It is 2023. Why do you guys still want to financially provide for women?

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Some of us are married, and want or have children, and would prefer our wives stay home. I’d rather she take care of the kids, than put them in daycare. I don’t trust daycares. And there are good women. Not all women are lying good digging whores.
 

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He misses the big picture. Its not about taking care of a woman it's about raising a family. I wouldn't want my kids in daycare letting strangers raise them. It's got to be family. Guess what? That means you got to sacrifice the luxury life for your family. We are meant to be together, we just have a lot of selfish people who are focused on living a luxury life instead of focusing on family.

Thats why EXTENDED FAMILY is needed. The Nuclear family always been a mistake.
 

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If you as a man feel it is your duty to provide for a woman ( not talking about families) then you shouldn’t be mad at the divorce/alimony laws the way they stand today
 
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Depends on your dynamic with your wife. If you want her to be in her feminine nature, you have to assume this role. Or make more than her, while she works. But this is only for specific women, not all.

Now if you’re just in the “talking” stage that’s another story.
this is the only mature answer

this thread will be filled with nonsense
 

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Thats why EXTENDED FAMILY is needed. The Nuclear family always been a mistake.
I agree, but when you look at traditional families, they grandparents were always near. Until recently, most people got married to people from the same city as them so they had built in support systems. My mom is retired and she helps my brother and his wife. She watches his boys and nothing makes her more happy than doing that.
 

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I essentially ask why in 2023 do men continue to cling to social norms that isn't practical or tangibly beneficial to him(being the lone provider)?

These are the responses I got from the supporters of these social norms



Just petty insults.
As other users have stated they aren't tangible to you but they are def tangible to those that got it like that.
 
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