Is there really a shortage of black men for black women to date/married? OR

[↓R↑LYB]

Everybody has some sort of standard and baseline of preferences. What should happen is that you meet someone who generally passes those marks and from there you work to decide if that person is right for you and vice versa. Somewhere along the line the hitting those baseline and standards took more weight than finding out if that person was best for you.

That's because most these broads have the expectations of a high school freshman. When I first met my girl I asked her what is she looking for in a mate. One of the first things she said was a man of good character.

Out of all of the bullshyt about height, six pack, car, and income, not a single one of these broads ever discuss a man's character.

 

[the next guy]

That's because most these broads have the expectations of a high school freshman. When I first met my girl I asked her what is she looking for in a mate. One of the first things she said was a man of good character.

Out of all of the bullshyt about height, six pack, car, and income, not a single one of these broads ever discuss a man's character.

Character is important, but all that stuff is nice though.

 

[filial_piety]

LOL there is no 4/1 ratio...there's something like a 2 million difference more black women than black men...and that's out of like 40 million people.

And keep in mind that includes ALL age brackets, including old women who tend to out live their spouses anyway

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Character is important, but all that stuff is nice though.

And completely irellevent when it comes to having a long lasting, meaningful relationship. It's like nikkas picking bytches over how fat her ass is or whether she got DSL's. You do that when you're 17-23, but once you become an adult all that shyt goes out the window.

 

[Tae]

@Tae see what kinda fukkery you done started

Either way, there is still more bw than bm

 

[the next guy]

And completely irellevent when it comes to having a long lasting, meaningful relationship. It's like nikkas picking bytches over how fat her ass is or whether she got DSL's. You do that when you're 17-23, but once you become an adult all that shyt goes out the window.

agreed.

 

[Mountain]

lol this nikka @Tae out here posting random numbers praying they stick, man I love this place

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Breh, the majority of these broads out here aren't some amazing catch though. If as a woman you want the cream of the crop, then you have to compete against every other woman who wants that same man, and you damn sure better be the best of the best your damn self.

Women need to have their expectations in check. Too many broads want to have a build a bear attitude when it comes to relationships where they think they can pick and chose the type of nikka they want and he'll magically appear.

Life don't work that way breh.

This pretty much sums it up for men and women......

 

[The ADD]

That's because most these broads have the expectations of a high school freshman. When I first met my girl I asked her what is she looking for in a mate. One of the first things she said was a man of good character.

Out of all of the bullshyt about height, six pack, car, and income, not a single one of these broads ever discuss a man's character.

I don't disagree but both sides are guilty.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

That's because most these broads have the expectations of a high school freshman. When I first met my girl I asked her what is she looking for in a mate. One of the first things she said was a man of good character.

Out of all of the bullshyt about height, six pack, car, and income, not a single one of these broads ever discuss a man's character.

Yeah....There is a lot of truth in this.....A lot of women(not just black) aren't really checking for character nowadays..........Kind of sad actually...

But on the other hand, a person of high character themselves would make that a mandatory requirement in their significant other......

Our values as a whole in this country just aren't what they used to be.....

 

[godkiller]

Like I said, the number is boosted by 1) mixed girls 2) retarded girls 3) old women, children 4) women who don't want to get married 5) women who are divorced. So it's all variable and based on whatever agenda you want to push.

Beyond that there are millions of black men in the Carribean and beyond so there's no shortage of black men anywhere.

 

[C-NICE]

So you just gonna make up numbers huh

Look it up.

There are no solid numbers but data suggests it is 87 black men or every 100 black women.

Breh, I have looked it up. I did a big ass thread about it on sohh a few years back. I got my numbers from the US Census and got financial numbers from the Dept of Labor.

There's not 4 times as many black women in this country as black men. nikkas heard that shyt from someone else and just started running with the bullshyt. I've heard y'all dumb ass nikkas say shyt like the ratio is 12:1 in most cities

Breh, I'd never go that far. But statistics already show that women out number men in the U.S., it may not be exactly 4/1 but it damn sure aint 1/1.

Breh, women out number men all around the world. There's not a race of people on this planet where men out number the women naturally (in china they throw baby girls in the bushes )

Again, it's no where NEAR 4:1. It's not even 1.5:1. What kinda GED math are you using to say there's 86 BM for every 100 BW, then have that equal a ratio of 4:1



Naw you a goofy ass broad to say some dumb shyt like that. Even if you limit it to the coli, the average black man is 6'3, makes 100k/yr minimum, and moonlights as a hip-hop executive on the weekends.

You just wanted to type some dumb shyt just to see your screenname on the monitor

Look I'm not very good at math sorry but you are half right I heard someone say that it was somewhere around 4/1 and after I researched it online and saw that 87 for every 100 number I did some GED math and figured 4/1 was probably not that far off.

nikka


It's deeper than daps breh

Got to be top 5 funniest back and forth in coli history

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I don't disagree but both sides are guilty.

Never said they weren't, but you don't see as many men complaining about that shyt as women

I have noticed a lot of dudes on here getting mad whenever an attractive female gets posted It's either she's a bed wench, only fukks nikkas with money, or only want thugs. low self esteem is a bytch :brehwow:

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Yeah....There is a lot of truth in this.....A lot of women(not just black) aren't really checking for character nowadays..........Kind of sad actually...

But on the other hand, a person of high character themselves would make that a mandatory requirement in their significant other......

Our values as a whole in this country just aren't what they used to be.....

And that's pretty much what it boils down to. You got women who let the simps of late teens early 20s convince them they were the shyt. Then they go out in the real world thinking they're spectacular only to realize that you not only gotta compete with broads your age, but you gotta compete with broads way younger.

Through in a child, mad student loans, and a shytty attitude and you go from being the shyt at 21 to being on a CNN special talking bout the reason you can't get a man is because you're just too damn fly

 

[JLova]

is the true statement should be a shortage of black men WITH 6 SIX FIGURE INCOMES.

So i'm sitting here watching cnn who's previewing a show on shortage of black men for black women in the community and u see these so called professional women talking about brothers being in jail, not in college, or the same excuse dating outside there race.

There's no shortage of real good brothers out here. the real shortage is in your mind and your fake reality of white culture that every good brother should have the same qualities as biff and todd.

There's plenty of good brothers out here. they might not have the COLI IT certs, but there's brothers out here working 9 to 5 and hell even working 24/7 to make it.

I have to agree. Black women have created this invisible barrier to help them cope with not being desirable to black men with some sense. It's poisonous.