I’ve been with my girl for a year now and I’m tired of smashing the same coochie.

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Why are y’all telling dude to stay? This ain’t *just* about the sex he clearly said he feels too young to settle down

Dude is probably 20 and y’all tryna get him to settle like a 30 year old man

Hell, the dikk is probably trash to her too, just put the both of you out of your collective misery

If she ain’t the one for you,she ain’t the one
 
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Why are y’all telling dude to stay? This ain’t *just* about the sex he clearly said he feels too young to settle down

Dude is probably 20 and y’all tryna get him to settle like a 30 year old man

Hell, the dikk is probably trash to her too, just put the both of you out of your collective misery




Is this true @yezhovschina
 

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You have to cheat a few times breh.


Only downside is that if the other bytches fukk and give head better than your girl then you got a dilemma


I cheated on my girl back a while ago early on :snoop:


I was technically still seeing this thick middle eastern shorty, we were cordial by the time I got with my girl but my girl saw the old messages between me and her :snoop:

I also had videos of me and the shorty that I forgot to delete that my girl found but they were before me and her even started talking so she didn’t really care about those, at least she says :yeshrug:


But the messages between me and her is what fukked with her and still do :wow:
 
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Sone great advice in this thread. Thanks brehs and brehettes.

I’m not tired of her at all; like I said she’s a great girl but the sex is just not fun anymore. I don’t really think “spicing it up” is going to change much. It’s just that everything else apart form the sex is great.
I’m much older than 20 but certainly not :flabbynsick:yet
 
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Sone great advice in this thread. Thanks brehs and brehettes.

I’m not tired of her at all; like I said she’s a great girl but the sex is just not fun anymore. I don’t really think “spicing it up” is going to change much. It’s just that everything else apart form the sex is great.

I’m much older than 20 but certainly not :flabbynsick:yet




Is it that you can't get it up with her anymore?

Is she :flabbynsick:?

Be honest
 

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you young you’ll experience this sooner or later if not already and it’ll be from the nikka you least expect it from:lolbron:

Possibly!

I'm just saying that people who want to play those games and play with peoples lives like that should be careful because not everyone will let you get away unscathed.

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Really is a mental thing.I've never struggled to recycle the same puzzy over & over again.

Just made me more comfortable & efficient at beating it down properly.......But that's just me...








































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I'm always horny
The life of the Zinc and maca root stack

My dikk hard by default. My bytch pick it up like fast food
 

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I wouldn't ever advocate cheating. Its better to just breakup.
But this new wave idea of sexual monogamy being unnatural is a bit out there.
Studies have shown that couples that were virgins before they were married have the most fulfilling sex lives than those that had multiple sexual partners before marriage.
And the more sexual partners one has, the less likely for one to be sexually fulfilled in marriage and the more likely for it to end in divorce.
It's like sugar, the more you consume, the more you want.
Limiting sugar intake, makes you enjoy it more when you have it.
The issue is not sexual monogamy being unnatural.
The issue is too many sex partners.
People need to slow down and show restraint because it yields better results in long-term relationships.
Facts.

These folks out here trying to rewrite biology and history to rationalize their hoeing/cheating.

I met abunch manly & wealthy oldheads who's only sexual partners were their wife(s). Even some of dude type to be catcallers and the sleazy type who would talk about motorboating the waitress while she's still in earshot.

But some dudes just take their vows and convictions seriously. :yeshrug: The sowing wild oats everywhere lifestyle historically has never been the movements of average men
 

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She’s a cool girl and all and I really like her but the sex has become boring :francis:

shyt feels the same and my eyes are beginning to wander but at the same time I don’t want to lose her :mjcry:

I’m the same way after 6 months with a girl

Unfortunately, this is the way.

Approaching 4 years with my girl so you already know... :francis:.
When settling backfires

“Aight this is good enough for now” turned into “This is my girl man” to complaining on The Coli

Take the L you created for yourself by choosing to commit to someone when you weren’t 1,000,000 sure this was long-term wifey material.

Be honest with her: it’s not the right match

Stop wasting her time
 

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When settling backfires

“Aight this is good enough for now” turned into “This is my girl man” to complaining on The Coli

Take the L you created for yourself by choosing to commit to someone when you weren’t 1,000,000 sure this was long-term wifey material.

Be honest with her: it’s not the right match

Stop wasting her time

Yeah, I've been married for 10+ years now and I'm still not tired of being with my wife. If the bond is strong, intimacy shouldn't be running dry.
 

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yeah it would. nikkas are not creative.
and haven't done enough exploration of their bodies.

find other pleasure zones like feet.
get some sex toys.
oils.
leather.
candle wax.
electricity.
bring in a third.

sex shouldn't get boring unless you're a boring person.
majority of the time, I'm good with just foreplay.
don't even need to fukk.

eating p*ssy and just fukking doggy and missionary will get boring fast with anybody.

plus you shouldn't have time to fukk everyday. another sign that you're a boring person.

Leave it to you to know all about suspect homo-erotic shyt.
:pachaha:
 

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Honestly to break this you have to get off Social Media. All that shyt makes your eye wander and when you see all these women on social media it will trigger you to think that the grass is greener on the other side. Having social media is good when your single but I wouldn't advise it if your in a serious commited relationship.

Very very true.
 
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