Is the "OMG IM SO SORRY I FELL ASLEEP" the most common 'shyt test' given by women

[jwonder]

Any woman attempting any type of "test" automatically gets the

Exactly. Cats be blaming women for all this shyt, when it's 90% of men so desperate for p*ssy they go along with the game playing. Why do you think they keep doing it, if you indulge?



The most game playing I've seen in my life was when social media kicked off. But it's a numbers game. Never just talk to one broad. Talk to as many as you can and let them just fall off. Any test or game playing delete them out your phone. These broads be getting big mad when they text you and you hit them with the "Who is this?"

 

[African Peasant]

I personally don’t feel she would deserve to know that it effected me in any way. A serious relationship or my wife gets all of that. In this case I’d stay silent then give her a couple days to offer something in reciprocity to show she’s sorry before it’s a wrap

I see your point. But for me it's a matter of principle. Man or woman, if you make me schedule a day for you then you flake on me; I have to give you a piece of my mind.

 

[Silkk]

A woman respects you because you demand and command respect, not because she likes you. A woman feeling you is good, but it's not enough. A woman can like you, but if you're soft, she will disrespect you. It's that Scorpio/crocodile story.

It's the scorpion and the toad.

And a woman will respect you if she knows what you're about, knows that you mean what you say, and is not willing to lose out on everything that you embody. You can demand respect all you want, don't mean that you gonna get it.

 

[VertigoKnight]

...just mind fukk em back and keep it moving..give em ur social media...friend or follow her...flake on her on the first meet up date...post shyt of u doing something cool on the same day...guarantee u won't have that problem..fukks their head up.... With most women u can kinda tell who gone flake on u if u dealt with women long enough...she giving off them vibes thru text or convo act accordingly...kills two birds...establishes dominance and shows her u ain't pressed like that

I used to fall for the lets change locations one. Now if I hear that I cancel the meetup entirely. As she's 90% going to half ass it.

 

[jwonder]

This is the wrong way to go about life. If she's testing you now, do you think the quizzes are going to get easier or harder. Algebra comes before Differential Equations. Do not get caught up with basic arithmetic.

Truth. Some dudes are really clueless on these issues and it really is common sense. You have something planned. The chick gives you a really lame excuse. Disengage conversation and move on. What's hard about that? The game playing will only get worse. Women don't play games with dudes they are really interested in, unless she is very immature.

 

[jwonder]

Only if you ignoring them while peeking to see if they acknowledge you ignoring them, really. I only "Talk" with the ones that were actually genuine from the get go in wanting to meet up, or if we had a good rapport up until that point, then I keep it cordial but casual as hell like you said, with the dry texts...but other than that, I just up and keep it moving if she pulls that shyt, especially early on; Ain't got time for that shyt and I ain't facilitating the bullshyt at this age, your either want to chill or you don't.

Ignoring someone takes zero energy. That's what the block/spam list is for. Keep texting her like a dumb ass is using more energy.

 

[African Peasant]

It's the scorpion and the toad.

And a woman will respect you if she knows what you're about, knows that you mean what you say, and is not willing to lose out on everything that you embody. You can demand respect all you want, don't mean that you gonna get it.

Demanding respect is not begging, it's about the way you act, as you put it. A woman will respect you based upon the way you move, including toward her. Her liking you is not enough. You have to put boundaries. If you don't, respect won't be there and fukkery wil be at the rendez-vous. Her liking you or not is irrelevant at that point. Women always misbehave, especially today where these girls don't have a good education. Relying on the "she likes me, she'll cooperate" is a mistake. She'll cooperate because you make her cooperate.

 

[Jhoon]

Ignoring someone takes zero energy. That's what the block/spam list is for. Keep texting her like a dumb ass is using more energy.

I have been in way too many situations of being stuck on an elevator with limited oxygen and I’m still trying to flirt over my hypoxia.

If they considered you a serious person they would treat you as such. If they think you’re a clown, they are going to get their balloons ready.

 

[Jhoon]

Demanding respect is not begging, it's about the way you act, as you put it. A woman will respect you based upon the way you move, including toward her. Her liking you is not enough. You have to put boundaries. If you don't, respect won't be there and fukkery wil be at the rendez-vous. Her liking you or not is irrelevant at that point. Women always misbehave, especially today where these girls don't have a good education. Relying on the "she likes me, she'll cooperate" is a mistake. She'll cooperate because you make her cooperate.

