It pains me to say this, but men might be more delusional than women when it comes to rating themselves
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Hazel Brown
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There’s no my or your truth, there’s one objective truth.I’m just respecting women’s truth
Dameon Farrow
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Not sure how I missed this one but dap and rep to op. Folks told on themselves fast as fukk. This along with that 60s coli threads needs to be in the Rafters asap.
i'm not denying some women like bad guys, but your example just seems a hood woman wanting a hood guy from her subculture.
the issue in that example is likely that the hood subculture exists not that women are wanting hood dudes, cuz most people are going to prefer folks from their culture.
and it'd be hard to imagine someone like her with a doctor or something. she'd have to grow up a lot. she's dating on her level.
I don’t have a 9-5. I’m not a thug. Y’all need to get a grip.
Voice of Reason
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Are good percentage of Black folks ARE from the hood though so by default a good percentage of Black women do like Hood men and the stats bare this out.
so why not complain "hood women like thugs" instead of "black women like thugs"
Hazel Brown
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Black women are all the same/clones of each other and all are a monolith.
Swahili P'Bitek
Absorbingpovertywithoutlimitations
How men rank women on the internet and how they pretend they would talk to them given the chance also shows a lot of delusion. In real life, however, we all know how it goes.
Voice of Reason
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Because the proposition Black women like thugs is true based off of logical implication
so the opposite would be true as well "black men like hoodrats" or no?
Voice of Reason
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Piff Perkins
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This is 100% right and I used to be that guy in HS. Quiet, not talking to girls, dressing meh, etc. I think the problem is men often don't view women as sexual beings, we view them as objects of our sexual desire. Women want an attractive guy the same way we want an attractive woman. They want to imagine what it would be like to fukk you. And if you're out here saying nothing, doing nothing, being invisible...why would they think about you at all?
You gotta prep for the man you want to be. And the man you want to be SHOULD be successful. Having a good salary, having a nice car, having your own place, being healthy, in shape, etc. We all want that but what are we doing to get it? And if you're older, how are you maintaining yourself? The Coli always talks about how older men can bag younger women but if you LOOK old? You lost. If you got that puffy, fat face? Pot belly? Dressing like it's still 2002? It's not gonna work for you fam.
You gotta prep for the man you want to be. And the man you want to be SHOULD be successful. Having a good salary, having a nice car, having your own place, being healthy, in shape, etc. We all want that but what are we doing to get it? And if you're older, how are you maintaining yourself? The Coli always talks about how older men can bag younger women but if you LOOK old? You lost. If you got that puffy, fat face? Pot belly? Dressing like it's still 2002? It's not gonna work for you fam.
Hazel Brown
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Your humility is beautiful and you said nothing but facts.