It’s embarrassing fuccn with someone harder than they fucc wit you

[The Intergalactic Koala]

Been there, simp that

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

this is not even a coherent post, just a bunch of non-sequiturs, juelzing then a ad-hominem at the end

Do better

you came in here talking about you can't be bothered to show love to people because they are too onguard and have baggage. yet you brag about having someone else's "bish bent over" so more than likely you are the disloyal person making people have baggage. meanwhile, you don't seem any happier with regard to the topic. you do better

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

on a more serious note whoever loves the least controls the relationship( this apply to all type relationships)

That only works in relationships where there is always a looming threat of you leaving.

The person that does that doesn’t ‘control’ shyt, they are just ready to take their ball and go home whenever it doesn’t fit their way.

Any relationship where Person A actually loves themselves, Person B doesn’t have any control just because they ‘love less’

 

[WeDemBoyz]

No sexist shyt because this is all I know and seen, only way it could not be embarrassing is if it's 2 ppl, opposite sex, and the woman is feeling the man more. The man feels her too but not all the way equal YET and a real man ain't gon embarrass her either. A woman can grow on a man with time, but the opposite doesn't seem as common because generally speaking if a woman fukks with you then ain't no second guessing it. Our community is in pain we shouldn't tolerate that half steppin shyt in 2022.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

people be so insecure with their feelings and scary to standf on their own shyt. i always say i'm a sucker for love which sometimes involves going harder than the other. i do so because it's a feeling i enjoy so ima do me and enjoy it. i'm not stiffling my shyt just to play "keep the same energy"

As all women should.

but as a man, ill pull back in a heartbeat if I aint getting the energy I want.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

As all women should.

but as a man, ill pull back in a heartbeat if I aint getting the energy I want.

i guess the difference is, i get the energy just being myself which is a loving cool person. i just want to be happy. playing cool doesn't seem all that fun. look at HOH posts, do they seem happy to you?

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

The person you quoting saying the opposite and I agree . Don’t let no one distort how you love . It hurts being vulnerable but if that’s how you feel it’s how you feel .

I been at the dmv taking care of some shyt so I been meaning to respond to a post or 2 in here. But with all due respect, I’m staying stiff on these hoes. I don’t fukk with people who don’t fukk with me. It’s that simple. I respect everyone else way of doing things.

This particular thread is about how much your feelings are reciprocated when dealing with a person. It don’t mattter how easy going you are, no one likes feeling like any type of relationship is one sided. It ain’t about trying to match no one energy or be someone you not. It’s about not playing yourself. We not about to sit here and act like women don’t be getting they fukking feelings hurt lol. shyt, it was the women in my family who taught me to stay stiff on these hoes lol. My aunt used to tell me and my cousins that

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Did you go get it?

Yeah. I was sittin in the drive thru wit a heart full of hurt

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I been at the dmv taking care of some shyt so I been meaning to respond to a post or 2 in here. But with all due respect, I’m staying stiff on these hoes. I don’t fukk with people who don’t fukk with me. It’s that simple. I respect everyone else way of doing things.

This particular thread is about how much your feelings are reciprocated when dealing with a person. It don’t mattter how easy going you are, no one likes feeling like any type of relationship is one sided. It ain’t about trying to match no one energy or be someone you not. It’s about not playing yourself. We not about to sit here and act like women don’t be getting they fukking feelings hurt lol. shyt, it was the women in my family who taught me to stay stiff on these hoes lol. My aunt used to tell me and my cousins that

oh yeah...we talking about two different things. OP never said they don't mess with you... they said they don't mess with you as hard as you mess with them. if you are a harder lover you already recognize you may be on 100 when someone is on 80. that's like sports, you know when you go harder than a teammate, that don't mean they can't be on the team... you feel me?

i'm not talking about liking someone that doesn't like me. lol imagine that

 

[VertigoKnight]

This is why it's very important for everyone to not carry over the old baggage from your past relationships to your new one.

People scared to open their hearts up after someone done them wrong and they usually let that fukk them outta something that could be good for them.

This is another issue. People jumping from relationship to relationship without healing first.

Just means things will remain a mess until they deal with their baggage properly.

 

[Estarossa]

As all women should.

but as a man, ill pull back in a heartbeat if I aint getting the energy I want.

This is the key that a lot of people don’t seem to understand. If a dude/girl don’t fukk wit you on the same level you can’t force them to and you only hurting yourself by sticking around. One-sided relationships are obvious as shyt to everyone except the mf putting forth the most effort.

 

[BrothaZay]

That’s true but sometimes that person will notice and the roles will switch overtime

Example?