I've had 2 of my closest friends tell me how they feel UNFULFILLED in Life.

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I wonder how much freedom is related to fullilment. And how many of us have had true freedom where we can decide and reliably impact our future goals.

Does America truly allow that for everyone? No.
 
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@tuckdog can y’all n1ggas vow to pay child support for all them other n1ggas yall trying to convince to have kids??? It’s only right.
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I remember when I was younger a chick told me straight up she wanted child support from me if I got her pregnant and would love to ruin my life.

“No matter where you go that baby gonna be right there with you.”

:mjlol::mjlol:
 

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I remember when I was younger a chick told me straight up she wanted child support from me if I got her pregnant and would love to ruin my life.

“No matter where you go that baby gonna be right there with you.”

:mjlol::mjlol:

Was this a woman you considered marrying?

What led to her making that comment?
 

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This is the real reason more men are not having kids. White or black.

So y’all go into the relationship expecting to fukk up?

How many of y’all really give any consideration to making yourself a better potential husband/father outside of physical and financial improvements for your own ego?
 

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Both of your analogies come from the perspective of a man that’s predicting the marriage will end before it even begins.

If that’s your mindset going into a marriage. It’s probably going to be a self fulfilling prophecy. You have too much baggage and should probably stay single.

I don’t live life with the fear of becoming a statistic.

Now to be fair I’ve been surrounded by great examples. I was raised by a married man, that was raised by a married man, that was raised by a married man. My whole family tree going back to my great grandparents were married until death. My wife’s family was the same.


Maintaining the nuclear Black family is part of our core values.

The world changes bruh:francis:

If women had the power they did now back then, shyt would have changed a long time ago..

Some husbands/wives cheated and stayed together out of convience, some women simply couldn't leave etc...them old heads had a lot of fukkery...that's neither here or there tho..

If you have been out of the dating game at least 5 years, you are the DJ who brings crates to the party:yeshrug:
 

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#GMB
#NoKidsGang
#SelfishnikkaSquad

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Think you lonely and unfulfilled now, wait until you’re 60. :mjgrin:

What's funny is, I have a younger brother that on paper did everything wrong in life...including having kids at an early age.

Right now? That nikka doing better than most, finally enjoying life and his career. And his kids are just old enough to be driving. Mine have a decade to go, but I told that nikka what a blessing it is to have your kids dap you up and contribute while he still young enough to enjoy it :mjcry::wow:.

There's no other joy than to see your sons and daughters, not even make it, because fukk this country half the time...but just live brehs.

Powerful shyt :wow:
 

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Sounds like you basically agree then. Other than the fact you blame black women for not taking themselves out of this enviornment,but place no blame on the black man:francis:. If black men our happy under European leadership,why wouldn't our women have been. If black men trust the European to create our standards,give us jobs,feed us,and teach us,why wouldn't our women#TheChildOfMan:wow:?

Once you think critically,you will understand what you need to do as a black man. I am currently happily and righteously attached.
Are you purposely playing stupid playa? You know black people were a created group right? You do know the created a class system where we were the underclass right?

Man I’m not even going to get that deep, you honestly think that black women as a whole will get under whatever it is you are proposing?
Lmaoooo nikka good luck with that. I hope it works out.
 

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Both of your analogies come from the perspective of a man that’s predicting the marriage will end before it even begins.

If that’s your mindset going into a marriage. It’s probably going to be a self fulfilling prophecy. You have too much baggage and should probably stay single.

I don’t live life with the fear of becoming a statistic.

Now to be fair I’ve been surrounded by great examples. I was raised by a married man, that was raised by a married man, that was raised by a married man. My whole family tree going back to my great grandparents were married until death. My wife’s family was the same.


Maintaining the nuclear Black family is part of our core values.

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