Issues holding back the black community

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You're delusional thinking everyone wants to be married. A couple can live together and raise a family without being married.

It's a big problem when two people are having children together with no real intent on raising the child together.

No.
 

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Again point me to a culture/community that doesn't prioritize marriage that is thriving.

ask yourself why blacks fear marriage so much.
You actually believe that a community is thriving because of some marriage certificate??

So a bad toxic marriage while raising a family is better than a healthy union between two people(not married) while raising a family??

You seem more concerned with marriage than a couple actually raising a family together.
 

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This is true too. Folk forget that all those minorities...their battles were fought by black people. Makes me sick....but they're resourceful and are making moves regardless.
Why do blacks think that theu will get compensated for what they do for others? Help yiur damn selves.
 

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You actually believe that a community is thriving because of some marriage certificate??

So a bad toxic marriage while raising a family is better than a healthy union between two people(not married) while raising a family??

You seem more concerned with marriage than a couple actually raising a family together.
Please stop with that tired regurgitate wedding certificate bs. Marriage has existed for thousands of years only new age idiots like you think they can change that.

I asked you a simple question...Please give me your amswer.

Raising a family together...is part of marriage. Do you tell a hirehirimg manager...that he doesn't need your resume to evaluate your n qualifications.

A man who wants to be with a woman.would wamt to legitimize his union with her and pass on something to hiS kids
 

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Please stop with that tired regurgitate wedding certificate bs. Marriage has existed for thousands of years only new age idiots like you think they can change that.

I asked you a simple question...Please give me your amswer.

Raising a family together...is part of marriage. Do you tell a hirehirimg manager...that he doesn't need your resume to evaluate your n qualifications.

A man who wants to be with a woman.would wamt to legitimize his union with her and pass on something to hiS kids
I never said I was for or against marriage so chill with the assuming. I have no problem with marriage

Not all people getting married are raising children properly. I'm more concerned with black people actually raising children than whether or not they are married. Black people not being married is no where near the top of problems in the black community.
 

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Serious question; How do you feel that Homos are holding back the black community?


They don't make children.

What about straight people who can't?

They can adopt and teach kids how a normal family is supposed to be. Gays can't do that.
 

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- lack of self reliance
- recognition of the enemy
- docility
- short term thinking
- our grasp on our own narrative
- our insatiable appetite for white acceptance
- our lack of a code
- the vile taste we get in our mouths anytime the word separation is uttered
- the fact that worry about hurting the feelings of cacs/ afraid to step on toes and be unapologetically black
 

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Yep. The terms "baby mama" & "baby daddy" doesn't even sound right when used to describe people of other races besides blacks
Education does not appear to be a top priority. It is completely different in other racial groups. You go to school, graduate, get a good job, get a good job. No questions asked. They understand that being a visible minority you aren't going far without an education. It's a foregone conclusion that the kids are going to College and getting a degree. Look how quickly they abandon they children that don't follow that path. This is a multi-tiered problem but I don't have the time to break it all the way down.

It's one of those things that's not really enforced. Just like marriage and not having children out of wedlock. The shyt is acceptable in our community and it's disgusting. Baby mama, baby dady. That shyt is an embarrassment. We really need a complete clensing.
 

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Again point me to a culture/community that doesn't prioritize marriage that is thriving.

ask yourself why blacks fear marriage so much.


blacks don't fear marriage.... this is the aftermath of gender discourse post civil rights

Once the black woman relied on the establishment to give her housing and employment while also denying her man career opportunities ....it shifted the balance of power /respect

Crime flourished and the rest is history......

There weren't any strong independent black women before civil rights.... men lead and women followed. PERIOD

So you can't blame this generation for growing up in matrichial homes with no positive role models

They were fukked over and betrayed by the previous ones who didn't stick together

They never stood a chance....but hey it's not all bad

Black Africans still hold those values and some island girls too....so there's always that option
 
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