I've been trying to get a girlfriend for the past 10 years

[Mowgli]

I asked out my first girl in 2006
She said no
Between then and now I've asked out at least thousands of women with no luck
You miss every shot You don't take


- blackierobinson

Start taking brazillian Jiu-jitsu
Go 3 times a week minimum
In one year you will have a girl you consider pretty.


These are just the facts

 

[onlylno]

Lol, no need to come at me breh. I don't do anything I do because of women. I do it for myself. Women are just the fruits of my labor. And here's the truth, if your Dad's in a loveless hopeless marriage, it's his fault. Men lead the relationship and women follow. Your Uncle is twice divorced likely because he has made bad decisions. My parents have been married for 30+ years, and when my mother speaks about my father she speaks about him in glowing terms. And I have several aunts and uncles who are the same way.

It's always funny to me when bitter and jaded men comment on my posts. Take note, this is what happens when you let disappointment and despair take dominate your life. You see, if you read what I actually wrote you'd realize that you and I are saying the same exact thing. If anyone on this board does what I recommend, eventually they'd start living for themselves rather than living for females (change of mindset). Right now I'm reading Richard Wright, James Baldwin and Ta-Nehisi Coates new book. I just finished all of MLK's books, read Malcolm X's autobiography and finished a beautiful memoir entitled When Breath Becomes Air. I have a scholarship to dental school where I'm trying to specialize and become an Oral Surgeon. And I'm currently working through the best WWII documentary World at War. I I don't do any of that for women I do it for myself. If I talk to a girl and she doesn't like the person that I am and not going to change who I am lol. I don't make my decisions based on what a female thinks. That same girl that doesn't like you today, if she saw you with another girl on her arm, all of a sudden she'd be all over you. Take your hate and your vitriol and your bitterness somewhere else. I know it's hard to comprehend but not everyone loses at life. .

You speaking truth



But like I said earlier, these dudes don't want to here it.

 

[yardman]

ya kno this nikka lying ri? he jus want a plat thread.

 

[2stainz]

Bruh its you

 

[MalikX]

Lol, no need to come at me breh. I don't do anything I do because of women. I do it for myself. Women are just the fruits of my labor. And here's the truth, if your Dad's in a loveless hopeless marriage, it's his fault. Men lead the relationship and women follow. Your Uncle is twice divorced likely because he has made bad decisions. My parents have been married for 30+ years, and when my mother speaks about my father she speaks about him in glowing terms. And I have several aunts and uncles who are the same way.

It's always funny to me when bitter and jaded men comment on my posts. Take note, this is what happens when you let disappointment and despair take dominate your life. You see, if you read what I actually wrote you'd realize that you and I are saying the same exact thing. If anyone on this board does what I recommend, eventually they'd start living for themselves rather than living for females (change of mindset). Right now I'm reading Richard Wright, James Baldwin and Ta-Nehisi Coates new book. I just finished all of MLK's books, read Malcolm X's autobiography and finished a beautiful memoir entitled When Breath Becomes Air. I have a scholarship to dental school where I'm trying to specialize and become an Oral Surgeon. And I'm currently working through the best WWII documentary World at War. I I don't do any of that for women I do it for myself. If I talk to a girl and she doesn't like the person that I am and not going to change who I am lol. I don't make my decisions based on what a female thinks. That same girl that doesn't like you today, if she saw you with another girl on her arm, all of a sudden she'd be all over you. Take your hate and your vitriol and your bitterness somewhere else. I know it's hard to comprehend but not everyone loses at life. .

I get what you saying completely breh....build up your peacock feathers and make them really colorful so other female peacocks will be so impressed with your peacock feathers that they'll wanna come nibble at grass and roots with you.....I get it

I"m just asking why are these average ass broads worth all that? And what are THEY doing to improve themselves? By the time I have a couple hundred thousand racks and my house paid off I'm not even gonna be thinking about no average frumpy dumpy broad. Much less marriage to one of them.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I know how it feels breh. I barely get any likes when I put a picture up of myself on Instagram. So I've come to the conclusion that I'm a unattractive individual .

i cant believe the homies going thru this

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I hate to be a hater but I believe if you haven't had some normal romantic interaction with the opposite sex by 24 you're on the road to being one of those adults who's obsession with animals is repulsive. Or someone's who is enveloped by fantasies of super heroes and shyt. That's not repulsive but it's limiting and can lead to dissociative disorder.

Frfr: I know people who were basically virgins until their forties and fifties. As we age what we want in a partner changes. That opens the door for unorthodox relationships. shyt, some people go from being loners to social butterflies and vice versa.

As a teenager I wanted girls my friends approved of. In my early twenties I wanted the baddest bytches within ten miles of my location. Now I'm almost 30 and I wouldn't pursue relationships with any of the girls I would have as a kid fresh out of HS. Hahaha, I want to die twice for saying this corny shyt but, find someone who fukking cares when you're speaking. There are plenty of girls I overlooked who were nice and supportive. I wasn't checking for it back then. I think people are oblivious to people who like them. Most people recognize the DTF vibe, but what about the DTT (down to talk) vibe?

Lol now I can't shake these ratchets and cougars, bang! Being young sucks for romance but I love my young body. I take lots of pictures. I'm at over four thousand selfies from the age of 23. My body fat percentage was so low I was wearing XS shirts and had to get my pants tailored to fit my waist. I was running like 15 miles a day and working out five days a week.

