I've come to the conclusion that I hate being in relationships

[BaldingSoHard]

Having someone rely on you for their happiness fukking sucks. It's creates unrelenting pressure and for an introvert like me, it just ruins my sense of peace. Especially since women always want to live together and spend all their free time together.

fukk.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

Having someone rely on you for their happiness fukking sucks. It's creates unnecessary pressure and for an introvert like me, it just ruins my sense of peace. Especially since women always want to live together and spend all their free time together.

fukk.

There are women with the same mindset as yours tho. Why not entertain a relationship with them?

 

[killacal]

There are women with the same mindset as yours tho. Why not entertain a relationship with them?

No there's not my nikka, if she likes you just @Big Boss

 

[BaldingSoHard]

No there's not my nikka

Exactly.

They may *start* with the same mindset, but once a woman finds a man who she feels comfortable around and who checks her boxes, all that "I don't need no man" independent shyt goes right out the window and she'll be trying to move in and get pregnant as quickly as possible.

 

[Womb Raider]

That pressure to be someone’s happiness is no fukking joke

 

[TRY GOD]

In before anyone says coli incel

 

[BaldingSoHard]

That pressure to be someone’s happiness is no fukking joke

It's wearing me down, breh.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Maybe you should find a woman that is already happy. More of an independent person.

 

[Mr Rager]

You ain't seen nothing til you been with a girl that will follow you to another room "just to be next to you"

 

[Swirv]

Everybody is posting their relationship gripes today

 

[Commish]

OP..

The good thing is that you don't have to be in relationships, if you feel this way..

One thing I can agree with is that people have some sort of aversion to doing self work. You should never be responsible for someone else's happiness. They should come into the game happy or lay low until they figure shyt out..

You gotta be happy and at peace...

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Maybe you should find a woman that is already happy. More of an independent person.

Every woman I've ever dated was happy when I met them; that's why the honeymoon phase is so great. It's two happy people living their own lives, happily.

What happens after a while is they see that my life is better than theirs and they are "happier" when they're around me and decide that in order to maximize their happiness, we need to be around each other all the time.

That's how this goes.

 

[luckyse7enz]

Everybody is posting their relationship gripes today

Facts

Brehs are bitter as hell this weekend.

 

[WesCrook]

Having someone rely on you for their happiness fukking sucks. It's creates unrelenting pressure and for an introvert like me, it just ruins my sense of peace. Especially since women always want to live together and spend all their free time together.

fukk.

Being expected to initiate all the time is exhausting and it gets old fast.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

OP..

The good thing is that you don't have to be in relationships, if you feel this way..

One thing I can agree with is that people have some sort of aversion to doing self work. You should never be responsible for someone else's happiness. They should come into the game happy or lay low until they figure shyt out..

You gotta be happy and at peace...

I know breh I know.

Problem is my current girl uprooted her entire life and moved across the country to be with me.

Her whole family has been waiting on me to pop the question for the last 3 years.

Already calling me "son in law" and "brother in law" and shyt.

I literally am her life. Getting out of this one is gonna be hard. But if I do, I swear I'm never getting into another relationship again.