I've messed up a lot of potentially great relationships being an idiot

[pimpineasy]

Details on every single one personally?

Some I hit once and never again even though we stayed in contact. They wanted a relationship and I wasn't so sure at the time (not even sure why)

A couple were friends that crushed on me but I was in a relationship that went nowhere. But by the time I was out of mines they were in theres

A couple are doctors/nurses now but at the time I didn't want to do long distance relationships (I still don't)

I still don't really regret my ex's being my ex's but I guess I'm lonely AF now. I'm contemplating hitting up a couple of them. They passive aggressively pursued me but I was on some you shyt at the time. Now I'm like


Dating is just hard af. Been very dissapointed lately. Didn't realize how good I had it back in the day. Feel like I've lost my swag

Welcomw to growing the fukk up . I had the same experiences. When you young you just wild as fukk n don't think ahead. At least its good your realize. The one thing I realized early out is that I never wanted to be the 40yo single guy hitting up the club on a Wednesday

 

[AtomicUse]

Do you actually think exes will portray a image of being sad?

Its all a illusion social media is


Dudes just marinate on the past when they have no options

Please tell them again.

One of my homeboys exes is using pictures of resteraunts they ate at and outfits she wore when they were together to post on social media, but saying she went there/wore them with her new man, she has to do it because the new guy doesn't drive and afford to take her out.

I asked him why he doesn't get a car or better job, but he's just an unmotivated guy. She stay cheatin' on him and getting abused but, what can be do, hes broke with debt and no transportation and she's toxic. They both look good though, real nice in pictures.

My homeboy just moved to DC after he got his masters and already got a steady new life, a way better woman/friends, and looks younger/better every time I see him, but his social media is not flashy, doesn't have a ton of followers, etc. Super low key now.

I also know dudes bragging about making boss moves and hustling but they really throw boxes at UPS and play ball at the rec center.

Believe social media portrayals breh's.

 

[BlackMagnus514]

Story of my fukking life

True story.

 

[Goat poster]

Story of my fukking life

The crazy thing is his ex he was with for 2 years was a bad black columbian girl.

She had a nice style, was smart, nice , open minded and seemingly LOYAL.

He shytted on her and now she's in med school with a new Nikka

He always tells me "you were right bro, I shoulda held on to that"

I'm like

 

[BulletProof]

There's always the one that got away.

Been there.