It pains me to say this, but men might be more delusional than women when it comes to rating themselves

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Oooh let me get comfortable

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I brought snacks if anyone is interested
Lemme go put my casserole in the oven and I’ll be back.
You want a drink? :cheers:
 

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Right. They raise both sexes. Usually in the same house. So instead of this bullshyt gender war, how about people talk about how their upbringing was messed up and try to council one another.

That's a nice thought, except for the part where there are those with a vested interest in keeping those confused people in that mental and emotional state. So now you have confused people looking for fixes, but only want the ones that make them feel good or doesn't upset their feels. And when it hits that that approach doesn't work, they quit trying all together and just drift around looking to be entertained. You tell me where that logic ends up.

I get that you want results and progress, but without accountability there will be very, very little of the positive kind. People are going to get their feelings hurt before the good things can take root.



Also: counsel. :salute:
 

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No we are not because women have no issue telling you what they fukk with and what they don't fukk with.
 

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As a man, I think you're at your best when you hold a realistic image of yourself in your head.
Are overweight ? Lose it.
Are you broke? Start figuring out a plan to achieve the financial goal you want.
School? Certifications? A Trade? Starting a business? etc.

The second you begin to question if you're REALLY all that, GUESS WHAT ? You start
to see your shortcomings and you can begin to actually address them.
I was overweight, I dropped over 100lbs.
I had never made over $17,000 a year at one point, I made over $120k last year.
I wasn't college educated and I've never pursued a trade, both things I committed
to.
As I improved myself and started to focus on building out my life.
Meeting women got considerably easier, especially when you have the disposable income to
to go to them, pick them up, take them places etc.
I've heard " :( I feel like YOU are out of MY league" the most times I've ever heard IN MY LIFE in the past 2 years.

Being handsome gang*** helps but when you're firing on all Cylinders. :wow:
 

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As a man, I think you're at your best when you hold a realistic image of yourself in your head.
Are overweight ? Lose it.
Are you broke? Start figuring out a plan to achieve the financial goal you want.
School? Certifications? A Trade? Starting a business? etc.

The second you begin to question if you're REALLY all that, GUESS WHAT ? You start
to see your shortcomings and you can begin to actually address them.
I was overweight, I dropped over 100lbs.
I had never made over $17,000 a year at one point, I made over $120k last year.
I wasn't college educated and I've never pursued a trade, both things I committed
to.
As I improved myself and started to focus on building out my life.
Meeting women got considerably easier, especially when you have the disposable income to
to go to them, pick them up, take them places etc.
I've heard " :( I feel like YOU are out of MY league" the most times I've ever heard IN MY LIFE in the past 2 years.

Being handsome gang*** helps but when you're firing on all Cylinders. :wow:
Dope! What career did you get to make that much?
 

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I think this is a ingrained necessary tool for survival. Men should have high self esteem because we need to chase p*ssy and if you think you’re ugly after a few rejections, you will turn into a bitter dry dikk incel. Shooters have to shot, but not on the level of our resident “ you got some pretty eyes” nikka:russ: I’ve never cold approached unless it was in the proper social setting like a club, but I could have never done that if I ever thought I was ugly(I’m not:shaq:)
 

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Dope! What career did you get to make that much?
I chose a trade in aviation to focus on, wound up getting into a Fortune 100 which
needed that in demand skillset, utilized my hands to make a substantial salary while
continuing my education ( Something I'm nearly finished with !)

Soon enough I'll be able to make the transition from using my hands to using my brains. :yes:
 

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As a man, I think you're at your best when you hold a realistic image of yourself in your head.
Are overweight ? Lose it.
Are you broke? Start figuring out a plan to achieve the financial goal you want.
School? Certifications? A Trade? Starting a business? etc.

The second you begin to question if you're REALLY all that, GUESS WHAT ? You start
to see your shortcomings and you can begin to actually address them.
I was overweight, I dropped over 100lbs.
I had never made over $17,000 a year at one point, I made over $120k last year.
I wasn't college educated and I've never pursued a trade, both things I committed
to.
As I improved myself and started to focus on building out my life.
Meeting women got considerably easier, especially when you have the disposable income to
to go to them, pick them up, take them places etc.
I've heard " :( I feel like YOU are out of MY league" the most times I've ever heard IN MY LIFE in the past 2 years.

Being handsome gang*** helps but when you're firing on all Cylinders. :wow:
You're preaching breh!! There's no better feeling than being on your grind and purpose. I love when I run into those women that have those dumb checklists about what a man should have or should have accomplished so far compared to what they have done. I flip the table on them cause I've done all of that plus some more. So then I can ask them what have they accomplished and why should I give them my time... That look they have when they're trying to figure it out is better than sex sometimes
 

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Facts

:yeshrug:

The greasiest most bug eyed goofy nikkas think they look good … but



(Look up Black pill)




Objective beauty is real

Symmetry in your face is real

Clear skin and white straight teeth are real

Great grooming is real

Proportional in shape bodies are real

If you don’t have all of the above don’t lie to yourself
 
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