Is this how most women deal with a break up?

[My neck and my back]

she gave a ultimatum and it back fired...she only using that "maybe it's me" angle to use as bait for the simps to throw on their cape and tell her "you shouldn't blame yourself, he didn't appreciate you like a REAL man should"

to breh who didn't fall for the trap

 

[Art Barr]

My dude said find a man like me. Pathetic.

I know right,.....

Dude on that sensitivity Ralph tresvant wave, like a goofie!
i bet, She goofie, and vulnerable to go on that bullshyt , though.
They belong together on that goofie shyt.
Women kill me with the bullshyt.
Look, woman you are free, now.
Just find a mate to have protected sex with.
Marriage is a corporation, many do not have the accumen to create.
While, monogamy my never be an option.
You can fukk whomever you want and not suffer ridicule.
As long as you use BC, do not have a price list, and not in a committal.
Grow up and act like you free.
Not some goof lame waif wench, waiting to be a slave with no dowry.

shyt is annoying as fukk watching women with slave mentality.
Double standards and all that bullshyt do not exist.
Live ya life like you are equal.
Part of the reason why y'all are miserable is you still think like and act like a fukking slave.
When you got full reparations.
In a black female's case,....
They are in a matriarch role.
Plus have, economic and employment viability on the largest scale in the damn country.
Just stop the bullshyt with ya self, first and stop succumbing to that old shyt.
Black women supposed to stronger and smarter than this,..
Yet, sadly lack knowledge of self.
Plus are welled in bullshyt traditionalism and slave mentality.
Black females wake the fukk up...



Art Barr

 

[↓R↑LYB]

ignoring a broad is the deepest form of ether to em. It's why bytches love you and hate you at the same damn time

 

[Kenny West]

when i read the title of the thread "butthurt fb status" instantly came to mind

They find a new "boyfriend" for the comfort factor, but still fukk other dudes to show aggression toward ex, so in turn, she gets "revenge" at the expense of a good guy's feelings

either that or she gonna be fukkin her ex

So, a woman should feel like she's expendable when she's in a relationship?

she should know she is. the ones who dont usually stop putting any effort in the relationship.

these nikkas the worst type of simp

dont know the first thing abt her ex but will drag his name thru the mud....fukkin clown

 

[Turbulent]

she was counting on him to give her a boost of energy. She wanted someone she supposedly loves to be devastated over her ending it so she could then have him beg and use that boost of energy to go get another guy. When i think about it, it's kinda demonic...

 

[Ashley Banks]

she should know she is. the ones who dont usually stop putting any effort in the relationship.

Makes no sense to me but okay.

 

[Lewis Black]

My dude said find a man like me. Pathetic.

More like

Find a man ........*looks around the room*.....like me

 

[SouthernBelle]

Sociology major,.......

Really,....

You can't be serious asking this question.
First off,...
She tried to threaten the so called lover/esso/committal, with a break up to test her worth based on a ruse.
Then, when it backfired,...
She goes emotion mission critical...
Plus, does not accept accountability for the fact she got the ultimate end result of what she put out.
what are you confused about....

Art Barr

What the fukk does my degree have to do with what I posted? You insecure mofos need to leave me the fukk alone. Please put me on ignore because that is where you are going. If you quote me beyond this post then you are wasting your time because I will not be reading.

 

[Mook]

No, when me and my ex broke up I cried for two hours, listened to 808s and heartbreak and I was good to go.

 

[Broke Wave]

What the fukk does my degree have to do with what I posted? You insecure mofos need to leave me the fukk alone. Please put me on ignore because that is where you are going. If you quote me beyond this post then you are wasting your time because I will not be reading.

its funny that a group of people so damaged by traditional cultural/ethnic/economic roles like african americans, still cling on to the old gender roles that oppressed them.

 

[Art Barr]

What the fukk does my degree have to do with what I posted? You insecure mofos need to leave me the fukk alone. Please put me on ignore because that is where you are going. If you quote me beyond this post then you are wasting your time because I will not be reading.

Ahh,...
Da wittle wee baby, kenay doll is gonna use her ignore function on me,.......


SOHH.

when you grow a pair of nipples.
Then, use your brain and your so-called degree.
To understand the completely obvious thread where your degree is supposed to be on display.
Maybe, then you will not deflect your insecure low self esteem and lack of applicable intelligence on me.

Nobody cares if you press ignore, but you....
Chu, weak soft ass little girl..

Art Barr

 

[Guess Who]

My rule is every time a woman gives you an ultimatum then call her bluff.

Matter of fact, if you the type to give me an ultimatum then I'ma resent your ass and not want you anymore.

I don't play no games. Too old for that shyt.

 

[luckyse7enz]

So, a woman should feel like she's expendable when she's in a relationship?

Haha. I don't want to generalize too hard or sound attacking with my stance. I probably could have used a better word, BUT I'll say this...a guy's needs & desired qualities in a girlfriend are pretty simple when it's all said & done...

...and when you're on your P's and Q's, finding a woman that's willing to give "being in a committed relationship" a shot is pretty easy nowadays.

Hell, even when you're WAY off of your P's and Q's, there are women that are just happy to have the attention & companionship...quality women and otherwise. A lot of women out here just LOVE to be loved. Don't want to generalize by saying most but A LOT...

The amount of women that openly complain about being lonely or finding a man that wants to be with them (and only them) usually outnumber the amount of men openly complaining about finding a woman that wants to be with them and only them.

...but like I said, I hope I'm not generalizing TOO much. That's just what I've seen over time.

 

[eifmp]

The amount of women that openly complain about being lonely or finding a man that wants to be with them (and only them) usually outnumber the amount of men openly complaining about finding a woman that wants to be with them and only them.

...but like I said, I hope I'm not generalizing TOO much. That's just what I've seen over time.

You're not generalizing...you're 100% right about the bolded. But I'm sure men are just as lonely as women are...you just might never know about it.

Women are complaining because they're mostly reactive instead of proactive when it comes to dating. They're afraid, or find it insulting/socially demeaning, to have to be the ones who chase men.

On the other hand, if men complained of being lonely and not finding a woman, they're ridiculed and made fun...told to stop being weak/soft/bytch made. That's what my pops told me when I complained about not getting girls as a youth. Stop complaining and keep trying.

Just the way it is.

 

[thoushallhustle]

Im going through a breakup right now and i miss him alot. But after last nights argument it will never be the same. I still love him even though hecheated on me and verbally and physically abused me.