I guess I'm an outlier, but the few times I've had a woman I claimed it was just her and I. Other women were like museum paintings, I'd look, but never touch, don't want to shyt on anyone but it comes natural, it's a discipline thing. My parents laid the blueprint. Moreover for me the best sex is intimate, I know/like the woman and we're sharing energy/part of ourselves with each other past the physical if it makes sense. I've only had
that higher plane sex like once or twice. The rest was/is just fukking, and I can do
that with anyone and ultimately if the chick isn't an 8+ or she isn't serving it up on a platter (I don't have to do any pursuing at all, she chooses up) I value that a little more than beating my meat but its pretty close. Those 1-2 chicks that I hat that next level sex with, brought balance to my life, added value, improved mood
outside of sex at those junctures in my life. If I am fortunate enough to have that consistently and she checks all the boxes cheating ain't happening not on my end. I'm picky about what I claim or take serious so there's no dilemma, because there's no gray area, only the chasm between women worth it, and all the others.
I would also say it helps that I won't work for/go outta my way for sex. It sounds pompous/arrogant, but I'm not chasing a woman in any sense. If she does outright choose or give choosing/receptive/open behavior or body language, I'm not wasting time or energy proving to her that I'm worth fukking or dating. I'm not even handsome gang either just got too much self respect.
To quote Mobb Deep, "Better recognize or realize" if not I'm unbothered
but it’s the most realistic answer here 
