Women have to understand men and women are two diffrent creatures. What MEN have in their MINDS of romance just dosent match up with a womans .For instance a lot of guys on the coli would say romance would be for there girl to surprise them on a lunch break at they job and fukk his brians out

For the most part MENS minds are filthy.Equate how you feel about your vagina to how we(men) feel about our time and our space…iF I let a women occupy my time or my space that is my romance to you ...earned not given if you try to TAKE my time or my space you are then raping me . The best thing you can do OP is to let go of the IDEAL in your head of how romance/relationship should go ...life is more ORGANIC than that .And learn to tap into a mans DESIRES ...and you just might get that elusive romance like lebron chasing that elusive first title