Is the key to satisfying a woman in bed to treat her like a filthy literal whore?

[KidJSoul]

How about you…oh I dunno…establish some healthy communication and explore with one another.

Naaaahhhhhh Choke dat hoe!

I’ll never understand why people over complicate this shyt.

Also will somebody make a thread on Madonna/whore complexes b/c I got questions.

I do think it’s true that some women want freaky shyt but they are afraid to be judged by their partners so they do it with others.

Likewise, some men wanna do kinky shyt but they end up compartmentalizing and doing that with outside chicks.

So you got two idiots in a relationship together, afraid to smut each other out for whatever asinine reason, so they only fukk the way they wanna fukk with others and what…give each other wack ass sex and stress?!

Why not just be open with your partner and do all the freaky stuff you wanna do with the person you have a trusting relationship with.

It makes long-term relationships look like prisons if you are set up like that.

Because a lot of partners aren't honest when they communicate.

Some if it is shame, which you acknowledge.

A lot of it is also arousal. Some women may like to do it... but their partner doesn't really inspire it in them. Hence why they do it for the outside guy. (This goes both ways, guys do freaky shyt outside too).

It's also dominance thing. You may not see it or want to admit it, but a lotta women hate when the guy has to ask if they can do something. They find it a turn off. It takes them out of the moment.

 

[Dzali OG]

Nah I’ve ran into women who don’t like that and prefer very sensual love makin type sex

best to figure out wat ya partna like

Sorry to break it to ya, but if your girl is only into slow, sensual, sex it's because her previous partners were absolutely KNOCKING THE FRAME OUT ASS.

They've turned that puccy and possibly that ass into OPEN HALLWAYS and she's self conscious. She's self conscious because when they broke up he was a dikk and told her, "she'll never get another man because he's fukked the walls out her puccy and men like that monkeyfist."

So she's traumatized and self conscious and trying to be abstinence and looking up ways to tighten that thing back up. And any man who do happen to get it she's not letting him get into it good cause she can only hold it tight for so long. If she let him get it good, and it start feeling good she's going to relax and that puccy going open up likeand that nikka who thought she was a good girl going be like "who hell you been fukkin?" And she's going be all .

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Because a lot of partners aren't honest when they communicate.

Some if it is shame, which you acknowledge.

A lot of it is also arousal. Some women may like to do it... but their partner doesn't really inspire it in them. Hence why they do it for the outside guy. (This goes both ways, guys do freaky shyt outside too).

It's also dominance thing. You may not see it or want to admit it, but a lotta women hate when the guy has to ask if they can do something. They find it a turn off. It takes them out of the moment.

Regardless of the whys, I think people gotta get over this shyt. If I can’t be myself with somebody why are they there?!

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Tbf, we met 'just fukking'. There was no shame bc we didn't realize anything serious would come of it. He knows my number, the nikkas I fw before him, all that.

Middle class ppl or those raised in 2 parent homes may balk at my method, but it worked for us.

Nah sometimes it just works out like that. If you smart with it, there’s not a lotta issues. Sexual compatibility is pretty fukking important so I feel you. As stressful as life is, your partner should be a safe space where you can chill without the bullshyt. Fukk feeling obligated to be with somebody when you not even satisfied.

 

[Vandelay]

Every woman is different.

Some like getting beasted in the bedroom.

Some like that sensual shyt.

Test the waters and find out.

I personally like them women who like getting beasted.

The catch is, way more women like getting beasted then the average man realizes.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Somebody please quote me agreeing or disagreeing on this.

I think its a couple things...

I dont think women are attracted to who they are fukking alot of the time (at least not as much as they think they are), and these theatrics...help.

Keep in mind most dudes are chubby, skinny fat, or out of shape, so they aren't naturally inclined to be great in the bedroom or have the physical dexterity to come off as dominant without trying hard IMO. So the choking and all that shyt, helps them feel like they have a dominant alpha guy when they dont lol

Mind you, this has little to do with actually making a girl orgasm. Numerous times. You dont need these theatrics to do that. But most guys cant ...do that lol remember this.

Imo attraction, physical capability, stroke, have more of a natural role in creating orgasm than chubby andy role playing choke theatrics. But thats something women dont wanna talk about lol

Bingo!!


Looks matter to women too.

 

[AyBrehHam Linkin]

it depends on the girl and the dude they are with. this one girl i used to fukk with told me about how she straight up stopped sex with this one mf because he was mocking her moan. she said it felt degrading

i did the same shyt when we first smashed and she was was laughing mid fukk like "stoooopp"

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

The real keys are communication, attraction and girth knowing her spots.

 

[Sccit]

YES

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

Nah sometimes it just works out like that. If you smart with it, there’s not a lotta issues. Sexual compatibility is pretty fukking important so I feel you. As stressful as life is, your partner should be a safe space where you can chill without the bullshyt. Fukk feeling obligated to be with somebody when you not even satisfied.

Sexual compatibility can piggy back a relationship a lot further than it should go in most cases so yeah, it's probably one of the top 3 most important traits to find in a person, or at least it is to me. I know a lot of unsatisfied women in relationships though so I can't project and say it weighs the same for everybody.

 

[DJK]

Just don't overdo it with randoms. That's what got Kobe caught up.

 

[tuckgod]

Women like to de dominated....not disrespected

This.

And it aint even about inflicting pain, fukking like you see the porn nikkas do.

Some women like to be completely dominated by a man that knows exactly what he's doing, but that doesn't mean they want a nikka to pile drive their p*ssy with reckless abandon.

You can assume the same role of dominance over a woman by being gentle, teasing, and very attentive to what turns them on.

Playing her like a master musician plays his instrument of choice.

 

[Jerz]

It's women who've had traumatic experiences - with men forcing themselves on em. Aggressive shyt might trigger bad memories. I wouldn't do all that extra shyt, untill i really knew her

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Any woman who wants that type of stuff definitely has some emotional and spiritual issues going on

but I see a lot of coli brehs need to convince themselves they’re not having sex with psychologically damaged women

Commentary from somebody who's only been with one woman his whole life.



That's a real thing though now and days.



.

 

[seabreeze80]

Sorry to break it to ya, but if your girl is only into slow, sensual, sex it's because her previous partners were absolutely KNOCKING THE FRAME OUT ASS.

They've turned that puccy and possibly that ass into OPEN HALLWAYS and she's self conscious. She's self conscious because when they broke up he was a dikk and told her, "she'll never get another man because he's fukked the walls out her puccy and men like that monkeyfist."

So she's traumatized and self conscious and trying to be abstinence and looking up ways to tighten that thing back up. And any man who do happen to get it she's not letting him get into it good cause she can only hold it tight for so long. If she let him get it good, and it start feeling good she's going to relax and that puccy going open up likeand that nikka who thought she was a good girl going be like "who hell you been fukkin?" And she's going be all .