It's not your fault you can't get Black women, blame your parents. [Black Men]

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Breh, this is oddly beyond specific just off one viewing of a 16 year kid. Is this off personal experience? Not even saying I don't agree either.

It's based on my personal observations, I actually thought it wasn't as specific as it should be and I might meditate on these ideas and expound on them a bit.
 

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On the subject of black people "connecting" with each other:

I think that there's a conversation to be had that the rise and dominance of destructive images of blackness in the 2000s has really fukked up our ability to recognize blackness in each other. The constant images of "thug", "baller", and "bad bytch" have caused us to subconsciously construct a very narrow definition of blackness. Add to that the rise of interracial dating, and a lot of black people get swerved because "you look like somebody that only dates white people." A lot of black people struggling in the dating scene now probably would have done better in the'90s when we had a much wider range of images of blackness.

Yeah. No serious man really wants to wife a Bad bytch, and no woman in her true senses would want to bring a criminal home. But that's what media has portrayed us as over the past 20 years and it's effects are damaging.
Also in the 90s, being Black was looked at as by Black people as being ideal and positive and the idea of dating out wasn't as prominent or seen as an alternative.
Black geeks need to be dating Black geeks, Black educated middle class with Black educated middle class and Bad bytches and thugs need to only date each other.
 

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I wonder what parental defincincies causes a man to do nothing but make troll threads targeted towards his own gender
 

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Yeah. No serious man really wants to wife a Bad bytch, and no woman in her true senses would want to bring a criminal home. But that's what media has portrayed us as over the past 20 years and it's effects are damaging.
Also in the 90s, being Black was looked at as by Black people as being ideal and positive and the idea of dating out wasn't as prominent or seen as an alternative.
Black geeks need to be dating Black geeks, Black educated middle class with Black educated middle class and Bad bytches and thugs need to only date each other.

It's so pervasive that it's impossible not to be affected on some level. The media has us making so many bad choices.
 

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I wonder what parental defincincies causes a man to do nothing but make troll threads targeted towards his own gender

Probably abuse from said men in his life thus he has the same disdain for black men that a "bitter black woman" would. They think it makes them look intellgent because on the surface they appear to be "going agianst the status quo", and use that narrative that because you are a man who doesnt agree you are the problem and "just dont get it".
 

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so the secret to getting black women is talking in slang.:ohhh:its so clear to me now. ebonics and hood mentality are the true measuers of blackness


tho I wonder why black women still get fukked by non-hood white boys despite their caucasian rhythms?

I guess multiple variations of nonblack ppl are accepted but there is only one way to be black:ohhh:
 

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so the secret to getting black women is talking in slang.:ohhh:its so clear to me now. ebonics and hood mentality are the true measuers of blackness


tho I wonder why black women still get fukked by non-hood white boys despite their caucasian rhythms?

I guess multiple variations of nonblack ppl are accepted but there is only one way to be black:ohhh:

I always find it interesting when a person reads something and completely misses the points only to reach ridiculous conclusions.
 

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Don't think I agree with this. Its not like this is a dynamic that is only present in the Black community. I really think its as simple as them being extremely socially awkward. They would not and mostly do not fare better with non-Black women. That is, until they have good jobs/money and can offer those women more than their social awkwardness and passive aggressive hatred for women.

Additionally I think they are ignoring Black women who they would connect better with. There is a Black female equivalent that no one likes to talk about, and she's just as isolated in the dating world but she doesn't end up specifically hating the opposite sex in her race like these guys. She also doesn't find solace is being approached to be used for sex any more than the socially awkward Black male would appreciate being approach to be used for money, so there is no real imbalance.

No, there isn't. Women don't have to approach men, and men in general, will approach them if they go outside. Or online en mass.
 

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I always find it interesting when a person reads something and completely misses the points only to reach ridiculous conclusions.

This is only par the course when this thread I based on a ridiculous conclusion you drew from seeing a kid I walmart wearing sandals causing you to assume he couldn't get black women. :dead:

The premise of your argument is bullshyt anyway because the majority of blk people don't talk with hood venacular especially when taking older black folks into account.

You have a real talent for saying dumb shyt then trying to frame it as if youre saying something profound
 

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This is only par the course when this thread I based on a ridiculous conclusion you drew from seeing a kid I walmart wearing sandals causing you to assume he couldn't get black women. :dead:

The premise of your argument is bullshyt anyway because the majority of blk people don't talk with hood venacular especially when taking older black folks into account.

You have a real talent for saying dumb shyt then trying to frame it as if youre saying something profound

This has nothing to do with speaking with "hood vernacular", whatever that means.
 
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