This is that African discipline I have heard about.

I can imagine you shaking your head in disapproval warning her that her antics will not be tolerated.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

this chick i saw over the weekend I was kinda iffy so I didn't start getting ready until she texted me talkin bout "you almost here?"

Then I started getting ready and made up an excuse where i was when i arrived. I was just sitting around playin 2K

 

[Silkk]

Demanding respect is not begging, it's about the way you act, as you put it. A woman will respect you based upon the way you move, including toward her. Her liking you is not enough. You have to put boundaries. If you don't, respect won't be there and fukkery wil be at the rendez-vous. Her liking you or not is irrelevant at that point. Women always misbehave, especially today where these girls don't have a good education. Relying on the "she likes me, she'll cooperate" is a mistake. She'll cooperate because you make her cooperate.

We saying the same shyt breh lol

 

[Deuterion]

But what if you look in the mirror and you're comfortable with being a corny nikka with stanky breath and no fashion sense?

It's hard to admit, but half of the battle is physical attraction. The other half is comfort and trust.

Being comfortable looking like the Demogorgon from Stranger Things won't get you anywhere.

What part of “be the best you that you can be” is confusing you? Someone comfortable with stank breath and being corny is not being the best version of themself.

 

[King Jae]

I used to fall for the lets change locations one. Now if I hear that I cancel the meetup entirely. As she's 90% going to half ass it.

I did too...then I developed a fukk it attitude...they would hit me that and I would be like aight cool...well ima be over here kickin it ill holla at ya...like Kenny Red say...I don't negotiate with terrorists....when I realized half these chix got wack personalities and can't fukk for real...was like a weight lifted off me...shyt became a game...

 

[DapMeUp!]

Right, I hate this stupid ass roster culture all cause people ain’t got thick skin to handle rejection

I don't think it's about not being able to handle rejection tbh...

Having a roster, or lets just call it options puts you in a certain mindstate that you just can't get speaking to one woman.
For instance, the premise of this thread is around women flaking.
If this is the only woman in your life, your far more likely to make excuses and accept behaviour that a man who has options will not accept.

If you like to put all your eggs in one basket so be it...but just take a look at all the excuses people are quoting in this thread from women.
The odds aren't in your favour.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Just go "Oh, well, next time then." and THEN COMPLETELY IGNORE HER EXISTENCE.
If she ain't feeling you, she ain't feeling you, but you'd be a sucker to let your time be wasted like that shyt again by giving her the time of day. Unless you like to play games with broads, then by all means, indulge her, I guess.

Funny thing is that a lot of dudes are hesitant to pull this trigger...then they find themselves being ghosted or ignored by the same chick after that first or second date. Could haven nipped it in the bud from the start but you got desperate. Now you're lurking her IG page and her stories are all about not letting any nikka waste her time in 2019 blah blah blah. Burns your soul...

Have a priority list. Maybe the girl at the top of the list might get more leeway...but not too much. Unless you got a family emergency or work a crazy job, you should have time to tell someone "hey I'm sorry, I can't make it today, can we reschedule?" And social media is so public now that you can easily verify if someone is bullshytting. She's posting stories and memes on IG but can't respond to your "hey, we still on for 3PM today?" tweet? Yea.....


I had a prime opportunity to outright ignore a chick into the ether. Instead I let her apologize, after a 2 month lack of us talking, and we started texting again. She asked me for money a few months later, and I was surprised we kept talking after I said no. Kept hitting me with texts about not having xyz, to the point I rarely even felt like asking "how are you" because I knew the sob story was coming. But I liked her. Hit her up last month to see how she's doing, told her I'm here if she ever wants to vent (she used to vent to me all the time) and she hit me with "thanks but it never works so I'm just going to focus on working as much as I can to get by..." That was the last time we talked. I saw on her IG shortly thereafter that she got a new number. She didn't text me the new one.


Sucks but...I let her back into my life, after she did some shyt I should have exiled her for. Learn to just move on brehs. There are plenty of cool, insightful, fun chicks out there who WANT to be with you and enjoy your company. So why obsess over the ones who don't give a shyt.