Is the "OMG IM SO SORRY I FELL ASLEEP" the most common 'shyt test' given by women

Thurgood Thurston III

#LLNB #LLLB #E4R x 2 🖤🖤🖤🆚🌀🌀
Joined
Nov 20, 2017
Messages
11,760
Reputation
4,595
Daps
54,119
Reppin
The kirk to the fields
look in the mirror and make sure you're comfortable with yourself..

If you're a corny nikka with stanky breath fix that shyt. If you have no fashion sense fix that shyt. Be the best you and find the person that appreciates that "best you".

But what if you look in the mirror and you're comfortable with being a corny nikka with stanky breath and no fashion sense?

It's hard to admit, but half of the battle is physical attraction. The other half is comfort and trust.

Being comfortable looking like the Demogorgon from Stranger Things won't get you anywhere.
 

phcitywarrior

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Nov 19, 2016
Messages
14,177
Reputation
4,837
Daps
34,109
Reppin
Naija / DMV
If plans were made and she pulls that, she really didn't like you. If a woman's feeling you, she'll do her best to make a date. If she's really feeling you she'll also respond to a majority of your texts, and not 24 hours later. If a scenario happens where you're getting flaked on, or she's barely responding to your texts, she's not into you, and she's either using you for an ego boost, entertainment, or out of boredom. Trust me, your one out of many dudes that she's talking to, so she won't care how you feel about her excuses for why she's flaking or slow to respond. Actions speak louder than words. It's easy to pretend like your into a guy, by giving him crumbs--flirty texts, even going so far to say yes to a date yall arrange. But in the end, if she's sending you those flirty messages hours after you send one to her, or she's planning on skipping out on the date she planned with you, she really just ain't fukking with you. Fickle, or lukewarm women only play these shyt games with men they don't care about. Let it be a man that she really wants to fukk, or date--and her behavior will be drastically different. Yall know what I'm talking about, if you've ever had a woman into you, deep down you already know what's up when is playing these games with you. If you continue to proceed, then it's on you.:yeshrug:

/thread.

I think the issue is some guys have never really had a chick that's into them before, so they don't know how to differentiate when a woman is being flirtatiously coy/"playing hard to get" (but still interested) vs. when a woman is just stringing them on. Some of us have been there before (heck, I have). Gotta just get brehs hip.
 

CodeBlaMeVi

I love not to know so I can know more...
Supporter
Joined
Oct 3, 2013
Messages
38,421
Reputation
3,600
Daps
105,583
ABUNDANCE Mindset: Ghosted. Not even tripping off that hoe, got 3 other cheap dates lined up this weekend see if I can get the drawers up off 1 of them or might find 1 I click with even

SCARCITY Mindset: Aww shucks, m-maybe I should send her a text to let her know I really don't appreciate her standing me up like that. I'll tell her to reschedule when she's free.
It depends on the life one lives. Some guys like myself don’t care to be talking to multiple women simultaneously to protect my ego and heart. I don’t mind taking Ls. However, I don’t like time wasted. Personally, I’m not too cool to tell a chick I ain’t feeling it, it ain’t working, and am moving on. That’s what men got to get to.

Your mind and instincts are not the same. I’m trying to follow my instincts because they’ve never let me down.
 

phcitywarrior

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Nov 19, 2016
Messages
14,177
Reputation
4,837
Daps
34,109
Reppin
Naija / DMV
U gotta have like 5 back up plans..cause this generation is too flaky

Bro...this is something I've really been realizing more and more. Not even with women and dates, but with both genders and just showing up in general, even for little things.

Yesterday my boy and his girl invited me to a popular brunch spot in Brooklyn. My boy's girl invited like 5 of her friends and my boy invited like 3 of his (including me). We were supposed to be 10 total. In the end, it was 3 of us that showed up on time. One other girl came late and as a result she couldn't sit with us. Everyone else flaked.

It's better to say no at the jump than to say yes and then flake last minute.
 

Tenchi Ryu

Ashtray B!tch
Joined
Nov 17, 2014
Messages
88,595
Reputation
25,736
Daps
402,268
Reppin
Chicago - SouthSide - Wild 100s
It depends on the life one lives. Some guys like myself don’t care to be talking to multiple women simultaneously to protect my ego and heart. I don’t mind taking Ls. However, I don’t like time wasted. Personally, I’m not too cool to tell a chick I ain’t feeling it, it ain’t working, and am moving on. That’s what men got to get to.

Your mind and instincts are not the same. I’m trying to follow my instincts because they’ve never let me down.
Right, I hate this stupid ass roster culture all cause people ain’t got thick skin to handle rejection
 

Data-Hawk

I have no strings on me.
Joined
May 6, 2012
Messages
8,423
Reputation
1,995
Daps
16,329
Reppin
Oasis
shyt had me heated. Only happen once. I really don’t like having my time wasted plus bytch didn’t have a car so it was a 25 min drive to pick her up. I blocked her after she told me she fell asleep
i waited outside 25 minutes before I left big L


mistake #1( unless yall like under 23 etc ). If she don't have a car, she'll be nothing but a headache.
 

Vandelay

Life is absurd. Lean into it.
Joined
Apr 14, 2013
Messages
25,409
Reputation
7,028
Daps
91,547
Reppin
Phi Chi Connection
If she pulls this when we are supposed to meet up, she's done unless she really makes an effort to meet up again.

If it's just a missed phone call or text, I'm not tripping because I know I am most likely not the only one she's talking to...if we just started talking...

But usually I've hit women with this when I was up to no good. So I imagine it to be vice versa.
 

Spiritual Stratocaster

Jesus is KING
Supporter
Joined
Aug 14, 2014
Messages
38,606
Reputation
7,335
Daps
149,636
Same.

I ain’t been friend zoned since college

I’m glad...shyt just don’t respond to me and I’ll get the hint
See I don't understand the friend zone..

If anything I'll put myself in the friend zone if I have no desire to fukk you.

That's usually for chicks I find cool but I deem arent worthy of me putting in any effort in tryna fukk em.

It's very few women I can tolerate being around besides fukkin em..especially these young jawns...be annoying af.
 
Top