Is the "OMG IM SO SORRY I FELL ASLEEP" the most common 'shyt test' given by women

[CarmelBarbie]

If plans were made and she pulls that, she really didn't like you. If a woman's feeling you, she'll do her best to make a date. If she's really feeling you she'll also respond to a majority of your texts, and not 24 hours later. If a scenario happens where you're getting flaked on, or she's barely responding to your texts, she's not into you, and she's either using you for an ego boost, entertainment, or out of boredom. Trust me, your one out of many dudes that she's talking to, so she won't care how you feel about her excuses for why she's flaking or slow to respond. Actions speak louder than words. It's easy to pretend like your into a guy, by giving him crumbs--flirty texts, even going so far to say yes to a date yall arrange. But in the end, if she's sending you those flirty messages hours after you send one to her, or she's planning on skipping out on the date she planned with you, she really just ain't fukking with you. Fickle, or lukewarm women only play these shyt games with men they don't care about. Let it be a man that she really wants to fukk, or date--and her behavior will be drastically different. Yall know what I'm talking about, if you've ever had a woman into you, deep down you already know what's up when is playing these games with you. If you continue to proceed, then it's on you.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

It's not a test. Just an excuse cause they got another dude prioritized over you and he prob hit her up to come through and get in them guts last minute. Never chase a chick.

Chicks are glued to their phones 24/7. The old excuse of I fell asleep, didnt see your call, or my phone died dont work. You can either play the game wait your turn, smash and dip or just Bush her off top if you were looking for something more.

 

[Paper Boi]

honestly i've done this to women more than they've done it to me.

most of the time i wasnt lying either.

 

[Jhoon]

I fall asleep texting broads all the time.


Never got that as an excuse when being flaked, only when they stop responding. I've gotten way worse excuses for being flaked on.

what are some of the excuses you have heard?

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

If you wanna keep it playa, just text a basketball emoji. When she asked what it means, respond and say balls in your court now. Then make that hoe set something up. If she never does, fukk her.

If you in the field and constantly get at bytches, it ain’t nothing to not give a fukk about these hoes. That’s the main thing. You gotta have enough going on to truly not care

 

[ColdSlither]

I've never gotten that excuse. If I did then it's automatic shyt list. My tolerance is already low. I give second chances for some women because sometimes shyt does happen and you have to handle it. I don't expect someone to put on the breaks in whatever is going on in their life for me when I'm not even a factor yet. 95% of the time though, their contact info is getting deleted.

 

[Chris Cool]

what are some of the excuses you have heard?

Off the top of my head.
I have to take my grandma to church.
I had to use the bathroom.

I'm gonna have my son that weekend. (shyt was planned and it was known that it was her weekend, 2 months in advance)

 

[Mʀ2ᴋDᴇᴇᴢ]

If you wanna keep it playa, just text a basketball emoji. When she asked what it means, respond and say balls in your court now. Then make that hoe set something up. If she never does, fukk her.

If you in the field and constantly get at bytches, it ain’t nothing to not give a fukk about these hoes. That’s the main thing. You gotta have enough going on to truly not care

shyt Imma do that basketball emoji shyt if the situation emerges

 

[Address_Unknown]

Doesn't it take energy to ignore someone though. I think a better method is to still "talk" to them but just keep it minimum. Basically a few dry texts to her then go on about your day

Only if you ignoring them while peeking to see if they acknowledge you ignoring them, really. I only "Talk" with the ones that were actually genuine from the get go in wanting to meet up, or if we had a good rapport up until that point, then I keep it cordial but casual as hell like you said, with the dry texts...but other than that, I just up and keep it moving if she pulls that shyt, especially early on; Ain't got time for that shyt and I ain't facilitating the bullshyt at this age, your either want to chill or you don't.

 

[Yinny]

But I’m a sleepyhead though, I really do be falling asleep at inappropriate times! Don’t discriminate against us esp with this heat!

 

[Egomaniacal1]

Doesn't it take energy to ignore someone though. I think a better method is to still "talk" to them but just keep it minimum. Basically a few dry texts to her then go on about your day

I don’t know about the energy angle but I do agree with staying engaged in talking. What changes is your mentality and how you think of the woman in question. Let’s assume she wasn’t asleep she prioritized someone or something else over you, ok then you haven’t proven you are more worthy over another dude or situation. Doesn’t mean you aren’t just that women in general are dumb dumbs and usually don’t know a good thing when they see one or will go with a sure thing over someone new. You’re still interested in her so if your game is tight...and game to me really just means you have an engaging personality...you can still bring her around to you, but now you have the advantage because she should prove she’s worthy to you as well, at the very least prove she’s truly into you through her actions...she should be apologetic and hitting you up more.

To me not talking at all anymore is like quitting the game in the middle of it. You don’t win by quitting, you win by playing the game out and ending it on the terms you see fit as she reveals more of her character to you good or bad.

 

[Jhoon]

I don’t know about the energy angle but I do agree with staying engaged in talking. What changes is your mentality and how you think of the woman in question. Let’s assume she wasn’t asleep she prioritized someone or something else over you, ok then you haven’t proven you are more worthy over another dude or situation. Doesn’t mean you aren’t just that women in general are dumb dumbs and usually don’t know a good thing when they see one or will go with a sure thing over someone new. You’re still interested in her so if your game is tight...and game to me really just means you have an engaging personality...you can still bring her around to you, but now you have the advantage because she should prove she’s worthy to you as well, at the very least prove she’s truly into you through her actions...she should be apologetic and hitting you up more.

To me not talking at all anymore is like quitting the game in the middle of it. You don’t win by quitting, you win by playing the game out and ending it on the terms you see fit as she reveals more of her character to you good or bad.

This is the wrong way to go about life. If she's testing you now, do you think the quizzes are going to get easier or harder. Algebra comes before Differential Equations. Do not get caught up with basic arithmetic.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

If plans were made and she pulls that, she really didn't like you. If a woman's feeling you, she'll do her best to make a date. If she's really feeling you she'll also respond to a majority of your texts, and not 24 hours later. If a scenario happens where you're getting flaked on, or she's barely responding to your texts, she's not into you, and she's either using you for an ego boost, entertainment, or out of boredom. Trust me, your one out of many dudes that she's talking to, so she won't care how you feel about her excuses for why she's flaking or slow to respond. Actions speak louder than words. It's easy to pretend like your into a guy, by giving him crumbs--flirty texts, even going so far to say yes to a date yall arrange. But in the end, if she's sending you those flirty messages hours after you send one to her, or she's planning on skipping out on the date she planned with you, she really just ain't fukking with you. Fickle, or lukewarm women only play these shyt games with men they don't care about. Let it be a man that she really wants to fukk, or date--and her behavior will be drastically different. Yall know what I'm talking about, if you've ever had a woman into you, deep down you already know what's up when is playing these games with you. If you continue to proceed, then it's on you.

You know what's weird? I don't really have this happen to me much.

Women either fukk with me heavy or want absolutely nothing to do with me. 10/90 split.

I almost never get friendzoned. Like they'll say we're friends, but never actually interact with me UNLESS it's circumstantial like work or school.

I make male friends easily and I'm the leader of my squad. I can't get female friends though.

If I approach 100 women, 90 will go out of their way to ignore me and 10 will want to fukk me the same day.

What's causing this polarization?

 

[13473]

i do fall asleep tho

 

[BrothaZay]

But I’m a sleepyhead though, I really do be falling asleep at inappropriate times! Don’t discriminate against us esp with this heat!

If someone is on their way to see you, you dont just "fall asleep" unless you're an idiot