Is there a thin line between complimenting and flirting?

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Yeah you have to be extremely careful at work when it comes to giving the other gender a compliment on their appearance. You can say something like that's a nice color or that's a cool pattern. But be very wary of saying, that looks good on you or your hair looks great. Trust me, ive done that for years and never got in trouble BUT I have heard of people being reported to HR for saying that and less. I stopped giving those type of compliments when I entered management. It's not worth the HR headache.
Yeah, you gotta crazy to say "that looks good on you". It's just gives off thr vibe that you been studying their shape. To me, that's borderline flirting. And def agree as a manager I wouldn't do any compliments.
 

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Very thin line. Gotta word it in a way that they'll appreciate and can also shrug off. I compliment women every time the opportunity arises but I'm also pretty good at choosing my words before I say them in a short timeframe
 

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I don't see a line. I'm pretty flirtatious and got a bit of a mouthpiece because I like to joke. Not on purpose, just my personality.

As a result, in a professional setting, I tend to only compliment people's work.

On the other side, I usually don't say shyt unless I know the lady personally.

Basically, ain't no line because it's all flirting if the chick finds you attractive. Especially if the comment is about their appearance.

Can't sweat it tho because some women take "Hello" as catcalling. However this would never happen to me because I am incredibly good looking and my print be showing even in the loosest of khakis. So any comment with a smile from me is bait for these hoes to go fishing for trouser trout, whether I want it or not.
 

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All I say is good morning and see you when I see you to female coworkers. I don’t even small talk unless it has to do with work. The hardest part is if the female coworker is throwing it you and you ain’t reciprocating, bytch might get mad and screw you over if you even think about flirting with her later down the line.

Respect the check and don’t think with your dikk. Plenty of p*ssy outside the workplace.

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Safe ass nikkas. If I do give a compliment I’m gonna say you getting thick or some shyt like that. I’m definitely not walking around on some hey miss lady, you look stunning today shyt. I done pulled more chicks in my life talking shyt more than anything else. I’m a cool ass nikka, not a nice ass nikka
 

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Safe ass nikkas. If I do give a compliment I’m gonna say you getting thick or some shyt like that. I’m definitely not walking around on some hey miss lady, you look stunning today shyt. I done pulled more chicks in my life talking shyt more than anything else. I’m a cool ass nikka, not a nice ass nikka
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