Is the "OMG IM SO SORRY I FELL ASLEEP" the most common 'shyt test' given by women

[Egomaniacal1]

Test- "fell asleep" but text you about 30 minutes after she knows you wasted your time/drove back home already

Dumb- You tell her you're at her apartment. she says Ok. But doesnt tell you they have a gate code

Both of those could go either way. A test to me would involve what I know or think of her motivation to do what she did. Like I said y’all giving women to much credit when they are usually playing the game a certain way based off your actions and words...so if you coming across to thirsty and she ain’t in the mood for all that instead of just saying that then you might get the the I feel asleep move...it’s not a test to me as much as she did something dumb instead of being a woman about her shyt.

Anyway I feel like you’ve left a lot of detail out of your initial post, Like how long y’all been talking...how much effort was she putting in getting to know you...did you come at her like a thot/booty call or you was gonna take her out or what??

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

I've been quietly either'd by that so many times in my life

:drakesimpmode:

Women suck yo...fukk em
:drakesimpmode:

 

[Balla]

Well to be honest I’ve left a bit out of my initial post...

Typically I don’t go after a woman for anything other than sex and a good time. So I’m assuming that’s what we’re talking about...dating a woman for me has usually happened when I’ve been impressed enough by her character, behavior and skills. So I don’t worry about tests to much anyway...I kinda think there’s no such thing as tests, as much as it’s men giving these broads to much credit...women are just idiots and do dumb shyt all the time. Y’all do what y’all want but if I’m interested in a chick it takes more than a one time unavailable move for me to toss her cuz I know how dumb they can be and I know how situations can change in the blink of an eye.

I agree 100% but after the first flake I won’t be so nice.

I let it slide one time because these hoes have other things going and don’t know me yet, they get a slight pass, but now I’m not gonna be nice about it and have to call them out, I hate having to do that, but they don’t learn any other way.

 

[Smokin Rider]

Any woman attempting any type of "test" automatically gets the

All women will test you breh, its nature

 

[Egomaniacal1]

I agree 100% but after the first flake I won’t be so nice.

I let it slide one time because these hoes have other things going and don’t know me yet, they get a slight pass, but now I’m not gonna be nice about it and have to call them out, I hate having to do that, but they don’t learn any other way.

I agree with cutting her off for multiple flakiness....but I disagree with the teach em line. You not teaching her anything if she don’t know you enough or like you enough to care about your attention. Women have options all day so you ghosting her usually doesn’t matter a hill of beans to her when it’s ten other dudes still on her ass. That’s the logic behind not disengaging all the way for me....it’s about me and my pursuit and how interested I am in her not so much about what she’s trying to do or what she’s got going on. It’s a game of chess and women do the most to try to make you rage quit on them.

 

[Balla]

@BrothaZay

Why u had to make this thread today? I said to myself I was gonna be in a good mood this week and not worry about shyt, then I see the thread lmao

One thing I’ll say is I’m glad I ain’t the only one that had this happened to them.

I got hit with that excuse one time recently and I’m still mad at that bytch, all she did was play games after that.

I never got flaked on like that in my life, so I’m still mad about that shyt.

Yeah, I’ll keep it 100, I’m a angry ass bitter nikka for that shyt, that bytch was playing games, I really wanted to fukk her too. I wanted to be nice to her.

Chick literally went to me first, she initiated everything and was acting so happy to see me, bytch did a 180 on me with that dumb ass flake, but I’m too smart for that and I hit her up before, she ain’t answer, so I ain’t go.

She hit me up later with that bullshyt excuse.

fukk her

I’m not gonna say too much, but she can get this

 

[Yinny]

How is that cool though? You do the bullshyt to the guy and if he doesn’t hit you up, you say fukk him?

I can see if you hit him up and say sorry and at least respond, but if your straight don’t reply and he said fukk it, then you don’t care?

I do reply and apologize, I’m not sure where you got that I don’t. Obviously (or maybe not so obviously) I feel bad for falling asleep and conduct myself accordingly, I’m not some dikkhead who just laughs it off other than the sheer ridiculousness of it. I meant if he chooses not to believe me or ghosts like the OP is suggesting.

@Serious What dm?

