I always play it cool. It’s not always my intention though.
Ive actually run into the issue where Brehs don’t know how deep my feelings run and think I’m not fukking with them, when i am. I can be aloof, without even meaning to, I just have ADD like a mug though and just get distracted and forgetful/making this showing love thing not my strong suite.
But I think it’s sweet to see hopeless romantics in this thread. I do believe the person who invests the most has the most to lose. And I’m not trying to lose too much if he isn’t lol, but love ain’t supposed to be that way.