For the same reason why Gayle can't be expected to give any extra weight to a bunch of men who have slandered women like her for as long as her old ass can probably remember. She come from the C Delores Tucker generation. nikkas need to use logic. C Delores Tucker begged nikkas to dial the misogyny back in their music and we went full force with the shyt. Now its to the point that hip hop is so disgusting even I'm like "hold on...what?" listening to half the shyt.
For me, its fukk Oprah all day long. But I'm also not an emotional bytch nikka and in conflict resolutions try to see both sides. Fact is, we have casually referred to women in our community as bytches and hoes (and now thots) for a few generations now. Thats what these women see when they see Black men now. And disrespect begets disrespect. nikkas need to stop expecting reverence and consideration from people whom they give none to.