Is the "OMG IM SO SORRY I FELL ASLEEP" the most common 'shyt test' given by women

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If plans were made and she pulls that, she really didn't like you. If a woman's feeling you, she'll do her best to make a date. If she's really feeling you she'll also respond to a majority of your texts, and not 24 hours later. If a scenario happens where you're getting flaked on, or she's barely responding to your texts, she's not into you, and she's either using you for an ego boost, entertainment, or out of boredom. Trust me, your one out of many dudes that she's talking to, so she won't care how you feel about her excuses for why she's flaking or slow to respond. Actions speak louder than words. It's easy to pretend like your into a guy, by giving him crumbs--flirty texts, even going so far to say yes to a date yall arrange. But in the end, if she's sending you those flirty messages hours after you send one to her, or she's planning on skipping out on the date she planned with you, she really just ain't fukking with you. Fickle, or lukewarm women only play these shyt games with men they don't care about. Let it be a man that she really wants to fukk, or date--and her behavior will be drastically different. Yall know what I'm talking about, if you've ever had a woman into you, deep down you already know what's up when is playing these games with you. If you continue to proceed, then it's on you.:yeshrug:
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Most women will be getting ready an hour before at minimum(and that's being generous ), before you two are suppose to go out to make sure her hair/makeup/outfit is on point

Even if you were just to suppose to slide through she'll make sure she's on point because no woman is tryna look busted in front of a man she wants
 
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I had a chick do this to me before , but ended up smashing the next day .. I think she legit fell asleep
 

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Ehhh the more a chick is feeling you/respects you, the less she gonna do to fukk it up. If you dropping the ones who ain't feeling you instead of wasting your energy on them you'll have more time & energy for the ones who will act right.
A woman feeling you does not turn her into an angel or the perfect woman. She's still a woman: if you ain't acting right, she will end up disrespecting you, whether she likes or not.
 
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I don't like people wasting my time. If she flakes on me, I'm going to tell her clearly that's it's not acceptable and a sign of a bad education. Then I'll decide if I give her another shot or not, depending on her reaction. If she reacts like a normal person should (apologizing and shyt) I'll give her another shot.

If she try that shyt again, :camby:


It's the same thing with women coming late, changing the location at the last minute, etc.
Simps gave some of these women too many passes, so they don"t know how to act appropriately.

I personally don’t feel she would deserve to know that it effected me in any way. A serious relationship or my wife gets all of that. In this case I’d stay silent then give her a couple days to offer something in reciprocity to show she’s sorry before it’s a wrap
 

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That's what the thread is about. Setting a play, be on your way, and now she "sleep"
Hell naw

I be on the phone with her ass while I'm driving


Bih don't show after I confirmed


Bih dead to me
 

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It's not a test. It's a woman being unwilling to drop you from her roster by telling u the following:
"No im not interested in fukking with you after hours. Contact me before 8pm to plan some shyt where we can get to know each other. Otherwise, I don't know you, so get the fukk on. I don't owe you shyt b/c we just met. You think you smart but you not. And the only reason why I didn't tell yo dumb ass this shyt early on is b/c now that I know you ain't about anything serious, imma try to waste as much of your time and money as I can b/c that's what you were trying to do to me. So u can't even be mad playa."

So she is polite and says "Oh baby! Yaaaaaawwwwnnnnn! Geez it's been a rough day...":yeshrug:

Until men and women can learn to communicate honestly, these little games will always be played.
This post makes sense to me.
 

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A woman feeling you does not turn her into an angel or the perfect woman. She's still a woman: if you ain't acting right, she will end up disrespecting you, whether she likes or not.
Never said it did. I said the more a chick is feeling you/respects you, the less likely she is to fukk up the situation. If you chasing the wrong women who aren't cooperating then you're kicking yourself in the balls.
 

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That's worse than flake
That's pure disrespect
Who told you these women were taking prisoners?

In the gems about ladies thread I recently posted about a chick who disappeared off the face of the earth for a month and came back with her phone was turned off excuse. She deserves to be in The Hague.

This thread should spawn a website liestheytell.com We should be cataloguing every bullshyt by everyone that we meet.
 

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Never said it did. I said the more a chick is feeling you/respects you, the less likely she is to fukk up the situation. If you chasing the wrong women who aren't cooperating then you're kicking yourself in the balls.

A woman respects you because you demand and command respect, not because she likes you. A woman feeling you is good, but it's not enough. A woman can like you, but if you're soft, she will disrespect you. It's that Scorpio/crocodile story.
 

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Had a mutual friend pull a stunt like that back 2011...:beli:....we was supposed to meet up to play ball..she needed a 3rd for a 3 on 3 run ...:yeshrug:....i aint spoke to the bytch in 8 years :russ:...and this girl was a homie tomboy type brehette...i wish a bytch i had intentions of fukkin pulled that shyt :mjlol:.....i pity nikkas who dont have the discipline to discipline a bytch..when she need disciplining :wow:....because the respect she have 4 u after the fact is some burning bush moses...paul to damascus shyt:ohhh:...
 
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