Imma be a virgin at 60 #ashydikkgang

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Life isn't a Disney movie where everyone ends up with a partner. There are plenty of people go significant portions of their lives single and die alone with no one

My end goal

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Ts almost summer why the fukk do u want a gf
Go out party
Mingle
Talk to every chick

U bound to smash

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

u a anime watching wannabe cac who trolls on the net

u never getting hoes

 

[yyy]

I get what you saying completely breh....build up your peacock feathers and make them really colorful so other female peacocks will be so impressed with your peacock feathers that they'll wanna come nibble at grass and roots with you.....I get it

I"m just asking why are these average ass broads worth all that? And what are THEY doing to improve themselves? By the time I have a couple hundred thousand racks and my house paid off I'm not even gonna be thinking about no average frumpy dumpy broad. Much less marriage to one of them.

Ahhh, well that's another question lol. The reality is that I don't deal with the average women so I'm not the person to ask. I deal with women who are at the top of the food chain. Most of them are beautiful/attractive plan on going to Law schools or med schools and in general have very bright futures. I don't want to say that I look down on the average women, but I certainly wouldn't consider them for any sort of romantic relationship. We would literally have nothing to talk about. And for having your stuff in order.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

What is the "right" way to ask a woman out?

"Excuse me miss, i saw you from across the room and i wanted to say Yo." Guarranted to get them digits bruh

 

[MalikX]

@primetime11 For an ivy league brother your naivete is amusing. It's not about making right choices. 60% of men will get divorced regardless of the choices they make. And every guy who goes into a marriage BELIEVES he is making the right choice. People are flawed. When there's a chance to take advantage of something, they will. Your wife could love you today, grow to resent you ten years down the line and boom, it's over. And she'll have the courts behind her. Only a naive person would say "choose better". How about not choose at all. And things have changed A GREAT DEAL between now and our parent's generation.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Nobody's bringing up thirsty thots but you.




It's basic advice but it's the truth. Keep a woman engaged in a conversation and it's a wrap.

This applies to 99% of women.

That's why dude's feel some type of way if another man is making their girl laugh in public.

Clearly I'm not the only one that brought them up since plenty of people think that just going outside in 2016 is enough to get p*ssy. You responded with some off base silly response that doesn't directly relate to the point. You and the people that dapped you may had been the people I was talking about.

Save your basic advice for these soft dudes that prop up women and worry about entertaining them because they have a vagina. I'm past that.

 

[yyy]

@primetime11 For an ivy league brother your naivete is amusing. It's not about making right choices. 60% of men will get divorced regardless of the choices they make. And every guy who goes into a marriage BELIEVES he is making the right choice. People are flawed. When there's a chance to take advantage of something, they will. Your wife could love you today, grow to resent you ten years down the line and boom, it's over. And she'll have the courts behind her. Only a naive person would say "choose better". How about not choose at all. And things have changed A GREAT DEAL between now and our parent's generation.

Yeah, I'm not going to lie it's a tough one. My guy friends and I constantly go back and forth on the issue. To make matters worse, my parents aren't even from here, they are from the Caribbean so they grew up in a very different culture. Marriage and the potential for divorce is one of those things in my future that definitely frightens me. At the same time, I really want a family so it's a catch 22. I want to apologize for my earlier tone regarding your Dad and Uncle. I've read a lot about marriage and I think the best thing you can do is find a women who is kind and compassionate in general - not just to you - and hope for the best. And in the case that there is a divorce, you can still remain amicable for the kids sake.

I've heard many men, in real life and on this board rail against marriage. Then they get in a relationship and the next thing you know poof they are walking down the aisle. I'm well aware of the risks that marriage poses but is their really any alternative if you want a family (http://www.nytimes.com/2008/09/07/fashion/07single.html?_r=0)? I think the best bet, would be to marry someone on the same economic level as you, because at least then there will be less of an economic payoff if divorce takes place. But even then, during the relationship she might say something like "Why don't I stop working and take of the kids because you easily make enough." So there aren't any perfect answers.

I am firmly of the belief that a lot of the marriages that end in divorce should have never happened in the first place. In his autobiography Malcolm X talks about how Americans often confuse lust with love and it's true. People who get married during the infatuation stage of the relationship are doing themselves a grave disservice. I believe that marriage (maybe I should say that I hope lol) that marriage is still workable. When I do get married I will go in with a clear knowledge of my partners weakness, she will have to buy into my larger vision of sacrificing our time, energy and money to improve the black community where we live, she will have to be willing to sacrifice for our kids where we live and she will have to be submissive to me. If all of that happens and divorce comes my way, well that's the way life is, nothing is perfect. But kids can still be taken care of in the case of divorce if the partners put their kids first.

Lastly, unlike the Wu-Tang Clang whose motto is C.R.E.A.M. - Cash Rules Everything Around Me - cash is not my main driving force. And if I have to sacrifice some cash (I'll likely never be poor) to chase my dreams of having a family with a girl I deem worthy I'm fine with that. Much better off chasing the life I truly want, rather than living with the "what if" when I'm on my death bed. At the end of the day life is about trade-offs. The person who refuses to get married comes to the conclusion that marriage is not worth the potential loses. I on the other hand, like my parents before me, would gladly give everything I have or obtain for my kids, so there is really no doubt that marriage is in my future. Also being naive isn't such a bad thing. If teenagers and young adults weren't naive the world would be a much more depressing place. The Civil Rights movement was led by naive young people you know lol.