taking it there proves the point. yall think anyone not thinking about chicks and sex all day and night like YOU. then they are off.

which doesnt have to be the case at all.

you do realize you can see a lot of women just in everyday life, think about sex at some point during your day. but not make any effort to go get it. you do realize this is possible right? you do realize if said person isnt making the effort because they dont really care that much about it to put that kind of energy in to it. doesnt mean they are off. it means they care to put their energy some where else at this point in their life. that may change in the near future or way off or not at all.

 

[rapdonttweet]

I'm single and not looking.

 

[Wild self]

the modern dating scene is like crawling through a thorny rose bush to get to the center for the prize and when you get there after getting sliced up you find a lump of coal and wonder why did i go through all the trouble for this?

i gotta go out and approach another woman get her phone number or give her mines and have all these conversations on the phone and meet up and chill just to find out she's another entitled bytch with a fukked up life looking for some man with resources to step in and save her from herself and her own bad judgment? most women out here have been corrupted by their own vagina and the power it has over men.

these women are praised, worshiped, and put on pedestals and treated like goddesses for the simple fact that they have a vagina. there's only so long you can be treated this way before you grow accustom to it. before you start to thing this is the way it should be and you expect it not because you've earned it but grown accustom to it.

next thing you know you wake up pushing 30 and your value is plummeting because the younger hotter chicks have more appeal than you and your looks are fading. you spent your whole life passing up normal square men and chasing after bad boys for the thrill they gave you. now you're stuck with a couple kids from a bunch of ain't shyt ass nikkas that aren't around. you're working a shytty CNA type job wiping people's asses for $12 an hour barely breaking even in life and without the government assistance you'd be underwater. now on the back end you're looking for a sucker to help you fix your fukked up life. this isn't even getting to the credit card debt you've amassed. your fukked up credit. your student loan debt from college that you never finished. you hoped to not have to finish school. hoped to meet a baller to pluck you from your life and raise you up on his shoulders and that fell through. now the only weapon you've got left is your vagina and you're desperately trying to leverage that into whatever half decent man you can find to help you stop the free fall you're in.

pardon me if i don't find the prospect of having to wade through all the women out there like that for a quality woman all that appealing.

All cause she entitled, she gonna end up broke n

 

[Wild self]

I have my own car, my own place, a decent job I've had for years, no kids, am fully independent, minor credit card debt, no student loan debt, about a 700 FICO score and rising, no late payments on my credit report, nothing in collections, I've never cheated on any woman I ever dated, no STDs, no abortions in my life, I don't deal with any suspect "friends" of the opposite sex or have any ex-girlfriends hanging around, everything I own is in my own name, I have a healthy relationship with both my parents who are still married, I have a 4 year college degree, a clean drivers record and at almost 30 I've gotten one ticket in my live, never been arrested or been to jail, in my entire life the only drugs I've done are two puffs of a blunt years ago and I don't drink or go to clubs.

It's too much to ask to have a woman that can match that right? Me asking for a woman that meets me on that is looking for a perfect woman or asking for too much right? I am far from the perfect man but if she can't match that she's a waste of time. To me my stats aren't impressive at all they're normal but start looking at the average woman out here and their stats and the type of nikkas they deal with and see how they measure up.

You too "perfect" for her. They rather fukk with the broke ass thug nikka cause he's "exciting." Know them type of women and run away from them. Stop fukking with the locals and explore.

 

[Jahmal]

I'm all for people living their life however they want, but if a dude I met in real life told me wasn't looking to get laid I'd assume he was gay

So if a dude told you he banged over 100 women in hislifetime but was chillin on women for a while to stack up his money (dating women is expensive) and enjoy new hobbies. you would think he was gay?

 

[Petty Crocker]

I have my own car, my own place, a decent job I've had for years, no kids, am fully independent, minor credit card debt, no student loan debt, about a 700 FICO score and rising, no late payments on my credit report, nothing in collections, I've never cheated on any woman I ever dated, no STDs, no abortions in my life, I don't deal with any suspect "friends" of the opposite sex or have any ex-girlfriends hanging around, everything I own is in my own name, I have a healthy relationship with both my parents who are still married, I have a 4 year college degree, a clean drivers record and at almost 30 I've gotten one ticket in my live, never been arrested or been to jail, in my entire life the only drugs I've done are two puffs of a blunt years ago and I don't drink or go to clubs.

It's too much to ask to have a woman that can match that right? Me asking for a woman that meets me on that is looking for a perfect woman or asking for too much right? I am far from the perfect man but if she can't match that she's a waste of time. To me my stats aren't impressive at all they're normal but start looking at the average woman out here and their stats and the type of nikkas they deal with and see how they measure up.

You would be suprised how many women have the same sentiment as you..Hell I have all of those requirements and Im single...But people turn down potential mates for different reasons...Im on a message board (Not LSA) full of successful women who meet more than half of your requirements..I wish there was some way all of these like minded people could get together, socialize, and network.

 

[Versa]

I am single and not looking solely because my life isn't stable to the point I'd like it to be to entertain a serious relationship with a woman.

As soon as I'm making the money I want to make, in the home I want to be in, etc, then yeah I'm looking.

I think it's very abnormal to be successful and well put together in your individual life and yet have no desire for female companionship on any level. All jokes aside, you might be a homosexual, a sociopath, embarrassingly small dikk'd, or have a crippling fear of putting your heart on the line....to the point where you'd rather be alone than have the possibility of a woman hurting you.

 

[Ain't That Something]

You would be suprised how many women have the same sentiment as you..Hell I have all of those requirements and Im single...But people turn down potential mates for different reasons...Im on a message board (Not LSA) full of successful women who meet more than half of your requirements..I wish there was some way all of these like minded people could get together, socialize, and network.

What is this message board you speak of?