is this true about single moms?

[Ahadi]

Since when did “traveling” (going to the beach in another country) become a flex? Where are these thriving businesses that black women run, on a large scale? Also, the average black man literally can’t afford to be picky. We are in la la land….

They mean CEO of boutiques and weave shops



Traveling is “social currency” lol.

Productive black men can be picky. fukk that.

 

[DapMeUp!]

Statistically speaking most of us come from single parent homes so shytting on single moms seems ridiculous when we are most likely a product of one.

What does that have to do with your own dating preferences?
So just because people come from single mothers means they have to be open to single moms?

 

[Frieza666]

i have 0 kids and was kinda willing to be fluid with single moms last summer but it became too much.

She was fine enough for me to deal with her 2 kids but the flakiness was annoying. Same for the fact I had to realize her goofy BD was ALWAYS going to be in the picture… shyts not worth it unless you also have kids tbh

 

[UpAndComing]

It depends on how they became single mothers
If they are divorced and all her children come from one man
Then in the eyes of potential men, it’s not that bad
But if you out here with 4 kids by 3 different men
And that should go the same for men
Muthafukkas start questioning your decision making skills at that point
Every scenario is case by case
The problem is most of these single mothers want Michael B Jordan with Jeff Bezos pockets when them bytches ain’t even making Oprah money
Those degrees don’t make you a whole human being
Nor do they really move the needle
You can be book smart, know how to past test
And be dumb as fukk with no common sense
This board is filled with nikkas like this
Your degree is not your personality/life experience
Once everybody learns this
Relationships may start to get better

Sounds heartless, but I could care less how she became a single mom

 

[Kasgoinjail]

It truely tickles me women get mad at men for not including them in their list of criteria

Same way I'm less inclined to date a man who DOES NOT have children himself.
Many people just want people with the same goals and priorities as them. When you both have children you both know from the jump you will be eachothers priorities after the children. Plus less pressure to have more children
So many factors a lot of these ladies just wish to be deemed desirable to every male they meet instead of focusing on the right thing.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

OP I have a theory:
I think all the anti-single mother propaganda is being fueled by BD's online. A lot of BD's act like their BM's are still their property. fukk all that.

The ones who act like that are probably still sleeping with the bm. I’ve heard men say, “if she’s my bm that’s ALWAYS gonna be my p*ssy,” etc.