You’ve got it in one. “I love you but I’m not in love with you.” Just a euphemism for “I just don’t want to be around you anymore.”
U a Virgo breh?I guess I'm an outlier, but the few times I've had a woman I claimed it was just her and I. Other women were like museum paintings, I'd look, but never touch, don't want to shyt on anyone but it comes natural, it's a discipline thing. My parents laid the blueprint. Moreover for me the best sex is intimate, I know/like the woman and we're sharing energy/part of ourselves with each other past the physical if it makes sense. I've only had that higher plane sex like once or twice. The rest was/is just fukking, and I can do that with anyone and ultimately if the chick isn't an 8+ or she isn't serving it up on a platter (I don't have to do any pursuing at all, she chooses up) I value that a little more than beating my meat but its pretty close. Those 1-2 chicks that I hat that next level sex with, brought balance to my life, added value, improved mood outside of sex at those junctures in my life. If I am fortunate enough to have that consistently and she checks all the boxes cheating ain't happening not on my end. I'm picky about what I claim or take serious so there's no dilemma, because there's no gray area, only the chasm between women worth it, and all the others.
I would also say it helps that I won't work for/go outta my way for sex. It sounds pompous/arrogant, but I'm not chasing a woman in any sense. If she does outright choose or give choosing/receptive/open behavior or body language, I'm not wasting time or energy proving to her that I'm worth fukking or dating. I'm not even handsome gang either just got too much self respect.
To quote Mobb Deep, "Better recognize or realize" if not I'm unbothered
I don't subscribe to astrology, but in the realm of belief I'm classified as a Gemini
I donno if I would say its drama but men want excitement just as much it seems.nikkas have just as much desire for drama as females.
Get married brehettes.
When you end up having to start over, trying to vet broads and find one as trustworthy etc. you'll regret the wasted physical and emotional capital over some passing p*ssy. shyt does not add up in the long run.
End up as the old nikka in the club if you want to.
Great PostI didn’t realize this until I took a step back and saw I’ve had friendships last longer than any relationship with my girlfriends. I’ve been in love with them but I never genuinely liked who they were. When being with someone feels like a chore, there’s a problem.
Love between a man and a woman is ALWAYS conditional. If you base that relationship on the condition you fulfil X/Y/Z, it’s no wonder it’s doomed to fail.
If you like someone, you’re not basing that on conditions. There’s a genuine kinship there to stick with them through thick and thin. It took me up until my current relationship to figure this out. Love is transient and fickle. Like is everlasting in my opinion. It’s easier to fall out of love than to fall out of like.
She’s a cool girl and all and I really like her but the sex has become boring
shyt feels the same and my eyes are beginning to wander but at the same time I don’t want to lose her
I didn’t realize this until I took a step back and saw I’ve had friendships last longer than any relationship with my girlfriends. I’ve been in love with them but I never genuinely liked who they were. When being with someone feels like a chore, there’s a problem.
Love between a man and a woman is ALWAYS conditional. If you base that relationship on the condition you fulfil X/Y/Z, it’s no wonder it’s doomed to fail.
If you like someone, you’re not basing that on conditions. There’s a genuine kinship there to stick with them through thick and thin. It took me up until my current relationship to figure this out. Love is transient and fickle. Like is everlasting in my opinion. It’s easier to fall out of love than to fall out of like.
what is there to win? its just a relationship. anybody can be replaced
