It's Hard Getting over someone you truly love....
- Thread starter Carter G. Hoodson
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?I made a huge mistake about a year ago and I'll probably regret it for the rest of my life
I chose comfort over love.
Live and learn, bro.
I'm not one of those guys that believes in that "everything happens for a reason" bullshyt.
That's really just something people say to rationalize shyt after the fact.
But you made a decision and the only thing you can do is move forward.
If you find yourself in a similar situation in the future, well, you'll have a better idea of how to handle it.
Yeah, in the back of mind I think about going back but l think it's just wishful thinking and should move forward.
Pretty much the same thing I did...
Then after like a year I was like
Maybe it aint only her...By that time she was like....
I was like
I get it She was like
Oh now you get it? After all these years Well 
I was like
baby hol upshe was like
I was like
....................
Then it ended with her like
And me like
Anytime we speak.Girls don't take men back.
Ever.
They'll fukk around because that platonic dikk in a jar comes in handy sometimes. But they won't ever go back.
And you shouldn't go back. Nothing boosts a chic's ego more than a motherfukker she dated begging for her back.
NOTHING.
Don't give her that satisfaction.
I feel bad but I kinda laughed at "baby hold up"Pretty much the same thing I did...
Then after like a year I was like
By that time she was like....
I was like
She was like
I was like
she was like
I was like
Then it ended with her like
And me like
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
even if an ex was to come back down the line, why would you want her back? you think durin all dat time ya'll were broken up she wasn't sukkin new d!ck? 
They don't really wanna get back with you. Its more about a validation/ego thing more than anything. An ex is an ex for a reason.
They don't really wanna get back with you. Its more about a validation/ego thing more than anything. An ex is an ex for a reason.
even if an ex was to come back down the line, why would you want her back? you think durin all dat time ya'll were broken up she wasn't sukkin new d!ck?
They don't really wanna get back with you. Its more about a validation/ego thing more than anything. An ex is an ex for a reason.
I never understood this... Like they wasn't suckin nikka's off before you?
I agree with the rest though, most times a ex aint trying to get back with and ex until the realize how much they have screwed up, with a chick that usually involves money or a kid. With a nikka that usually involves time....
Well look, for the most part, I don't think exes getting back together works.
But I will say that given the right situation, the right people, it is worth a shot.
Sometimes people date and it doesn't work out. Maybe years later they reconnect...they've matured in certain ways and they give it another try and things work out.
I imagine it's not likely, but it happens.
I wouldn't go down that path if I was like...in my 20s though.
Hardly anyone is mature enough to handle that.
But I will say that given the right situation, the right people, it is worth a shot.
Sometimes people date and it doesn't work out. Maybe years later they reconnect...they've matured in certain ways and they give it another try and things work out.
I imagine it's not likely, but it happens.
I wouldn't go down that path if I was like...in my 20s though.
Hardly anyone is mature enough to handle that.
going through this right now.. it burns reallll slow
little4209
All Star
Sooo I "broke up" w/ my 1st love three years ago but we were still "seeing" each other. 2 months ago, I found out on Instagram that he had a baby with the same girl we broke up over in the first place. It was foolish of me to still have been in contact with him.
that he had a baby with the same girl we broke up over in the first place. It was foolish of me to still have been in contact with him.
Sooo I "broke up" w/ my 1st love three years ago but we were still "seeing" each other. 2 months ago, I found out on Instagram
he just wanted that puzz
sorry