Is there an elegant way to make the "first move"?

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This nikka trying to watch three movies before first base
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If the chemistry there shyt is easy. Chick I’m fukking with now, we had a dope date and I straight up asked if I could touch her ass cuz it was looking right all night lol. She said :krs: suuurree. Hour later had my fingers on her p*ssy and her begging me to fukk her.
 

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Normal convos during the movie, about the movie, subtle flirting, eye contact, lowering the tone of your voice should happen if you want it to go down.
 

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Kiss, cuddle, test the waters by fondling her inner thighs, if she dont push u away, fondle her ass, if she dont push u away, put your hands down her panties finger her & play with the clit
 

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Most women need to be turned on somewhat first no matter how much they feeling you. From the time you step in the door you gotta have the bde and be flirty and touchy basically set the mood. You gotta let shyt escalate be smooth till she's basically begging you to kiss her. Women aren't like men where we are ready to go at any time, you gotta warm up the engine lol. All women have sweet spots too so try to find it. Some it's the ass, some it's the hips or behind the ear.
 

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I feel ya breh... i was in a 15 year relationship and when i got out there shyt was mind blowing at first.

I learned fast, cause fukk not smashing multiples now that im free.

Learn to read eyes. Eye contact is crucial. Also, mutual leaning in is a good sign.

I've since moved on to advanced things like casual hand (brushing) on the thigh to know i can hit that night Just talk, lean close and if your hand is on their thigh and you both know it, you're in.
 

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I heard leaving your burner on the nightstand does wonders :lolbron:

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Once you in the house and on the couch comfy create a reason to get all up in her personal space with any kinda contact.
Show her some pics or something from your phone where she has to lean in, smell her hair/neck and ask what perfume is that,
tell her she got small hands and hold your hand up to hers and fukk with her. Once you create any kinda contact hit the gas peddle and escalate.

Any kinda nervousness and you probably get bushed while she immediately headed to the next nikka.

Thank you breh

And thank ya'll :salute:

Expected to only get trolled :salute:

Some really helpful shyt in here

I love ya'll :mjcry:
 

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Honestly, if she likes you, she'll do the work for you. She'll initiate closeness and all that stuff, just welcome it with open arms (literally and figuratively) and go from there. Just have to, for lack of a better term, capitalize on the opening when presented.
 

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Start touching her, whether it’s playful, educational, innocuous, whatever and just escalate from there. Touching her forces her to give you feedback so you’ll know if she’s feeling you.
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don't be scared to get a hard on out of nowhere either, let that shyt guide you
 

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Most women need to be turned on somewhat first no matter how much they feeling you. From the time you step in the door you gotta have the bde and be flirty and touchy basically set the mood. You gotta let shyt escalate be smooth till she's basically begging you to kiss her. Women aren't like men where we are ready to go at any time, you gotta warm up the engine lol. All women have sweet spots too so try to find it. Some it's the ass, some it's the hips or behind the ear.

What's 'bde'?
 
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