 

[Balla]

I agree with cutting her off for multiple flakiness....but I disagree with the teach em line. You not teaching her anything if she don’t know you enough or like you enough to care about your attention. Women have options all day so you ghosting her usually doesn’t matter a hill of beans to her when it’s ten other dudes still on her ass. That’s the logic behind not disengaging all the way for me....it’s about me and my pursuit and how interested I am in her not so much about what she’s trying to do or what she’s got going on. It’s a game of chess and women do the most to try to make you rage quit on them.

Yeah I didn’t make it clear, I meant like imma tell her that it isn’t cool and she knows that she really didn’t fall asleep.

I’m not gonna curse her out unless she literally tells me she gonna make it right before I leave then she flakes when I get there. Idk if I would curse her out, but that would be the only time I would really rage.

This one chick I actually played it cool with because I actually tried to understand why she would do it, she ain’t know me, so I hit her up and she kept apologizing to me the whole time, things ain’t work out so that shyt was done.

But yeah, I’ll admit it, imma bitter ass nikka for that shyt, I had nothing but good intentions for her and she tried to play me.

Then you get women who say, “why a girl always got to mess it up” when you don’t wanna cuff them. Yeah, y’all bytches really did mess it up, no love.

Cold hearted.

 

[Sylar]

If plans were made and she pulls that, she really didn't like you. If a woman's feeling you, she'll do her best to make a date. If she's really feeling you she'll also respond to a majority of your texts, and not 24 hours later. If a scenario happens where you're getting flaked on, or she's barely responding to your texts, she's not into you, and she's either using you for an ego boost, entertainment, or out of boredom. Trust me, your one out of many dudes that she's talking to, so she won't care how you feel about her excuses for why she's flaking or slow to respond. Actions speak louder than words. It's easy to pretend like your into a guy, by giving him crumbs--flirty texts, even going so far to say yes to a date yall arrange. But in the end, if she's sending you those flirty messages hours after you send one to her, or she's planning on skipping out on the date she planned with you, she really just ain't fukking with you. Fickle, or lukewarm women only play these shyt games with men they don't care about. Let it be a man that she really wants to fukk, or date--and her behavior will be drastically different. Yall know what I'm talking about, if you've ever had a woman into you, deep down you already know what's up when is playing these games with you. If you continue to proceed, then it's on you.

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I know it hurts our ego to accept the truth, fellas. but we gotta stop putting ourselves in positions to be played and used by these women. If she aint fukking with u and making effort, keep it moving and dont look back. Save yourself the L's you are guaranteed to take by making her feel like she's your only option.

 

[Balla]

I do reply and apologize, I’m not sure where you got that I don’t. Obviously (or maybe not so obviously) I feel bad for falling asleep and conduct myself accordingly, I’m not some dikkhead who just laughs it off other than the sheer ridiculousness of it. I meant if he chooses not to believe me or ghosts like the OP is suggesting.

@Serious What dm?

I didn’t say you didn’t, I said if you do tell them that you’re sorry that’s cool.

If you reach out and apologize it’s a lot better.

But if a girl just straight up says, “well if he doesn’t hit me up because I feel asleep on him and he doesn’t hit me back up, then fukk him.”

That shyt ain’t cool at all.

*I’m not talking about you below, talking about other chicks*

Especially if it’s the day of the date. How you fall asleep before the date?

But why would a dude really believe that? Do you fall asleep when you got work or school? You got an alarm right?

It’s more of a girl insulting my intelligence to really say to me that she fell asleep right before the date when she knew the time and everything.

How do you say that to someone with a straight face?

 

[Balla]

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I know it hurts our ego to accept the truth, fellas. but we gotta stop putting ourselves in positions to be played and used by these women. If she aint fukking with u and making effort, keep it moving and dont look back. Save yourself the L's you are guaranteed to take by making her feel like she's your only option.

But what about when a chick puts all the effort in and acts like she wants to see you? Then she does a 180?

They do that because they know if they act aloof you not gonna talk to her.

Pure evil my nikka.

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

It’s all part of the game..

 

[EndDomination]

I fall asleep on women all the time
It can happen

 

[BrothaZay]

I fall asleep on women all the time
It can happen

You give someone your address, and fall asleep when they're on their way, all the time?

 

[FLATOP]

Men who let women play games with them have never had a woman show strong choosing signals

• they try to get in your face whenever possible
• text back, call back and come over at any hour of the day
• down for anything you suggest

That said, dont take advice from me. all my game was learnt in college where its easy. the real world different