Is the "OMG IM SO SORRY I FELL ASLEEP" the most common 'shyt test' given by women

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If plans were made and she pulls that, she really didn't like you. If a woman's feeling you, she'll do her best to make a date. If she's really feeling you she'll also respond to a majority of your texts, and not 24 hours later. If a scenario happens where you're getting flaked on, or she's barely responding to your texts, she's not into you, and she's either using you for an ego boost, entertainment, or out of boredom. Trust me, your one out of many dudes that she's talking to, so she won't care how you feel about her excuses for why she's flaking or slow to respond. Actions speak louder than words. It's easy to pretend like your into a guy, by giving him crumbs--flirty texts, even going so far to say yes to a date yall arrange. But in the end, if she's sending you those flirty messages hours after you send one to her, or she's planning on skipping out on the date she planned with you, she really just ain't fukking with you. Fickle, or lukewarm women only play these shyt games with men they don't care about. Let it be a man that she really wants to fukk, or date--and her behavior will be drastically different. Yall know what I'm talking about, if you've ever had a woman into you, deep down you already know what's up when is playing these games with you. If you continue to proceed, then it's on you.:yeshrug:
Not even trying to clown you, but have you ever been really busy?

I know I disappear a bit when busy, and I'm friends with women that do the same. Even when we are excited or genuinely interested in someone.
 

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You know what's weird? I don't really have this happen to me much.

Women either fukk with me heavy or want absolutely nothing to do with me. 10/90 split.

I almost never get friendzoned. Like they'll say we're friends, but never actually interact with me UNLESS it's circumstantial like work or school.

I make male friends easily and I'm the leader of my squad. I can't get female friends though.

If I approach 100 women, 90 will go out of their way to ignore me and 10 will want to fukk me the same day.

What's causing this polarization?

It’s most likely because you leave no ambiguity as to what you want from the lady. The 90% won’t offer you friend zone because they know you want sex so they dead the situation immediately. The other 10% wanna sex you so when you show intent, they return it.

Bruh... I thought I was getting played like that with my current girl, but this chick is a fukking napahoiic. She needs to go see a doctor and get a b12 shot or something. She wakes up in the morning and 4 hours later... "I need a nap." *Goes work out * Takes nap* * Eats dinner " I need to go lay down and digest my food" *Turns into sleeping beauty and won't see her till 11pm.*

Her BF works as a security guard and leaves at 10PM, she magically wakes up and calls you afterward.
 

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If you wanna keep it playa, just text a basketball emoji. When she asked what it means, respond and say balls in your court now. Then make that hoe set something up. If she never does, fukk her.

If you in the field and constantly get at bytches, it ain’t nothing to not give a fukk about these hoes. That’s the main thing. You gotta have enough going on to truly not care
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Not even trying to clown you, but have you ever been really busy?

I know I disappear a bit when busy, and I'm friends with women that do the same. Even when we are excited or genuinely interested in someone.

If you’re genuinely busy and have to rain check on someone you are interested in, you will most likely initiate the rescheduling and offer a date you know you can keep. We are not talking about that in this thread...we talking about the game players and liars who pretend to busy or sleep to duck you.
 

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It’s most likely because you leave no ambiguity as to what you want from the lady. The 90% won’t offer you friend zone because they know you want sex so they dead the situation immediately. The other 10% wanna sex you so when you show intent, they return it.



Her BF works as a security guard and leaves at 10PM, she magically wakes up and calls you afterward.
We live together. She legit sleeps like she is part cat.
 

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Doesn't it take energy to ignore someone though. I think a better method is to still "talk" to them but just keep it minimum. Basically a few dry texts to her then go on about your day

only takes energy if you care

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Not even trying to clown you, but have you ever been really busy?

I know I disappear a bit when busy, and I'm friends with women that do the same. Even when we are excited or genuinely interested in someone.

