Is There A Such Thing As A League?

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Yes and no. Most people are with people like themselves. Attractive w/ attractive, average w/ average etc. Dudes can overcome some shortcomings with success or personality. Most people who cant find sex or relationship partners could if they aimed at people on there level or a bit lower.... thats a tough pill to swallow for some people tho.

Working on yourself can promote yourself to a higher league tho. "Glow ups" and all.

People have punched above their weight class and won before tho:yeshrug:
I do think there are people doing better in life but that doesn't actually make them better people.
I'm conflicted. On one hand, there are clearly people doing some non-negotiable shyt but on the other hand, the sum of a person can't be calculated in a few parts the way I see some people reduce others to numbers or levels.
Sometimes u vibe with different types of people that most wouldn't even consider putting together.
 

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Yes there are leagues and levels. Both men and women have leagues, however a woman's league is largely fixed from birth. Let's face it, the biggest thing that will determine a woman's league is her physical appearance. :yeshrug:

Next I'd probably say it's the caliber of men she's associated with. E.g. that fine chick that's always with the ballers is considered top tier.

However, career, attitude and status does play a role as well.

For men, their league is usually a combination of things; money, looks, status, game etc. The difference is, most of these things can be worked to.

That's why you hear people say, no woman is out of your league. I interpret it as you can define which league you choose to play in. You can keep going as you are and play semi-pro, or you can work your ass of and go pro/play in the majors.

Also, your league can vary from region to region but also from community to community. Some communities might see a chick with a phattie but poor personality as top tier, but in another community no one would bat an eyelid. Likewise, a dude that's respectful, gainfully employed but not "exciting" like a street dude, might not be seen as top tier elsewhere.
 
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Beyonce and rhianna and ravie loso out my league but i still holler.

They out my league cause i dont have the wealth or clout they have.


So yes books there people out ur league
 

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There has to be.

Most people in this thread are thinking from the perspective of "Is X person unobtainable to me?"

Maybe they are, maybe they aren't....but look at it this way:

If you're a handsome, educated breh that keeps in shape and knows how to charm...

...and your boy tried to set you up on a date tomorrow with a chick that's perfectly sweet and fairly educated...but she's like...a flat-faced stock plank of a 5. No features."

You're gonna go, "She's cool, but I can probably do better." :patrice:
 

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The bytch went from a hood stripper to reality tv star to the hottest female rapper in the game winning grammys. She clearly jumped leagues breh.
Ok my guy your literally comparing a 1 in a billion change. No duh she obviously upgraded that’s not what we were talking about here. For the average woman, their league is based on their looks. Of course when someone becomes famous they are obviously different from regular people lol
 
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