Nah teasing you about something you're wearing or your haircut is..at least with black jawns.
Is the "OMG IM SO SORRY I FELL ASLEEP" the most common 'shyt test' given by women
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African Peasant
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Women are not math tho.
when I was young I definitely heard this excuse before I didn't know it was so commonplace tho...
African Peasant
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That's an illusion tho. At some point, whether she likes you or not, you'll face some "shyt test" aka moment where she ain't acting right.
Women come with bullshyts, it comes with the territory. It's up to you to decide if that specific woman is worth the trouble.
Well if you agree with both those statements how do you know when you’re being tested and when she’s just being dumb?
If plans were made and she pulls that, she really didn't like you. If a woman's feeling you, she'll do her best to make a date. If she's really feeling you she'll also respond to a majority of your texts, and not 24 hours later. If a scenario happens where you're getting flaked on, or she's barely responding to your texts, she's not into you, and she's either using you for an ego boost, entertainment, or out of boredom. Trust me, your one out of many dudes that she's talking to, so she won't care how you feel about her excuses for why she's flaking or slow to respond. Actions speak louder than words. It's easy to pretend like your into a guy, by giving him crumbs--flirty texts, even going so far to say yes to a date yall arrange. But in the end, if she's sending you those flirty messages hours after you send one to her, or she's planning on skipping out on the date she planned with you, she really just ain't fukking with you. Fickle, or lukewarm women only play these shyt games with men they don't care about. Let it be a man that she really wants to fukk, or date--and her behavior will be drastically different. Yall know what I'm talking about, if you've ever had a woman into you, deep down you already know what's up when is playing these games with you. If you continue to proceed, then it's on you.
See this is why nikkas go crazy on women, they won’t keep it 100, they be the ones approaching you, making moves on you, but when it’s time to put up or shut up, then they play these games.
They think it’s funny to play games and try to get rise out of nikkas. Idk why because why would you want some nikka to hate you idk, but if a chick not interested she should say so from jump.
These chicks will be cool until the date comes then straight up do the meanest flake in history on you.
It’s pathetic when you understand it, and a good reason why women get treated like shyt, maybe even worse.
And these be the women blowing up your phone and putting in all the work, then they flake, they do this out of being a real bytch.
I don’t feel bad when nikkas bug on women that play games like that, it’s all their fault.
Bruh... I thought I was getting played like that with my current girl, but this chick is a fukking napahoiic. She needs to go see a doctor and get a b12 shot or something. She wakes up in the morning and 4 hours later... "I need a nap." *Goes work out * Takes nap* * Eats dinner " I need to go lay down and digest my food" *Turns into sleeping beauty and won't see her till 11pm.*
Test- "fell asleep" but text you about 30 minutes after she knows you wasted your time/drove back home already
Dumb- You tell her you're at her apartment. she says Ok. But doesnt tell you they have a gate code
This....
And if a bytch says she fell asleep or some shyt...
Which is usually bullshyt ..
If she doesnt immediately and adamantly reschedule and stick to it... then obviously I'm not gonna put no real interest in the bytch
Might just hit her once every couple weeks at like 10pm "u wanna stop by"
African Peasant
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A woman being flakey one time does not mean much to be honest. Sure, it means that she's not crazy about you, but it does not mean that you don't have any chance either. Her feeling s toward you might be neutral.
It depends on the interest you have in her; if you're just looking for a quick fukk; yeah let her be. But if you think she's worthy of more, ghosting her after that one incident is stupid or lazy. However, if she does that a second time AFTER you clearly told her that you don't fukk with that type of shyt, just move on.
A lot of cats are getting too emotional, despite claiming the opposite. I see cats getting mad at women they are trying to date because she did not answer the phone immediately when they call. I mean. Don't be emotional and don't be quick at drawing conclusions. I'm not advocating for letting women lead you on, but develop some resistance and distance.
It depends on the interest you have in her; if you're just looking for a quick fukk; yeah let her be. But if you think she's worthy of more, ghosting her after that one incident is stupid or lazy. However, if she does that a second time AFTER you clearly told her that you don't fukk with that type of shyt, just move on.
A lot of cats are getting too emotional, despite claiming the opposite. I see cats getting mad at women they are trying to date because she did not answer the phone immediately when they call. I mean. Don't be emotional and don't be quick at drawing conclusions. I'm not advocating for letting women lead you on, but develop some resistance and distance.
If she had a date with Idras Elba or Chris Brown, do you think she would've "fell asleep" and missed the date?
How ironic
Yeah i don’t think she would want to flake on him because you know....
honestly i've done this to women more than they've done it to me.
most of the time i wasnt lying either.
Me too.... usually wit a bytch I give no fux about dealing with....
I have given women the same excuse to because I really sleep 
An isolated instance here and there isn't anything to worry about especially if you all have already been dating/fwbing/whatever.
If she is flaky however then she's obviously a waste of your time.
An isolated instance here and there isn't anything to worry about especially if you all have already been dating/fwbing/whatever.
If she is flaky however then she's obviously a waste of your time.
I def do though, not that it happens often but there have been times when I had plans with someone and wound up out longer than I anticipated either the night before or the day of, I usually let the person know I'm taking a cat nap but they have turned into full on sleep ragers.
If I get bushed, so be it.
How is that cool though? You do the bullshyt to the guy and if he doesn’t hit you up, you say fukk him?
I can see if you hit him up and say sorry and at least respond, but if your straight don’t reply and he said fukk it, then you don’t care?
