"It's tough being a woman's 1st good man

[Henny and_ HotWings]

Sounds logical to me but some ppl like being the fixer or the light in someone's world of darkness but life isn't a movie. It doesn't always work and sometimes they get dragged down too.

broooo I learned this lesson the hard way in my LAST relationship. You speaking nothing but gospel

I’m with a great woman now tho, so I guess it’s all good… but still

 

[Kinguno]

I saw the first tweet and I thought it was one of those Black girl Dad pick tweets that get thousands of retweets until a Twitter chick goes all he was in my DMs

 

[Geek Nasty]

Romans 3:10-As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one.

When I read this verse, I felt free. The Lord does not consider any of us to be good. Even Jesus said only God is good. So since then, I have felt free to be a POS and an SOB.

You misinterpreted the fukk out of that verse

 

[The ADD]

You misinterpreted the fukk out of that verse

 

[Kinguno]

he's absolutely right. I was just telling a homie the other day how when you really break it down, there's tons of women 27-35 out there who have literally never been with or even kicked it with a nikka who truly is a good dude and has his shyt together. So when they finally get with a nikka whos moving right they find all types of reasons to sabotage the situation

Often because they know they not worthy of someone with their shyt together.

They can stay with a guy with fast money and put up with that emptiness but would give double that emptiness to a man that likes her.


At the end of they day you losing with women no matter what so since you know that be numb to what isn’t what you want and enjoy what you want

 

[BaldingSoHard]

It can be... or she can be extremely appreciative for the edification you bring into her life.

I am my current gf's first "good man".

She tells me at least 2x a week how thankful she is that we're together...


On the other hand, in my 20's I also dated some women who weren't used to being treated respectfully, and they didn't know how to react to honesty and thus... ruined the relationship.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Most people have some kind of baggage. It’s just to what level, are they aware of it and are they willing to work on it. If you get to the point where you are getting marriage serious with a chick you are going to uncover something.

For the record I mean someone you meet without generally previously knowing.

I dont deal with harlots and promiscious women that get ran through and then suffer the mental consequences of those decisions.

I dont deal with women that date trash men.

Up your circle and the women you commiserate with gentlemen

 

[Mr. Negative]

yeah it's true. So much either/or... shyt got more layers than a thousand pound onion.

lotta girls want a better love, but they only react positively when they're treated like where their level of self worth is

some girls got a foot in each game, feeding her ego by telling herself badmon only loves her so she special, but she want security that badmon can't give her

some girls loving in tiers. fukk the fun one, date the one with potential, marry security

some girls just got a lotta love to give, but gave it to the wrong person too many times.


all those girls will run.

Some dudes like it because they have a savior complex

and so is this.

 

[The Villain]

Straight up facts. You battling against ghosts and hallucinations.

 

[WesCrook]

Be the cleanup man after she's been ran through by the local dope boys, ain't shyt nikkas and scammers brehs.

With a snatch the size of the Grand Canyon.

 

[The ADD]

I dont deal with harlots and promiscious women that get ran through and then suffer the mental consequences of those decisions.

I dont deal with women that date trash men.

Up your circle and the women you commiserate with gentlemen

You think that’s the only “baggage”? I’m not saying everyone woman has the worst of the worst but damn near all of us have a little something lurking. Like I said you get to the point of marriage and it’s going to be some layers to navigate. Now if these are all casual relationships then yeah it might be avoidable.

Come on guise

 

[BaggerofTea]

he's absolutely right. I was just telling a homie the other day how when you really break it down, there's tons of women 27-35 out there who have literally never been with or even kicked it with a nikka who truly is a good dude and has his shyt together. So when they finally get with a nikka whos moving right they find all types of reasons to sabotage the situation

when everyone is the problem but "you"(the women in this case), its probably "you"

 

[BaggerofTea]

You think that’s the only “baggage”? I’m not saying everyone woman has the worst of the worst but damn near all of us have a little something lurking. Like I said you get to the point of marriage and it’s going to be some layers to navigate. No if these are all casual relationships then yeah it might be avoidable.

Come on guise

Large part of womens baggage revolves around "water rises to its own level" sort of stuff.

As the women in the relationship have trauma, so does the man

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Im a good man and I ain't fixing shyt or proving shyt. If bytches wanna be insecure then they can take they ass outside.

 

[King Poetic]

Totally agree

dated several chicks who told me the exact same story

they previous dude was abusive, rather verbally or physically, nobody ever gave them shyt, etc etc

and these women would be in public acting like many women do all confidence and they know everything, but behind closed doors and if u decide u don’t want to continue a relationship with her, the breakdown they have is crazy

u hear from things like “ nobody wants me” to “ I’m never going to find the right man “