I've been trying to get a girlfriend for the past 10 years

MalikX

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I understand where you're coming from, but to act like you don't need/want a woman is being in denial. Women anger me, hell im angry at a specific woman right now(as I type this) but it doesn't change the fact I want attractive women in my life. :yeshrug: I can't help it.

I need women for sex.

I'm not improving myself so some vapid entitled 21st century feminist can finally say I"m good enough for her petri dish vaginal cavity, her basket weaving degree, her $40,000 in student loan debt and her bullshyt admin marketing job at an equally bullshyt company for a union that solely benefits her and has a 60% chance of ending horribly for me. What a prize :heh: I"m doing everything for ME nikka. I'll find "female comforts" along the way but, they can leave afterward.
 

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Why are women worth all of this effort and labor? What are THEY doing to make themselves better to men or is them having a functioning p*ssy good enough?

Sounds pretty stupid that men have to go through all this bread and circus for female affection and for what? What do we really get out of it? Societal expectation to marry? 60% of us will get divorced. Sire children? You can do that anyway. Not to die alone? We all die alone.

To hell with it. My dad is in a loveless and hopeless marriage. My uncle is twice divorced. My other uncle lost $200,000 in his divorce. The rest are in okay marriages but, I envy none of their lives. Is that the end result of "making yourself better so women will like you"....I'm okay :dame:

How about stop caring about what women think or what they want and live your own life how you want. How about I want a million dollars because I WANT a million dollars. Not so some rancid cumbreath party girl will think I'm worthy then. How about I want enough passive income and financial independence so I can achieve a lifestyle of complete location independence and be able to travel the world at the drop of the dime. Not so some delusional woman can say i'm good mating material and start picking out starter houses, private schools, luxury cars and other ways to frivolously spend my money. How about I want to find importance in life because I want to find my calling on Earth. Not so some entitled smut bag with cum stains all over her dress can think I'm a winner :dame:
You sound like a bytch. :scust:
 

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Maybe stop trying and just live life.. the right one will come along if you let her..

Its hard to try and say something to help since i don't know a thing about you...
It seems weird that 10 years straight no girl has ever agreed to date you.. i think you're leaving some ish out :upsetfavre:

But i find when i focus on myself instead of worrying about dating or w/e .. thats when people won't leave me alone. But when i actually try nothing seems to workout. People seem to be attracted to you when you're doing good for yourself or when you are doing your own thing .. life's funny like that
best of luck:laugh:
 

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You sound like a bytch. :scust:
Lol he did bytch out a bit but real talk he got a point. Ain't many people out here worth all this time, money and effort that u gotta put in to get them. If u gotta do all this shyt people posting and change urself and do a 180...then u need to evaluate and see if these bytches worth it. They better be fine as hell AND have a stellar personality.
 

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Dr. Kendrick to the rescue let me put my scrubs on. Okay what do we have here? no swagger, no mouthpiece, socially awkward, not in shape, and boring. This is going to take a miracle but bear with me there is a cure. First off before you can love anybody you gotta love yourself first. That means your self improvement skills have to increase. Handle your biz first before you invite someone in your life. You cant have the milk and honey without putting in the work. Second you're not entitled to any p*ssy just because youre a nice guys with a bunch of degrees dont mean shyt to these females. They need to see something tangible fukk a vision. And lastly confidence you gotta believe you the shyt even when theres no toilet. If you dont believe in yourself then who will. Take this red pill and you should be healthy by morning. As for the payment of this visit free of charge. :obama:
 

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:patrice:got a no from every last one of them huh?:what:Bruh its you ...... But of course you already realized that. :mjcry: i feel your pain tho fam
 

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You haven't had a girl in 10 years or haven't smashed one in 10 years?

If it's the former then thats cool.
 

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Why are women worth all of this effort and labor? What are THEY doing to make themselves better to men or is them having a functioning p*ssy good enough?

Sounds pretty stupid that men have to go through all this bread and circus for female affection and for what? What do we really get out of it? Societal expectation to marry? 60% of us will get divorced. Sire children? You can do that anyway. Not to die alone? We all die alone.

To hell with it. My dad is in a loveless and hopeless marriage. My uncle is twice divorced. My other uncle lost $200,000 in his divorce. The rest are in okay marriages but, I envy none of their lives. Is that the end result of "making yourself better so women will like you"....I'm okay :dame:

How about stop caring about what women think or what they want and live your own life how you want. How about I want a million dollars because I WANT a million dollars. Not so some rancid cumbreath party girl will think I'm worthy then. How about I want enough passive income and financial independence so I can achieve a lifestyle of complete location independence and be able to travel the world at the drop of the dime. Not so some delusional woman can say i'm good mating material and start picking out starter houses, private schools, luxury cars and other ways to frivolously spend my money. How about I want to find importance in life because I want to find my calling on Earth. Not so some entitled smut bag with cum stains all over her dress can think I'm a winner :dame:
Lol, no need to come at me breh. I don't do anything I do because of women. I do it for myself. Women are just the fruits of my labor. And here's the truth, if your Dad's in a loveless hopeless marriage, it's his fault. Men lead the relationship and women follow. Your Uncle is twice divorced likely because he has made bad decisions. My parents have been married for 30+ years, and when my mother speaks about my father she speaks about him in glowing terms. And I have several aunts and uncles who are the same way.

It's always funny to me when bitter and jaded men comment on my posts. Take note, this is what happens when you let disappointment and despair dominate your life. You see, if you read what I actually wrote you'd realize that you and I are saying the same exact thing. If anyone on this board does what I recommend, eventually they'd start living for themselves rather than living for females (change of mindset). Right now I'm reading Richard Wright, James Baldwin and Ta-Nehisi Coates new book. I just finished all of MLK's books, read Malcolm X's autobiography and finished a beautiful memoir entitled When Breath Becomes Air. I have a scholarship to dental school where I'm trying to specialize and become an Oral Surgeon. And I'm currently working through the best WWII documentary World at War. I I don't do any of that for women I do it for myself. If I talk to a girl and she doesn't like the person that I am and not going to change who I am lol. I don't make my decisions based on what a female thinks. That same girl that doesn't like you today, if she saw you with another girl on her arm, all of a sudden she'd be all over you. Take your hate and your vitriol and your bitterness somewhere else. I know it's hard to comprehend but not everyone loses at life. :ufdup:.
 
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I already have a woman so I don't know what being insecure or nervous has to do with me. I don't need your basic advice my dude. Based on my experience the women that are aggressive and openly flirt with dudes and make it clear that they would give it up usually wouldn't be a mans first choice. It's not always the case, but for the most part it's true.

Nobody's bringing up thirsty thots but you.

:dwillhuh:


It's basic advice but it's the truth. Keep a woman engaged in a conversation and it's a wrap.

This applies to 99% of women.

That's why dude's feel some type of way if another man is making their girl laugh in public.
 
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