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Gullible nikkas have always been a thing, social media just didn't always exist for them to tell on themselves
 

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the person posted "guy I met at arby's (wellington)"
Nothing wrong with that, but it should let him know that she is not being exclusive. She is using descriptive monikers to remember men, not their actual names. It also means his two months of talking to her means something completely different to her than it does to him and he sould be aware of that fact.
 

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I've never understood this. Unless both parties decided to exclusively not date other people, I'm assuming the other person is talking to someone else. Are we honestly expecting people to be immediately loyal based off of nothing?
This

Unless we were together foreal, I wouldn’t give af.

It would just lmk that I should/can keep my options open. It could’ve been an older dude too, but I’ve just moved accordingly.

Every chick I’ve met since returning has had other men saved in their phones whether they directly told me or not. It’s just the way the “dating” game is played. But until we are exclusive, do what you want just don’t be upset when I do the same and we’re good.

I call it “the friendzone” for myself personally. I might still be fukking, but we just “friends” until I’m shown she wants to be claimed.

Long distance has been the biggest factor though. For example, I caught the “Princess” chick with another dude because she went on a mutual friends Live with him. She hit me up shortly after and tried to explain but I’m just like no need :mjlol: :hubie:.


I already hit and I know she wants to be with me, but lets see how it works out
 

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I've never understood this. Unless both parties decided to exclusively not date other people, I'm assuming the other person is talking to someone else. Are we honestly expecting people to be immediately loyal based off of nothing?
All that can be true but the fact she tried to hide it and play it off speaks volumes. I wouldn't be shocked if he wasn't exploring his options based on the pretense that they were mutually exclusive. I also wouldn't be shocked that if dude started seeing other women ol girl would be in her feelings. She obviously wants it both ways.
 

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All that can be true but the fact she tried to hide it and play it off speaks volumes. I wouldn't be shocked if he wasn't exploring his options based on the pretense that they were mutually exclusive. I also wouldn't be shocked that if dude started seeing other women ol girl would be in her feelings. She obviously wants it both ways.
Should she have hid it? No, but I understand why she did. You don't talk about other people you're talking to to the other person you are also talking to. And nowhere does it says he's think they're mutually exclusive, or if they've even talked about it. We don't even have an indication on how she feels or if she would be jealous. She could possibly think that he has other women too. Either way he's freaking out too soon over someone he's just talking to.
 

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Should she have hid it? No, but I understand why she did. You don't talk about other people you're talking to to the other person you are also talking to. And nowhere does it says he's think they're mutually exclusive, or if they've even talked about it. We don't even have an indication on how she feels or if she would be jealous. She could possibly think that he has other women too. Either way he's freaking out too soon over someone he's just talking to.
She should've been honest when he asked. If she wanted to stay true to the bolded she could've said the bolded, not lie and say it's nobody (assuming it actually is somebody). If she really thought it was kosher then that's how she would've responded. I wouldn't freak out cuz that wouldn't change anything but i would make a mental note of it going forward.
 
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