Is the "OMG IM SO SORRY I FELL ASLEEP" the most common 'shyt test' given by women

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

This only happens when you want to call or text or meet up late. Do it earlier, and this won’t be a problem.

She’s trying to make you see her earlier, and get a date, instead of what you know you want, if you only want to see her late.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

What part of “be the best you that you can be” is confusing you? Someone comfortable with stank breath and being corny is not being the best version of themself.

What confused me was the first part when you said "look in the mirror and make sure you're comfortable with yourself "
At first it sounded like a contradiction, but after rereading I see what you're saying and agree.

 

[Solano707]

What you could do is say... "oh ok, yeah i understand, how about this, let's go to <<insert expensive ass place here>> " get her hyped and then just ghost her ass. when she calls and asking where you at, just say you hanging either with another chick or out with your boys.

I prefer to say that "oh shyt, I'm hanging with my boys tonight"

 

[Edub]

Doesn't it take energy to ignore someone though. I think a better method is to still "talk" to them but just keep it minimum. Basically a few dry texts to her then go on about your day

Right

 

[Deuterion]

What you could do is say... "oh ok, yeah i understand, how about this, let's go to <<insert expensive ass place here>> " get her hyped and then just ghost her ass. when she calls and asking where you at, just say you hanging either with another chick or out with your boys.

I prefer to say that "oh shyt, I'm hanging with my boys tonight"

That’s too much effort and gives her another opportunity to ghost your ass. You just say deuces and keep it pushing.

 

[kaldurahm]

You know what's weird? I don't really have this happen to me much.

Women either fukk with me heavy or want absolutely nothing to do with me. 10/90 split.

I almost never get friendzoned. Like they'll say we're friends, but never actually interact with me UNLESS it's circumstantial like work or school.

I make male friends easily and I'm the leader of my squad. I can't get female friends though.

If I approach 100 women, 90 will go out of their way to ignore me and 10 will want to fukk me the same day.

What's causing this polarization?

It's better this way. I have similar experience.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

If you have multiple women on deck then this isn’t even an issue.

 

[Oldschooler]

The younger generation don't care because with social media/dating apps it is much easier, you got quantity and as a result quality suffers.

She may truly have fallen asleep or forgot it doesn't make it an excuse. That's why i always text/call people on the day of just to make sure they getting ready or haven't forgotten. I make sure they left the house so we get there around the same time. If they don't respond I won't waste my time by even going out. Problem solved. Some of you kids don't remember the struggle back in the pre cell phone era.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Especially the most common first one they give you.


I swear atleast 70% of females are gonna try to pull this the first time yall are supposed to meet up, especially if its later.

If she pulls this on the first time she meets up with you she has no respect for you and/or has no real interest in you. That’s instabush status.

70% of the chicks you meet pull this the first time y’all supposed to get up?

 

[TEH]

Smooth, very smooth stuff, very classy

 

[TEH]

You know what's weird? I don't really have this happen to me much.

Women either fukk with me heavy or want absolutely nothing to do with me. 10/90 split.

I almost never get friendzoned. Like they'll say we're friends, but never actually interact with me UNLESS it's circumstantial like work or school.

I make male friends easily and I'm the leader of my squad. I can't get female friends though.

If I approach 100 women, 90 will go out of their way to ignore me and 10 will want to fukk me the same day.

What's causing this polarization?

Sounds like #averagegang problems

 

[Captain Crunch]

@CarmelBarbie spitting some gems, these broads are ruthless stop giving af bout there feelings and play accordingly.

 

[reserved_one]

Man, I done been flaked so many times... It's gotten to a point that I just laugh at it and just.


Some of those chicks that flaked did try to come back and around though and I hit the Mutombo on they asses..

There was one that flaked me so bad, I was in my feelings...I'ma be real. But like months later, she circled back and hit me up outta the blue to come to her crib. Her husband got locked up for beating her and she just wanted a man to console her.

Yeah I consoled her alright.....


But these days when I get flaked, I don't even care really because I got options and be so preoccupied with my time that I don't even care. Plus, I'm almost 30...the fukk I look like throwing a fit because a chick used a lame excuse to not text me back right away.

 

[Max.]

Ur not mad right?


I wanted to knock shortys block off lmao...i smashed tho few timez

 

[The God Poster]

Doesn't it take energy to ignore someone though. I think a better method is to still "talk" to them but just keep it minimum. Basically a few dry texts to her then go on about your day

People in general hate that

Got a homegirl who I've never fukked... Basically she like my sister. When she irritate me I respond that way. She then either gets mad or start texting me like crazy.