Is the "OMG IM SO SORRY I FELL ASLEEP" the most common 'shyt test' given by women
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Look, to be real, sometimes we're wishy washy asf. Like the day a man approached, we found him reasonably attractive enough to give our number. But by the next day, we realize that he was just alright looking, and we have better looking or men we like more already on our roster. We may entertain him for a little bit out of boredom, but in the end, the reason we play these games, is because at that point it's just entertainment for us, ego boosts, and crumbs. Sometimes the games begin, once we've changed our mind and once that happens our interest level changes too. Like our interest level was on point when we met you, but then after texting and communicating with you a little bit, peeping your social media, whatever, something about you turned us all the way off. If you kept hitting us up, flirting and shyt, then we'll continue with it out of boredom, even though we know we're not really going to pursue things with you. Or in between the time we met you and the date we planned with you, we met someone else that we vibed with better or are attracted to more, that breh becomes the priority and you're just the backup. The game is cruel. To be real, thanks to social media and a lot of thirsty brehs, a lot people are treated as easily disposable.
Hell, one of my friends, has this thing where if a man is saying crazy things or texting shyt that she doesn't like, after they initially met, she then asks them for a dikk pic and holds on to it. I asked her why she does this, and she said "these are the men I placed in the not-relationship material category, and once they get in that category, I say whatever the fukk I want to them, I be all bold with these nikkas just for the hell of it, because I no longer give a fukk. So hell yeah I ask them to send me dikk pics and depending on how I feel, I might hit them up for dikk when I don't have other options"
Just don't get too invested and talk to multiple girls at the same time, so that if one starts acting up, you won't even give a fukk when she plays these kind of games.
Thing is...... I was talking to other girls, but I was feeling this bytch.
I even tore down what I didn’t like about her and compared her to other girls I was talking to.
If you got a thing for someone you do, and I didn't even talk to her that much, just here and there and I made it my mission to only hit her up to get her out.
She showed high interest the whole time, she would respond and say she can chill whenever. She replied fast, but that day of the shyt, bytch hit me with that sleep excuse, I spoke to her the day before and even confirmed.
I ain’t even give her compliments or nothing, just got to know about her and kept it moving, no lovey dovey shyt over here.
She gave me an apology and whatever, but things ain’t work out, so I got a new enemy on the list.
I don’t know why women want you to hate them, like do y’all really feel safe knowing you could be playing a real crazy dude? Not talking about me, but some guys really won’t let that type of disrespect fly.
Not the flake itself, the toying around with him.
She could have just left me alone and never approached me. This was all her bird ass fault, I didn’t ask her to talk to me. I just did what I did as a man and try to fukk her.
And I’m glad you wrote what you wrote and kept it real, I’ll always keep it in the back of my mind if I ever feel for a chick again.
They are literally nothing but bodies to me now.
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Hmmm, it might be how you carry yourself, or your looks, or some kind of combination. If you're not attractive and don't have other desirable traits that are easy to spot, and that compensate, it could be the issue. On the other hand, some brehs give off weird vibes, enough to the point where a woman can smell it on them. And the only women that will be interested are women that give off the same vibes. Sometimes it's because you're too thirsty and give off incel vibes. For the right women your thirstiness will be appreciated, but for the average woman you'll be written off because a lot of women prefer men that are confident and have the capability to pull a lot of females. It's hard to say without knowing you.
Omg I just saw your text like 3 weeks later after you sent
@CarmelBarbie
So let me ask you this,
What makes you stop being attracted to one guy and attracted to the other?
What are the key differences between each men?
And if the other guy peeks your interest more? Why do you entertain the other dude you’re not interested in at all?
How does an ego boost from the guy you don’t like do anything for you?
And why would you pick the other guy?
So let me ask you this,
What makes you stop being attracted to one guy and attracted to the other?
What are the key differences between each men?
And if the other guy peeks your interest more? Why do you entertain the other dude you’re not interested in at all?
How does an ego boost from the guy you don’t like do anything for you?
And why would you pick the other guy?
Hmmm, it might be how you carry yourself, or your looks, or some kind of combination. If you're not attractive and don't have other desirable traits that are easy to spot, and that compensate, it could be the issue. On the other hand, some brehs give off weird vibes, enough to the point where a woman can smell it on them. And the only women that will be interested are women that give off the same vibes. Sometimes it's because you're too thirsty and give off incel vibes. For the right women your thirstiness will be appreciated, but for the average woman you'll be written off because a lot of women prefer men that are confident and have the capability to pull a lot of females. It's hard to say without knowing you.
Lmao what are incel vibes??
Like what other brehs and brehettes in here said. A woman who REALLY likes you will put all her focus on you. If you can’t tell then that’s on you.
Trust and believe she is entertaining multiple men. That’s why it’s very important for a man to have options.
Trust and believe she is entertaining multiple men. That’s why it’s very important for a man to have options.
