It's Hard Getting over someone you truly love....

BedRoomI'z

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:skip: It does?

I couldn't do that to my sisters. :wow:

You have to absolutely not give a fukk about your sibling to do that to them. cotdamn.

I hear ya, same here

What is killing is how quickly dudes find themselves in
that position as well, which is why I say, he wasn't all the
blame. That sister wasn't shyt either:sitdown:
 

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Is 5 months too long to still be hung up over someone? I been trying to get over my ex but I still think about her everyday :to:

There is no set time frame. It's just that men have no outlet and are told to get over her and get some new puzzy.

Time heals and soon you won't think about her every day trust me. Don't contact her get rid of pictures gifts and every day you will stop thinking of her less.

It's harder for a man, a chick gets dumped throws her picture on a dating site and getting 100s of offers.

A male gets dumped, your on your own

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Is 5 months too long to still be hung up over someone? I been trying to get over my ex but I still think about her everyday :to:

Depends on how long yall were together. It's dudes out there that haven't let go of a woman and it's been 10 plus years. :wow:

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that's what i'm saying..... family supposed to be there no matter what... blood over everything..... damn, where's the loyalty lol?

damn is all i can really say lol.....

Jealousy can be stronger than love,just like his urge to fuk wuz stronger than love that day:heh:...Sis mighta been jealous of what she had which is what it is in most cases where a female family member does that to another female imo...all that love is the most powerful emotion is sum bullshyt:heh:

I won't judge cuz I'm only like 85% faithful but i would like to think id never fuk one of my baby mamas family members and she got a few I eyeball from time to time:mjpls:....and sumtimes u can say as a man you wuznt even thinkin about ya girl when u cheated on her and how it would hurt her....but wit family members I can't cosign that,cuz that would be like a giant alarm goin off in your head like ":wow: this is her sister:why:"....same reason its damn near impossible to forgive a woman for cheating bcuz you KNOW if they wuznt drunk they thought about before they did it,same reason its gon be hard for u to get a pass....letalong the embarrasement it caused...but a wise man once said

"And I know I don't deserve another chaaaaaance,but I had to say it anyway:to:"

U know u don't deserve a second chance for this shyt,but at least u know u did all u could which will make u feel better in a way or at least it should.....I couldn't even ask for forgiveness after thiis one:snoop: just too much shame,u never know tho hopefully it work out good for y'all.
 

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Because of ego you never think she's going to leave



But then she gets fed up and finally DOES leave. And then it's...

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First girl I told "I love you" to.....she turned out to be a lesbian. She's going to the Marines in June....hopes she end on the frontline with the men. :heh:


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:mindblown: man i'm not even trying to judge you, but how does something like that happen? I thought that only happened on like Jerry Springer or Maury lol

it just happened....I mean came home from work was about to hit the shower b4 I picked my boys. Door bell rang...she was looking for her sister but she had night classes. She asked could she stay. At first, I was like nah cus I didn't even like her anyway personally. She was a disrespectful ass anyway. I wasn't going to take her back home so I said yeah. Took a shower...went in the kitchen to eat something real quick. She came in was like could I make her some...I'm like fukk outta here. She like what punk....came over to me on some playful shyt. Then it just went wrong from there.

Not being judgemental..but I can respect that you wanna do whatever it takes to get your family back and I don't think that it makes you look like a lame...we all make mistakes and no one is perfect, of course...but knowingly going into a situation where you know its a huge possibilty that you might lose your family just doesn't seem worth it(im sure you know that)....

it happened so fast man, didn't think about it until after the fact. I honestly felt like shyt. I told my lil bro about it like 2 weeks after and he kept telling me I have to tell her. I couldn't do it.

Damn I thought I did my sons mother bad. But :damn: breh

you live and you learn

Jealousy can be stronger than love,just like his urge to fuk wuz stronger than love that day:heh:...Sis mighta been jealous of what she had which is what it is in most cases where a female family member does that to another female imo...all that love is the most powerful emotion is sum bullshyt:heh:

I won't judge cuz I'm only like 85% faithful but i would like to think id never fuk one of my baby mamas family members and she got a few I eyeball from time to time:mjpls:....and sumtimes u can say as a man you wuznt even thinkin about ya girl when u cheated on her and how it would hurt her....but wit family members I can't cosign that,cuz that would be like a giant alarm goin off in your head like ":wow: this is her sister:why:"....same reason its damn near impossible to forgive a woman for cheating bcuz you KNOW if they wuznt drunk they thought about before they did it,same reason its gon be hard for u to get a pass....letalong the embarrasement it caused...but a wise man once said

"And I know I don't deserve another chaaaaaance,but I had to say it anyway:to:"

U know u don't deserve a second chance for this shyt,but at least u know u did all u could which will make u feel better in a way or at least it should.....I couldn't even ask for forgiveness after thiis one:snoop: just too much shame,u never know tho hopefully it work out good for y'all.

nah, yall right. It just doesn't hurt trying
 

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First girl I told "I love you" to.....she turned out to be a lesbian. She's going to the Marines in June....hopes she end on the frontline with the men. :heh:


:to:

I'm dealing with something similar. Knew this girl for almost ten years. Eventually told each other we loved each other. She ended up becoming a lesbian and I think she got married or domestic partnered or whatever the fukk they do on my birthday:sadbron:
 

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I'm dealing with something similar. Knew this girl for almost ten years. Eventually told each other we loved each other. She ended up becoming a lesbian and I think she got married or domestic partnered or whatever the fukk they do on my birthday:sadbron:

:wow:
 
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