That says more about the men you dealing with
They get too comfortable.
@The Coochie Assassin
Edited to add, when I was younger I used to have bfs that would kiss me after they smoked a black, or weed, or after meal, or first thing in the morning. I didn’t speak up because I knew they liked it.

And I cared for them. But like I said they got to comfortable just sticking they tongue down my throat without checking their breath. I would always cringe inside My last bf, a grown man wasn’t good at it either, hard to explain but it was always awkward initially.
Thankfully As I’ve gotten older, brehs tend to be more sanitary, but I just don’t enjoy it as much as I used to.
When I was younger that lip locking was the goat, nowadays I just prefer it as foreplay or during sex. Otherwise I just don’t enjoy it that much. Every female is different.
One of my friends is a sex consultant and she doesn’t like kissing either, the majority of my friends do. I’m a strange female tbh, I don’t like cuddling before bed or sharing a bed either—I get too hot and then I get annoyed.