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See that's the thing. I'm confident and women enjoy my company when they're with me in the moment.Hmmm, it might be how you carry yourself, or your looks, or some kind of combination. If you're not attractive and don't have other desirable traits that are easy to spot, and that compensate, it could be the issue. On the other hand, some brehs give off weird vibes, enough to the point where a woman can smell it on them. And the only women that will be interested are women that give off the same vibes. Sometimes it's because you're too thirsty and give off incel vibes. For the right women your thirstiness will be appreciated, but for the average woman you'll be written off because a lot of women prefer men that are confident and have the capability to pull a lot of females. It's hard to say without knowing you.
I definitely don't act thirsty. I don't even compliment women on their looks. I just talk to them like normal and have fun.
Most of the time I wait for signals to approach.
The women that I get are equal to or better looking than the ones that reject me
Here's something even stranger though. If I don't smash the first time we meet, they never want to chill with me again.
But if I run into them they'll be with it.
The feeling is like whenever I'm not around they sour on me, but in their presence it builds back up. That's why I don't even like texting anymore. I just get ghosted eventually.
Most of the games I played with men were when I was younger and had a lot of free time and a lot of immaturity and fukked up ways. I was selfish and had a NFG type of mentality, where if I felt like going out with you then I would, if I didn't, I wasn't showing up. Didn't care about the backlash, there were always plenty more. I entertained these brehs for ego boosts to validate whatever insecurities I felt at time, or I was entertaining them because I was using them for something.
I'm older now and my time is much more limited, so I don't like wasting it. With anyone or anything. So I don't entertain brehs I'm not interested in pursuing anything with, because it's a waste of my time. I also worked on the internal issues/insecurities that I felt, so no longer need to feel validation from others, let alone men I'm not interested in. And after a few situations where I saw how hurtful it was to the brehs I was using, and had a much needed dose of karma that humbled me, I stopped with using people and all the other fukked up things I was doing. I'm pretty introspective, so with time and internal work, came wisdom. But I'm going to keep it real with you: a lot of younger women are dumb asf, petty, and fickle. That's why I advise you to not invest too much in females that aren't your gf yet. Never put in more work then what they put in--so if they're not really trying, fall back. Be mysterious--intrigue them and keep them interested and curious enough to want to see you. Don't put any of those females on a pedestal either. They're use to brehs doing that. But when they meet a breh that doesn't, it fukks with them. And it becomes a mission to get that breh to hype them up like all the others. But I can tell your upset about this, You have to learn to not take it too heart too much.
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I don't know breh. You might be what some women consider fukking material. Like your not someone they want to be seen with, but they get a vibe from you that you know how to fukk, so when they're in your presence or around you that feeling gets conjured up. But otherwise, your just not someone they're trying to date. I've said it before, but I've liked brehs that were ugly gang, because I felt sexual chemistry and they had a good personality.
They seem weird and have this energy surrounding them that feels "off". It's an instinct thing. Usually they're also unattractive and socially awkward too. All of that combined, will send most brehettes running.
She's only testing because the majority of men have left her with the assumption that they are okay with pop quizzes and love test. I will be letting her know I'm not like the rest of these poindexters,I don't do pop quizzes:respect:
I don't like people wasting my time. If she flakes on me, I'm going to tell her clearly that's it's not acceptable and a sign of a bad education. Then I'll decide if I give her another shot or not, depending on her reaction. If she reacts like a normal person should (apologizing and shyt) I'll give her another shot.
If she try that shyt again,
It's the same thing with women coming late, changing the location at the last minute, etc.
Simps gave some of these women too many passes, so they don"t know how to act appropriately.
This man here got it right,this thread proves how much you nikkas let women get away with this shyt. Problem is you think ignoring someone who don't really give a damn about you is a punishment or that she's learned a valuable lesson
. When in reality all she has learned is she found a easy way to make nikkas dismiss themselves without her having to be grown and be the bad guy. And if you try to play it cool like its not biggie because you have other women,all she has learned is that she still has an easy way to get out of her obligation,by saying she fell asleep or using another goofy excuse. Instead of just being a grown woman and saying she don't really feel like it,trying to spare feelings,and not be the bad guy. Hell no,I'm going to let you know that you are the bad guy,and that I know you are the bad guy in this situation and you need to woman up in the future,because you can't deal with people being fake and lying. Now if she don't like you she still won't learn a lesson and will rationalize it as you being insecure,controlling,rude. Sometimes even if she likes you will hit the eject knowing she's been exposed and wants to save face.But deep down she will know the truth and I bet she thinks twice next time she tries to pull some bullshyt. Todays men are horrible when it comes to female correction,then wonder why they habitual line step and disrespect from relationship to relationship:respect:.
seabreeze80
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She's just not into you. Its not a test. She straight up let you know that you are not her main priority. Suck it up. Delete her number and move on.
