It pains me to say this, but men might be more delusional than women when it comes to rating themselves

[Bop Gun]

The hood doesn't consist of only thugs and hoodrats.

Besides a ratchet dating on her level, the part I believe people ignore is those same hoodrats lack qualities to attract brothers from her same neighborhood that she finds attractive, who are focusing on things to better their situation and leave the hood/inner city/slums etc., so they go harder on those men they perceive as 'good', to justify their poor life and dating decisions.

Females putting down men working 9 to 5s is some of the most asinine shyt I've ever heard. They fear and hate structure because it means they gotta grow up.

 

[Voice of Reason]

This is 100% right and I used to be that guy in HS. Quiet, not talking to girls, dressing meh, etc. I think the problem is men often don't view women as sexual beings, we view them as objects of our sexual desire. Women want an attractive guy the same way we want an attractive woman. They want to imagine what it would be like to fukk you. And if you're out here saying nothing, doing nothing, being invisible...why would they think about you at all?

You gotta prep for the man you want to be. And the man you want to be SHOULD be successful. Having a good salary, having a nice car, having your own place, being healthy, in shape, etc. We all want that but what are we doing to get it? And if you're older, how are you maintaining yourself? The Coli always talks about how older men can bag younger women but if you LOOK old? You lost. If you got that puffy, fat face? Pot belly? Dressing like it's still 2002? It's not gonna work for you fam.

This is real

 

[Voice of Reason]

The hood doesn't consist of only thugs and hoodrats.

Besides a ratchet dating on her level, the part I believe people ignore is those same hoodrats lack qualities to attract brothers from her same neighborhood that she finds attractive, who are focusing on things to better their situation and leave the hood/inner city/slums etc., so they go harder on those men they perceive as 'good', to justify their poor life and dating decisions.

Females putting down men working 9 to 5s is some of the most asinine shyt I've ever heard. They fear and hate structure because it means they gotta grow up.

Could you elaborate a little.

 

[KRayner]

i been knew this

flabby and sick dudes think they can pull sexy bytches all the time

 

[Bop Gun]

Could you elaborate a little.

The best way to say it is, you are the company you keep, a direct reflection of the people you surround yourself with. You gotta do better to be better, and many people will rather attack and create an imaginary enemy (examples, ghetto chicks attacking squares and pick mes, squares attacking thugs and ghetto chicks). In reality, they are two sides of the same coin.


To get back to OPs point, he is right, delusional women have an excuse, as for men, shyt is so out of control today that you got guys so caught up in Alpha/Beta that they created even more absurd dating fraternities, Sigma Male, Omega Male. Shyt is comical but many adhere to these ridiculous ideologies.

Too many men making excuses for their shortcomings. It's sad.

 

[CrimsonTider]

Women are delusional as shyt, but at least they have men lying to them non stop in hopes of getting some ass. You can halfway understand why a woman might overrate herself physically.

But men

You got dudes who outside of their mama and aunties have never been told that they were good looking. These dudes have convinced themselves that the only reason good looking women don’t want them is because they aren’t a thug just straight assumed everything else was on point for literally no reason at all.

You
Niccas
Are
Pitiful

 

[Prodyson]

There’s no my or your truth, there’s one objective truth.

Logic!

 

[Dave24]

This is 100% right and I used to be that guy in HS. Quiet, not talking to girls, dressing meh, etc. I think the problem is men often don't view women as sexual beings, we view them as objects of our sexual desire. Women want an attractive guy the same way we want an attractive woman. They want to imagine what it would be like to fukk you. And if you're out here saying nothing, doing nothing, being invisible...why would they think about you at all?

You gotta prep for the man you want to be. And the man you want to be SHOULD be successful. Having a good salary, having a nice car, having your own place, being healthy, in shape, etc. We all want that but what are we doing to get it? And if you're older, how are you maintaining yourself? The Coli always talks about how older men can bag younger women but if you LOOK old? You lost. If you got that puffy, fat face? Pot belly? Dressing like it's still 2002? It's not gonna work for you fam.

Great post. @Piff Perkins dropping facts!! What career/job do you have. Are you a six figures breh?

 

[CW_1991]

What kind of grown man is truly concerned with rating himself numerically to begin with?

 

[SpacedOutGeek]

If an attractive woman never told you “you are cute “ or something of that nature .

 

[Piff Perkins]

Great post. @Piff Perkins dropping facts!! What career/job do you have. Are you a six figures breh?

I'll be vague and just say I work in finance and do very well for myself. But there are brehs out here with trades jobs making great money too, with all the freedom to pursue women and better themselves. Lots of paths for us.

 

[Houston911]

Lol

I know this ruffled some feathers

 

[SheWantTheD]

I don't think so.. women overrate themselves a lot.

Women get dolled up with makeup and their hair done and think they the baddest bytch or a top model.

Beautiful women are a dime a dozen let's keep it a buck.

Most men take what they can get.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Women are delusional as shyt, but at least they have men lying to them non stop in hopes of getting some ass. You can halfway understand why a woman might overrate herself physically.

But men

You got dudes who outside of their mama and aunties have never been told that they were good looking. These dudes have convinced themselves that the only reason good looking women don’t want them is because they aren’t a thug just straight assumed everything else was on point for literally no reason at all.

You
Niccas
Are
Pitiful

that's 90% of the nikkas on thecoli.

 

[Gloxina]