Men usually treat women how they've seen the older men in their lives treat women.. Brothers, uncles, cousins, etc.. Same with women.. And a "good man" is relative to that person.. But they usually have the same foundation.. A strong provider, starting with being able to provide for himself.. Watch that same dude, he probably close to his family and have a decent connection with them.. Breh about his business too.. A lot of little things combined make up a "good man", and it starts long before a dude meets a woman..