I've had 2 of my closest friends tell me how they feel UNFULFILLED in Life.

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Humans beings #1 purpose in life is to procreate & keep the human race alive.

If you dont have kids, you will always feel unfulfilled. That's why people who dont want kids end up getting a pet. Everyone has something in them to want to nature & raise.

Except kids is just one small fulfillment, and that's IF the kids goes on to be a good adult. If your child grows up to be a criminal, then what?

If you want TRUE fulfillment you have to strive to be above average in all aspects in life. Kids is one aspect, but you should be touching other goals like career, helping people, and hobbies.

 

[HARLEM AL]

I don’t know any of those situations so I can’t compare.

I believe in a Black man marrying a Black woman and raising Black children in a happy, loving, stable environment.

What you believe and what's possible is to different. Unless the environment wants families that belief aint nothing but a dream. But I will salute you and your wife for making your family work.

 

[Shadow King]

This makes no sense to me. Just because they aren’t embracing their purpose doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

It makes plenty of senses you just don't agree. Humans have evolved past the "kids are your sole purpose" level of existence. For those men simple biology of ejaculating on an egg doesn't mean they've lived a full life and can die at peace now.

 

[tuckgod]

What you believe and what's possible is to different. Unless the environment wants families that belief aint nothing but a dream. But I will salute you and your wife for making your family work.

It’s possible if both parties really want it.

A lot of people get married for all the wrong reasons and wonder why it doesn’t work out.

 

[Marks]

Change your attitude/mindset. Nothing outside of yourself will give you that feeling trust me. For a month try your best to love everything you’re doing (especially at your job). Even the shyt that bugs you or you think is busy work, just feel love and gratitude for it. Do your best in everything, even lifting boxes or something. Don’t half ass anything for the month. Be respectful to everyone, even ppl you think you “hate” rn. Completely change how you see them in your mind and if you can’t do that do your best to not think about them at all.

commit sincerely to this for 30 or 90 days and see what happens.

 

[HARLEM AL]

It’s possible if both parties really want it.

A lot of people get married for all the wrong reasons and wonder why it doesn’t work out.

It dodenst workout out because one party might not want it to work out. And the Laws backed them on it.

 

[OG Talk]

I believe in families to, and I still wouldnt recommend dudes to get married. Seen to many of my dudes get got. Good fathers to their children. They ex wives gave not one fukk.

That’s like advising brothers not to start a business because you’ve experienced some of your friends failing or going bankrupt.

Risk free living doesn’t exist. The better advice is to tell men to marry for the right reasons and use better judgment.

 

[International Playa]

Yeah this ain't a good message. We got millions of kids suffering through poor broken environments, kids that were molested, kids sold through human trafficking. If some people do not want kids that's their decision. And to say kids give you fulfillment is quite silly. Kids do not automatically mean fulfillment. The last thing you want to do is live your life through your kids who may very well resent you or maybe you are a good parent but they go on to be shytty adults.

I understand incel talking points, but the grass ain't always greener on the other side.

Plenty of kids already here that need nurturing, adults too. If you don't or can't have any, you can still find fulfillment in connection.

It doesnt compare to having your own kids breh. Having your own kids that look like you, carry your bloodline & DNA is more fulfilling.

Its egotistical but that's the #1 purpose of humans, procreate & provide conditions by building wealth so that your bloodline remains strong & continues

When it's all said & done, the only evidence you will have left that you been earth is through your descendants

 

[tuckgod]

It dodenst workout out because one party might not want it to work out. And the Laws backed them on it.

That’s a fact, that’s why you have to know who you’re marrying and make sure you’re marrying her for the right reasons.

I see nikkas marry a girl based on her looks, sex skills, career/social status, but never stop to consider her views on motherhood, spirituality, diet, parental roles and responsibilities, etc.

 

[tuckgod]

That’s like advising brothers not to start a business because you’ve experienced some of your friends failing or going bankrupt.

Risk free living doesn’t exist. The better advice is to tell men to marry for the right reasons and use better judgment.

Exactly.

 

[OG Talk]

It makes plenty of senses you just don't agree. Humans have evolved past the "kids are your sole purpose" level of existence. For those men simple biology of ejaculating on an egg doesn't mean they've lived a full life and can die at peace now.

Well you just changed the argument into the concept of kids being your sole purpose. Which is not what I was saying.

 

[HARLEM AL]

That’s like advising brothers not to start a business because you’ve experienced some of your friends failing or going bankrupt.

Risk free living doesn’t exist. The better advice is to tell men to marry for the right reasons and use better judgment.

So I guess you advise nikkas to jump out of a airplane when the parachute only works 50 percent of the time.

And since you use business, Why would you advise someone go into a business with a someone where there's no risk for them but 100% of the reward.

 

[Shadow King]

Well you just changed the argument into the concept of kids being your sole purpose. Which is not what I was saying.

Well y'all are making it seem as if a man without kids can't have purpose, or having kids will solve that dilemma, and neither theory is guaranteed and in some cases is an obligation instead of a true purpose.

 

[RareHunter]

I literally uttered to myself, “life is so boring” before even seeing this thread. Hopefully I can retire in 5-10 yrs so I can just constantly visit different places and walk around taking pictures or some shyt. But knowing me, i would get bored of that after a few months. I don’t know what it’ll for me to feel fulfilled in this life

I be like this to. For some reason I enjoy be alone to, but I was like that as a child. I had many friends but would go into solitude. Balance is key, but yea, I am bored, even at bars and clubs.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

It doesnt compare to having your own kids breh. Having your own kids that look like you, carry your bloodline & DNA is more fulfilling.

Its egotistical but that's the #1 purpose of humans, procreate & provide conditions that your bloodline remains strong & continues

When it's all said & done, the only evidence you will have left that you been earth is through your descendants

Breh I'm telling y'all just because you have kids doesn't automatically mean fulfillment. You think I'd be happy with JUST kids? I wouldn't. The goal to fulfillment is to live above average. Kids, high paid career, volunteering overseas, etc. Someone who's well rounded in life will be much, much more happier than people who just have kids. You keep shouting to have kids but that alone won't make you happy.