Is there an elegant way to make the "first move"?

[re'up]

The more direct communication the better, non verbal communication plus alcohol and different expectations can lead to unsatisfying experiences, or worse, for both parties. You aren't teenagers, a simple, elegant way to discuss intimacy isn't hard.

Some of the things men (and women) say in general on this subject are just wild, and so divergent it should scare people.

Not all people communicate the same way, it's shocking how societally we haven't improved on the sexual script. It's probably America's puritanical origins, we still treat it like a shameful thing.

I bet none of the men in here, including me, ever got any good, safe, helpful advice about sex from people in their lives.

 

[Sauce Dab]

If she’s comfortable enough to let you come to her crib to “watch a movie” then you basically already got her. Just take the initiative because that’s what women want when the movie done started and go from there

 

[WaveGang]

Get cosy... Tell her her thighs are thick.. Touch up, kiss her.. Try rub up pum pum

That gets her horny kiss some more.

Take dem draws off.

Simple formula.

Just make sure ur super cool before and unfazed to be in her presence.

 

[A Cop]

Bring a mini hoop and mini basketball and do the Harlem Globetrotters routine. "If I make this shot, I kiss you. If I miss, you kiss me."

If she isn't receptive to that, whistle the song, beat her 115 to 45, and move on to the next town.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

Ask her if she seen Color of Night with Bruce Willis or Boogie Nights with Mark Walberg. If not, that should get her in the mood.

It safe because it features a big Hollywood name.