Yes I have but, generally I can respond to a simple text within 24 hours if I'm interested in the breh. And if I'm busy and I'm genuinely interested in someone, I won't agree to a date that I know I won't be able to make. And if I do need to cancel because something comes up, I'll let them before the date begins, not let them come to the meeting spot and I'm not there and when they confront me later, make up an excuse--to me that's rude asf. Unless there was a genuine emergency, or something crazy came up, you'll let that person know beforehand, if you actually care. If you don't, then you won't.

You don't forget about dates that were planned in advance, because usually there is communication in between the day you initially planned the date and the actual date, with that person, which serve as a reminder.

The OP is talking about women that don't even give a reason for missing out on dates they agreed to, until AFTER he shows up for the date. I've done that before to a breh, and it was the same breh I was being flaky with in general. To be honest, I really didn't care about it, because I didn't really like him that much. On the flipside, when I've been into a man, even if it's last minute notice--like a couple of hours before, I'll let him know I can no longer make it and reschedule if something comes up. I'll generally respond with a text, within 24 hours(because it takes a few seconds to text even when I'm busy). That's just me. :yeshrug:
 

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I showed up and a broad tried this on me meeting for the first time at her place

Called her told her to wake her ass up cuz I was waiting for a minute after texting her

Then smashed
 

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It’s most likely because you leave no ambiguity as to what you want from the lady. The 90% won’t offer you friend zone because they know you want sex so they dead the situation immediately. The other 10% wanna sex you so when you show intent, they return it.

True. And sometimes I don't even approach them sexually.
I must be giving off a vibe.
 

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Especially the most common first one they give you.


I swear atleast 70% of females are gonna try to pull this the first time yall are supposed to meet up, especially if its later.


Don't sweat it, they weren't interested in meeting anyway....
 

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See this is why nikkas go crazy on women, they won’t keep it 100, they be the ones approaching you, making moves on you, but when it’s time to put up or shut up, then they play these games.

They think it’s funny to play games and try to get rise out of nikkas. Idk why because why would you want some nikka to hate you idk, but if a chick not interested she should say so from jump.

These chicks will be cool until the date comes then straight up do the meanest flake in history on you.

It’s pathetic when you understand it, and a good reason why women get treated like shyt, maybe even worse.

And these be the women blowing up your phone and putting in all the work, then they flake, they do this out of being a real bytch.

I don’t feel bad when nikkas bug on women that play games like that, it’s all their fault.

Look, to be real, sometimes we're wishy washy asf. Like the day a man approached, we found him reasonably attractive enough to give our number. But by the next day, we realize that he was just alright looking, and we have better looking or men we like more already on our roster. We may entertain him for a little bit out of boredom, but in the end, the reason we play these games, is because at that point it's just entertainment for us, ego boosts, and crumbs. Sometimes the games begin, once we've changed our mind and once that happens our interest level changes too. Like our interest level was on point when we met you, but then after texting and communicating with you a little bit, peeping your social media, whatever, something about you turned us all the way off. If you kept hitting us up, flirting and shyt, then we'll continue with it out of boredom, even though we know we're not really going to pursue things with you. Or in between the time we met you and the date we planned with you, we met someone else that we vibed with better or are attracted to more, that breh becomes the priority and you're just the backup. The game is cruel. To be real, thanks to social media and a lot of thirsty brehs, a lot people are treated as easily disposable.

Hell, one of my friends, has this thing where if a man is saying crazy things or texting shyt that she doesn't like, after they initially met, she then asks them for a dikk pic and holds on to it. I asked her why she does this, and she said "these are the men I placed in the not-relationship material category, and once they get in that category, I say whatever the fukk I want to them, I be all bold with these nikkas just for the hell of it, because I no longer give a fukk. So hell yeah I ask them to send me dikk pics and depending on how I feel, I might hit them up for dikk when I don't have other options"

Just don't get too invested and talk to multiple girls at the same time, so that if one starts acting up, you won't even give a fukk when she plays these kind of games. :yeshrug:
 
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